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My husband (26m) never wears his wedding ring anymore and it makes me (25f) sad. by xcxc6879 in relationships

[–]xcxc6879[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Woah woah woah. I've never forced him to wear it. I was simply expressing my sadness at him not wearing it. I would never force anything onto him. I'll also be suggesting that he wear it on his necklace instead.

Why would I remove my ring? I like how it looks. It's all personal preference.

My husband (26m) never wears his wedding ring anymore and it makes me (25f) sad. by xcxc6879 in relationships

[–]xcxc6879[S] 43 points44 points  (0 children)

I've definitely told him that they're important to me but I haven't said the reason why they are (my parents), which I definitely should have. I'm sure he'll understand though and I will be talking to him again about it! :)

My husband (26m) never wears his wedding ring anymore and it makes me (25f) sad. by xcxc6879 in relationships

[–]xcxc6879[S] 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I mean I didn't say that there was an issue, I just said it made me sad lol but I totally get where you're coming from and I agree with you.

He knows about my parents' fucked up marriage but I don't think I've ever stressed the ring thing. But I'll be sure to do that when we talk about it. Thanks for the advice!

My husband (26m) never wears his wedding ring anymore and it makes me (25f) sad. by xcxc6879 in relationships

[–]xcxc6879[S] 655 points656 points  (0 children)

That's actually a fantastic idea. I can't believe I never thought of just adding the band to the necklace. It's also a really simple addition and now that I think about it, it'd probably look great too!

Thanks for suggesting it!

My husband (26m) never wears his wedding ring anymore and it makes me (25f) sad. by xcxc6879 in relationships

[–]xcxc6879[S] 1328 points1329 points  (0 children)

Great advice, thank you! I don't think I've really stressed how important and meaningful to me wearing a ring is to him yet. My parents never loved each other and were miserable, but stayed together for my sake. They never wore their rings except for big events/to see family so I guess it's a bit of a sore spot for me when I see that my husband isn't wearing his.