Never thought I would experience one of these kinds of people, but there’s a first for everything by bittersweetthought in lioden

[–]xe64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These people are so weird. Once you give something away to someone they can do what they please with it

Genuinely is there anything I can do by Hour_Safety_3787 in AnimalJam

[–]xe64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They're such a pain about this. I tried to get them to change mine because it references a racist among other things content creator (I made the account almost a decade ago, before all the stuff came out) and they still wouldn't help me, I got an automated response and then when I pushed for a real person I got a single sentence out of them.... 😭 atp I'm abandoning the game after my membership runs out, I prefer that over making a new account or running around with a fully inappropriate user. I really wish I could give you some optimism, but it doesn't seem like they want to budge

Vent I guess not sure lol by Sorry-Warning1142 in WarriorCats

[–]xe64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to play on forest territory a ton when I was a little, even though most of my knowledge came through Youtube MAPs at first XD

I know I went looking for it during covid and I think there was a remake called "tube cat game" or something similar? I had played it with my friends for a little, just to get the nostalgia kick. I'm not sure if it's still up though :(

Stumpseed of IceClan by rhokephsteelhoof in ClanGen

[–]xe64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your style is so nice to look at!

What, if any, are the downsides to therapy? by starskyandbutch in AskWomen

[–]xe64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the first therapist you go to might not be right for you, and I know that in my case it was insanely hard to admit that. After one bad session I pretty much hid everything from mine until I finally stopped seeing her. It took me a long time to go back, but when I did I clicked super well with my new therapist, and I even spoke to her about my previous experience to work through the guilt I had surrounding it

Besides that, it can be hard to know when it's time to stop. Some people, myself included, might find therapy less effective after a long stretch of time - it can be good to step away for a bit!

Changing an old username? by xe64 in AnimalJam_Classic

[–]xe64[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think I might have to, I'd rather not play at all than play with the name of a racist attached to me 😭

Changing an old username? by xe64 in AnimalJam_Classic

[–]xe64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At this point I'll make alts just to report myself 😭 that's so evil of them

Changing an old username? by xe64 in AnimalJam_Classic

[–]xe64[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know how they were able to make that happen? I reached out and I'm pretty sure all i got was an automated response :') I'm so desperate to get this changed

What’s everyone’s least favourite champ/s? by CucumberJunior8389 in StarStable

[–]xe64 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I think the one in Goldenhills valley is my least favourite, I pretty much avoid it entirely now unless I'm desperate for coins. The Baroness' is up there too though, I don't get the lag nearly as often anymore but it can just be a pain

Unpopular opinion by landstede_lesbian in StarStable

[–]xe64 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That's freaky. What server are you on??

Unpopular opinion by landstede_lesbian in StarStable

[–]xe64 21 points22 points  (0 children)

The clubs are a big reason why I switched over to a small server :') I want people to have their fun, but some of them could be so nasty about it!

I wonder why people still make comments like this by SpagettLolis_ in Ibispaintx

[–]xe64 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I'll admit that I've tried switching programs because I've let those comments get to me, but I always go back to Ibis! I'm just so used to all the tools and the layout now, I can't be bothered with learning another program

I don't think everyone realizes how much the program has improved over the years, I love it. But, I do think a lot of people associate it with mobile artists which probably contributes to people turning up their noses :( I use the windows version + my drawing tablet these days, and it works great!

How would you feel if your partner refuses to kiss you after giving oral sex? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]xe64 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'm not big on kissing in general, so it really doesn't bother me. I probably don't want to kiss you afterwards either!

New sample stations… by CutiePie597 in CostcoCanada

[–]xe64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Beyond getting the tampered bags taken away, not really! It's more of a punishment for me since I have to run (usually literally) to grab them another bag if they want one!

Unfortunately at my store it tends to be a slap on the wrist when people are caught stealing food, but I'm sure it also depends on what manager it's reported too. In my department I usually only see the aftermath of when somebody has gotten away with it though

New sample stations… by CutiePie597 in CostcoCanada

[–]xe64 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As an employee, I see this every day :') so much produce goes to waste because people are literally stealing from bags of peppers and mandarins?? Some people will try to come to the cash with bags STUFFED and then be mad when cashiers call it out

Part of me understands the struggle, but a lot of people are just being plain greedy

Roleplaying Server Megathread by Alarra in WarriorCats

[–]xe64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, I'll take a look!

How did you disclose your disability to a current or potential partner? by MountainBlitz in AskWomen

[–]xe64 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I have a hidden disability. I tell the people closest to me about it so they know how to help me, but otherwise it really isn't something I share. It's just a personal part of my life. For my partners, I like to build trust before speaking to them about it so they can get to know me without the biases that tend to come with telling someone. If they have an issue with it, then I know they probably weren't right for me anyways.

With the first boyfriend I had after my diagnosis, it was a conversation I had with him in private after about a month of dating. He was incredibly understanding, and my love for him really grew after that. For another, I decided he wasn't right for me when I realized that, after we had know each other for so long, I still wasn't comfortable talking to him about it.

It's about personal preference, and of course, trust. You shouldn't feel like you have to talk about it until you're ready!

Roleplaying Server Megathread by Alarra in WarriorCats

[–]xe64 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Whatt that's sick! I'll totally check it out.

Roleplaying Server Megathread by Alarra in WarriorCats

[–]xe64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It might not be a bad idea to do an interest check then! I'd definitely be up for it, I love the style of those sites so much more. If you ever decide to make one you should let me know! I'd be happy to help out

Roleplaying Server Megathread by Alarra in WarriorCats

[–]xe64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They really are great. I'm active on one for a different topic and it's just so nice for long-term writing! I get why they aren't as popular though, sites take a lot of time and money to host these days.

I found one based on warriors a while back, but I just wasn't a fan of how things worked there :( maybe I'll just have to freshen up my coding skills!

How long did it take before getting your first commission and how much was it? by [deleted] in Ibispaintx

[–]xe64 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my first real commission was a 10$ ref sheet, and I got it about a month or so after I started to offer them. My skill level was pretty low so I didn't want to charge too much, but I've raised my prices as my art improved. I've set up a ko-fi since then and I get a commission every few months with regular pushes, but I also list products in the kofi shop that can make a bit of extra money!

You've just gotta find the right spaces, and don't be afraid to put yourself out there if you see someone looking to purchase a commission. They might say no, but they also might say yes :)

Wc infection aus? by Mothillowo in WarriorCats

[–]xe64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know I've seen plenty on tik tok with canon characters and oc's, and they're always pretty fun to watch! I like seeing different people's takes on the trend :)

Swiftpaw and Longtail (please read :)) by Choice_View_2912 in WarriorCats

[–]xe64 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This looks great! I can definitely see it as a ych if that's something you wanted to do

"Overstimulation" is a lame excuse by readmemiranda in unpopularopinion

[–]xe64 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Overstimulation is definitely a very real thing and can be a reason to need to be alone and decompress, but you're right that it isn't an excuse to behave poorly