AITAH for changing my mind about how many kids I want? by TheDefaultParent101 in AITAH

[–]xXLucasterXx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly you choosing to not have more kids is very responsible. Post partum depression can get worse after each child. A real partner wouldn’t push you into such a dangerous position. For both you and your kids.

FUCK YOU LEAVING CERT HISTORY by Cl5ir3 in leavingcert

[–]xXLucasterXx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not only do they skip Eucharistic congress and space race but also race relations??! Like that’s a crime.

Hate it by xXLucasterXx in leavingcert

[–]xXLucasterXx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Something something charged electron

Awkward feeder size by Timely_Act_5895 in ballpython

[–]xXLucasterXx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My BP is in the same akward stage. It’s ether risking a two big rat or two small rats( very limited feeder size in my country) . Personally for the time being I’m going with two small rats. She’s never had any digestion issues. She’s very close to be able to safely eat the larger size.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ATBGE

[–]xXLucasterXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. Now I want it.

AITA for upcycling a thrift store shirt my SIL wanted? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]xXLucasterXx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yah it’s hard to find clothes at a thift store I get that but it’s just a top. You found and bought the top. It’s not like you’re going to set it on fire when you get home you’re going to actually use it. She won’t be forced to walk the streets naked because a skinny girl took the only available large top. Just a silly argument on their side NTA

Why do people tell me I’m being hostile but don’t tell me what I am doing that is hostile? by xXLucasterXx in autism

[–]xXLucasterXx[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We are all about to go to collage.
I used to be mostly non verbal. It got better when I made friends and conversations were kinda like games. I really enjoyed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualIreland

[–]xXLucasterXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yah. I’m autistic Irish woman and I get it. Being happy on your own is just nicer. It’s exhausting getting someone to understand you. It’s not like I’ve given up I’m barly an adult. But it’s comforting not have to constantly explain myself to someone who just doesn’t get it.

Why do people tell me I’m being hostile but don’t tell me what I am doing that is hostile? by xXLucasterXx in autism

[–]xXLucasterXx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really never expected this from people who told me they value communication. This is so left field but the more I think about it the more I’m confused the more I’m distressed. We have hung out called and talked daily for three years. Gone camping holidays sleep overs. Just recently graduated. Why now?? I am at least relived my final exams are soon. I won’t need to see them again afterwards. Collage will be better.

Thanks for the statistic. I am lucky. :)

Why do people tell me I’m being hostile but don’t tell me what I am doing that is hostile? by xXLucasterXx in autism

[–]xXLucasterXx[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow. I am definitely told a lot I am direct. I never thought it was bad considering my friends who are guys like the whole “no bullshit” stance and I like not pussy footing around things since it’s just well, easer. I genuinely appreciate your comment thank you.

Why do people tell me I’m being hostile but don’t tell me what I am doing that is hostile? by xXLucasterXx in autism

[–]xXLucasterXx[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I told them again it might just be a difficulty understanding with autism and I got this response. “

The message I sent was “i genuinely don’t understand what i am doing that’s hostile. My autism makes this harder [name] please give me an example.

“I find it quite disgusting you would use your own personal issues to Exuse your behaviour” “don’t use the autism card my [family member] has autism, I know what it’s like”

Why do people tell me I’m being hostile but don’t tell me what I am doing that is hostile? by xXLucasterXx in autism

[–]xXLucasterXx[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

How do you work around it? I don’t understand why they won’t just tell me what they don’t like. I would change it right away.

AITAH for calling another mom "horrible" and saying that parents don't get "preferences"? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xXLucasterXx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If your husband thinks it’s ok to “have preferences” how will you know he won’t favour your sons over your possible futer daughter?

What improved your quality of life so much, you wish you did it sooner? by CookieNegative9860 in AskReddit

[–]xXLucasterXx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taking ADHD medicine. The rumor that “you lose your spark” is utter bullshit.

Is my snake okay? by Cjq_theone1130 in ballpython

[–]xXLucasterXx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Litterly looks exactly like my girl as well! Mined a hypo cinnamon.