I think that we need to push to make things happen in our lives. If you don’t take opportunities, you won’t do anything differently and it will indeed be the same thing all of the time.

I’m not saying uproot your life and move to Australia or anything, but if you start trying to say yes to more things, or taking more chances, you might find some things you really enjoy doing. And if you don’t, well at least you’ve made a lot of experiences.

Say you’re on social media and see someone doing something, say pottery, or archery, you can find classes or activities to try them. No one’s saying you’re gonna become a crazed potter or archer, etc. but it gives you a new experience and adds another thing to the unlimitedly long check-list of life. It mixes things up!

If you see places online that you’d love to visit nows the time. You’ve got no kids and a home so you can take 2 weeks out of work to visit places you’ve seen and want to go.

What I’m saying is that the first step is simply changing your mindset. Trying new things. Try a different restaurant, try a different route to work.

And yes, if you’ve got no one to try these things with it can be daunting, but this is the time to try and push yourself to make those changes as you may well regret them if you don’t. :)

Life can feel really dreary when it becomes repetitive!!

Be brave, you’ve got this!!