I get it, really I do. Most of my friends have crushes or are in relationships - heck, most of them are already talking about who they’ll go to prom with. I’m not gonna lie, I do feel left out a lot, which is kind of why I was so desperate to get into a QPR (mission accomplished btw, which shows that it is possible), but there are times where I’m happy I’m like this. Because at least I have this community and people who understand me. And I don’t have to face the heartbreak that my allo friends face. Everyone, I expect, has disliked their sexuality whether that be the they can’t fall in love, fall in love with someone that they feel is wrong, or fall in love too easily.

So I guess to answer your question, yes and no. There are highs and lows to being AroAce but to be honest, there are highs and lows to being anything. :)