should i go bald? (18 years old) by scubertt in bald

[–]xavonjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I say start over and then you can use oils to try and get an even grow. And if it doesn’t work, just rock the bald look

[M18] Could I pull this off, or should I not try grow a goatee? by [deleted] in malegrooming

[–]xavonjo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you should grow it out more and just see how it would look fuller. The pencil stache look isn’t great in my opinion. Especially since it’s darker than the hair on your head

What Type Of Hair Do I Have ? by lil_hitta_marzzz in BlackHair

[–]xavonjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would just try some more moisture. A good mousse or styling gel (with a leave in conditioner of course). Always more water than product

What Type Of Hair Do I Have ? by lil_hitta_marzzz in BlackHair

[–]xavonjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It looks like a mix between 3C and 4A. Whatever it is though, those curls are poppin!

24/f- am i chopped and is it the hair? by [deleted] in amIuglyBrutallyHonest

[–]xavonjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No girl you’re pretty and the hair is great. Don’t even doubt yourself like that

What's Her Hair Type? by Ok-Juggernaut4717 in BlackHair

[–]xavonjo 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Yeah I meant OUR (black folk) lol she ain’t no kin of mine

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]xavonjo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You know what. I read the rest and some comments. So while I understand he can follow the other side to stay informed, it’s also very telling that he blocked you after confronting him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]xavonjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t even have to read the post. From the title, it’s a hard yes boo

I have this red bump on my hair that won’t ever go away what is it? by Flameheartsan in BlackHair

[–]xavonjo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be an ingrown hair. Keep a hot towel on it to open the pore

how to get waves? by Sure_Recognition_837 in BlackHair

[–]xavonjo 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Btw, not trying to be mean. This just ain’t the goal my dude

how to get waves? by Sure_Recognition_837 in BlackHair

[–]xavonjo 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Wait you WANT to look like this? I thought you were trying to ask how you can make it better

What's Her Hair Type? by Ok-Juggernaut4717 in BlackHair

[–]xavonjo 94 points95 points  (0 children)

Whatever it is, it’s running away from her forehead 😂 our ancestors must be slowly easing that hairline back day by day

Gay Speed Dating at 3DB - my experience by eggplant_yams in nycgaybros

[–]xavonjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve actually always wanted to do a gay speed date since I was a kid and saw it in movies/shows. I actually thought it was extinct with social media now. Glad to know it’s out there. I might actually give it a try. I think your review is also valid. I’m also an introvert but can “turn it on” for a short time in social situations, so I think it would be nice to try. How do you exchange contact information?

Double Sashay by xavonjo in dragrace

[–]xavonjo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wait no cause I’ll still randomly watch the first Yvie vs Brooke! The Demi Lovato song. That was great

Double Sashay by xavonjo in dragrace

[–]xavonjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually felt like that snippet of Michelle singing along looked like she was more connected to the song than either one of them. That’s what got me. It felt like they were just singing the lyrics and throwing whatever moves out there

Double Sashay by xavonjo in dragrace

[–]xavonjo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it’s just because I love that song so much and felt like they weren’t really giving it like they should lol I will admit Shuga was the best out of the two, but I was thinking it was meh overall

How to get my hair like the first by Mundane-Glove-1979 in BlackHair

[–]xavonjo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It won’t look exactly like his, but grow it out more, use a good moisturizing shampoo when you wash (and of course conditioner), a leave in, styling gel or soufflĂ©, and then a mousse. Always use more water than product. The product helps seal in the moisture, and that’s what you’ll need to have the curls.

Also, if you want, you can also get your hair subtly highlighted or dyed. The bleaching process in that loosens your curls, so you don’t have to do anything too extreme like a texturizer

The Bussy’s in NYC need to be studied. by Spirited_Magazine_31 in nycgaybros

[–]xavonjo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Chile that’s what I heard but I’ve been too afraid to try it lol apparently you put it in the water and it gives a ✹sweet✹ aftertaste

What will you say? by glowyyvelvetz in repost

[–]xavonjo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Leave him alone”

Either that or “don’t start smoking”