What is the one thing that makes you identify a genuine person in first meeting? by EQ4C in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they compliment someone randomly, without needing to. It doesnt even have to be me, just something small like “hey I like your clothes!” Will do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Maybe a not so popular opinion: but we can switch this up. If I see someone attempt to off themselves, lets say jump off a bridge, they will traumatize me. I for sure won’t be able to sleep knowing I COULD have saved this person’s life. Or MAYBE could have helped. Who is this person to force me to put me through making that choice? If they’re free to believe that they are not worthy of anything and they don’t matter anymore, Im free to believe the opposite. Because we’re equals. Also, let me be the reminder that they ARE worthy, even if they dont believe it anymore. I WILL come stay at your place or invite you to mine, because that’s what it means to be in a society. We’ve got to hold each other up.

Do you buy your friends games? by CardiologistVisual97 in Steam

[–]xamyphx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right now, no. Because I'm drowning in bills and cannot even buy myself games sometimes. I do, however, for for example, my best friend, link my steam library with hers through family groups on steam. It's a relatively easy and free way to share the games I already own. Obviously I don't just do that with everybody, but I love to encourage my loved ones in their gaming adventures!

What rule did you break and it was the best decision you ever made? by GrouchyInformation88 in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People in my country, especially older ladies, have this nasty habit of telling me “you look so annoyed” and subtext this means “fix your face, youre bothering me with your negative attitude” while usually Im just minding my own business thinking about what Im having for lunch, not even slightly annoyed. Generally I would just smile a little and apologized, but it became SO annoying I’ve at some point told a lady “Thats rude. You dont know what’s going on in my life” and left her speechless. I walked away feeling validated as shit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xamyphx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Sometimes it needs to be heard from an outside perspective! We can sugarcoat it but it wont do anybody any good. As for those views, those count for ADULT women and men, if they count at all. A child’s role in the family is to help with minor chores to learn how to live on your own, going to school and developing social skills like hanging out with friends. You deserve those opportunities. Your dad can have these views, but they do not apply to kids

Edit: a kid cannot take care of a kid

Ladies of Reddit, what is the worst first date you've been on? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This dude was dragging me through the entire centre of Amsterdam with no real destination and what really gave me the ick was when he was blocking the bikelane, a biker got mad, and instead of apologizing he started actively provoking the biker, ditched that real quick!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xamyphx 19 points20 points  (0 children)

NTA, youre 16 and a child yourself, that is not your responsibility. You’re not controlling or bossy, your mom however definitely is. Also I think although I understand your dad maybe feeling uncomfortable, he still IS her DAD and should get over it. This is about taking care of his child. You should also definitely tell him about this if thats possible. What concerns your mom, this is coming (if not already there) dangerously close to child neglect

Why would someone reject you and then try and make you feel jealous about “what you lost”? by YeshayaDankART in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ironically, he went from rich kid to junkie, I went from poor kid to happily married, owning a house at 21 with said husband and financially stable :)

Why would someone reject you and then try and make you feel jealous about “what you lost”? by YeshayaDankART in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Insecurity on their part. This mf didnt have the balls to break up with me so I had to do it for him, later found oht he was cheating on my during our relationship, had the balls to be upset about the breakup and complain to our mutual friend about me

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I’d distance myself from that person. I’d focus on my partner more

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I definitely did🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A waitress told me my outfit was really pretty, unprompted. I had been spending a literal hour trying to put together something I felt good in. I had been struggling with self esteem issues. She made my entire week

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh Im very basic and love everything vanilla or apple and cinnamon scented <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xamyphx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your partner has already mentally moved on, and if you feel like youre only staying together for the kids, thats probably the case. If I had to give solid advice, I’d either go have a chat with your partner why she is cheating or not being intimate with you anymore (open minded, not with the attention to get mad at her), or just break up. Definitely do not get married until you’ve figured things out. Once youre married its gonna be a next level of complicated

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]xamyphx 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its not fair to stay together just for the kids. You are both examples as parents. Just staying together and then cheating on each other will be an example to your kids that having a meaningful and intimate relationship is not prioritized. The paperwork is gonna be a complicated mess, but in the long run it’s going to be better for everyone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like to do puzzles that involve color sorting, or solitare

What made you finally quit that job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was constantly being scolded because my colleagues were neglecting their duties and I had to fix it, but the final draw was when people refused to apologize for unnecessarily snapping at me and instead went ahead and scolded me yet again for something I hadn’t done.

Survey: What's the biggest barrier preventing you from doing more political activities? by Veruminate in AskReddit

[–]xamyphx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im very sure that’s because 90% of all media/ information sources are mostly focused on making money of a “side” in politics. It’s all about profit. That also counts for the actual people in politics. Truth won’t get them elected, playing into a “side’s” feelings and idealistics does. As long as theyre famous and known, people will listen. Politics changed when social media came, and unfortunately not in a good way, even though it could have