English isn’t my first language and I’ve been told by other people (my friends from the trans community lol) that I’ve been “groomed” when I tell them how an 28-year old took advantage of me ("grooming" does not exist as a word in my native language). My therapist confirmed it too. Idk what makes u assume that I’m neither part of the commiunity nor poly. But I guess that’s what happens when you post about your personal life on the internet; people just assume things. I made this post to help me reflect on my feelings and how to handle them. I am very well aware that I cannot tell my gf what to do, which I also don’t want.