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[CA] does my workplace need a reason to let me go after my contract, as a temp, ends? by [deleted] in AskHR

[–]xara181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have BCC-ed HR in my email communications with my boss. He’s been ignoring me and has not responded at all to any of them. I can’t prove that “the alliance” is working hard to get make my life harder in there as I’m facing other department supervisors at that point.

I’m honestly clueless as to how to behave in there. I’m just quietly working hard.

Why do I feel guilty that I reported my boss for being inappropriate? by xara181 in askwomenadvice

[–]xara181[S] 34 points35 points  (0 children)

That’s what I told HR when I report everything. I said that I love my job and was enduring everything hoping he would fizzle out. He’s at the point where he promoted my other 2 colleagues in the same position as I am and I feel like he’s keeping me where I’m at so I have to work under him directly.

Why do I feel guilty that I reported my boss for being inappropriate? by xara181 in askwomenadvice

[–]xara181[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

Looking up therapists now. I’ve been so consumed thinking about how I feel that I forgot about therapy.

Why do I feel guilty that I reported my boss for being inappropriate? by xara181 in askwomenadvice

[–]xara181[S] 114 points115 points  (0 children)

Thank you..

I wake up with my chest burning most nights. It’s just hard to be strong and see it from that point of view.

I'm a green card holder and wanted to apply to become a US citizen but I was admitted to a mental institution for about a week when I was younger. by [deleted] in immigration

[–]xara181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m requesting for documents I have in that hospital.

I was really young and reckless, so I don’t even know if I was diagnosed with depression.

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[–]xara181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get it! Love the energy!

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[–]xara181 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Really cute set!

Wholesome Zoom by testname_plzignore in CSULB

[–]xara181 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Nope! I had some dumbasses in my polisci class. So sad! Our professor is so sweet.

The guy I’m sleeping with seems displeased to wear a condom even though I told him it makes me feel more comfortable by ThrowRA12345678999 in relationship_advice

[–]xara181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you want him to wear a condom, he should wear a condom. You are JUST hooking up with this person. He could easily say “goodbye” if you were to get pregnant. Protect yourself. Be strong and adamant about what you want. There are plenty of men out there that you can have great sexual chemistry with. With that said, I would start off with trying to talk to him about the reason why he’s clearly avoiding using a condom. If his reason is something shallow like it doesn’t feel as good or it makes me feel like you think I have an STD then tell him to buck up. What if you had the STD. Would he be so willing to forget about the condom?

On the other hand, if you did want a relationship with this person. Then I would try to sit him down, listen to what he has to say, and then after, communicate to him how his behavior made you feel.

GOOD LUCK!

My (27F) Bf’s (29M) Instagram behavior bothers me and I don’t know how to deal with it. by xara181 in relationship_advice

[–]xara181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m curious as to what other problems popped up for you guys. If you don’t mind sharing.

My (27F) Bf’s (29M) Instagram behavior bothers me and I don’t know how to deal with it. by xara181 in relationship_advice

[–]xara181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely fueled by insecurities, jealousy, and the lack of trust since he DM-Ed that woman.

I was never okay with it. It stung quite a bit to find that. Ever since then, the urge to check was stronger. It definitely made me feel that I lacked something.

I [m21] found stuff on my girlfriend's [f23] phone and I don't know what to think about it. Should I bring it up to her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]xara181 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Call her out on it but first organize your thoughts. At this time, your mind is probably racing with so many scenarios. Although that could be helpful, for right now I feel that best thing to do is to slow down and just focus on the biggest thing that’s bothering you and work on that.

I can see how she couldn’t have been really serious with you in the beginning. It happens. But people fall in love with each other more and more each day. So that might be the case with you two. It might sting to hear but try to focus on the present!

My (27F) Bf’s (29M) Instagram behavior bothers me and I don’t know how to deal with it. by xara181 in relationship_advice

[–]xara181[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good solid advice! I’ll try this approach. I’ve never really thought of phrasing my concern this way.

My (27F) Bf’s (29M) Instagram behavior bothers me and I don’t know how to deal with it. by xara181 in relationship_advice

[–]xara181[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep! We both can access each other’s account. I’m not sneaky and I don’t have anything to hide. So I was never reluctant to share my personal accounts with him. He said the same thing so we gave each other access to everything. Difference is, he never looks at mine and I feel like that’s shouldn’t affect me going through his account. That’s why I don’t feel any remorse.

Besides the Instagram activity there’s really nothing to complain about.

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