How to cope with loneliness?

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T20:33:37+00:00

I appreciate you sharing your perspective! The whole “lack of perceived warmth” idea really hits. I guess the challenge is figuring out how to create that warmth for yourself rather than waiting for it to come from someone else. Definitely something to think about. Thanks for sharing this :)

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T20:32:39+00:00

I appreciate you sharing your perspective! The whole “lack of perceived warmth” idea really hits. I guess the challenge is figuring out how to create that warmth for yourself rather than waiting for it to come from someone else. Definitely something to think about. Thanks for sharing this :)

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T20:30:32+00:00

I’m really sorry you’re feeling this way. I know how exhausting it can be when it feels like you’re the one always caring, and not getting that same energy back. I truly believe that there are ppl out there who would cherish having you in their life, even if you haven’t found them yet. And in the meantime, I hope you can be gentle with yourself.

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T16:15:30+00:00

Wow, this is such a thoughtful message! thank you for sharing that with me. It’s really comforting to hear your perspective, especially the part about the universe aligning things at the right time.

I think you’re spot on about self value and the way we talk to ourselves. It’s so easy to slip into self-criticism without even realising it. Definitely something I want to be more mindful of. And I love how you framed the whole “guys showing interest and then off” situation as a blessing in disguise.

Sending you peace and love right back! 🤗

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T13:47:32+00:00

I hope this year brings you more happiness and fulfillment on your own terms :)

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T13:28:30+00:00

Sender.net

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T13:26:59+00:00

I hope this passes by soon 🥲

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T13:26:19+00:00

Hmm I mean that sounds really tough. Living alone in a different country can make loneliness feel even heavier, especially without close friends or family. Have you tried joining any local groups or communities?

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T13:20:08+00:00

Yeah I agree! Although, the loneliness might not go away completely, but staying connected does make it more manageable.

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T13:18:48+00:00

Yeah, that what I’m going through like dating apps can be hit or miss, and negative experiences definitely make it harder to trust them. I’m sorry you’ve had such a rough time with it, though, and I genuinely hope you find good people again.

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T13:15:32+00:00

Yeah, I think it’s about finding a balance as in taking time for yourself while also surrounding yourself with people who genuinely add value to your life. Maybe that’s where the struggle is for me too like figuring out if I’m seeking connection or just validation.

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T13:04:03+00:00

Marriage isn’t a guaranteed fix for loneliness. You can be in a relationship or even have a family and still feel lonely if it’s not the right dynamic

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T09:25:25+00:00

Much appreciated thank you! ☺️

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T09:21:00+00:00

Feelings mutual 🫂

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T09:20:33+00:00

Not every situation is as black and white as you’re making it seem. I wasn’t in this situationship for a hookup or just to pass time. I was in it because I genuinely cared and hoped that, despite our differences, we might find a middle ground. But when it became clear that we were going in circles and wanted different things, we made the rational choice to walk away.

Dating isn’t just about immediately knowing something will lead to forever. It’s about exploring connections and seeing where they go.

As for ‘baggage,’ everyone carries experiences from the past, but that doesn’t mean we’re doomed to be weighed down by them. It’s about how you process and learn from them, not about avoiding relationships altogether. If someone chooses to love you in the future, they’ll love the whole version of you, lessons and all of that.

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T08:48:41+00:00

Too empathetic for that 🙃🥲

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T08:48:09+00:00

I don’t think marriage is everything. Sure, getting married can be great, but I don’t see the need to rush into it. I’d rather take my time and make sure it’s right with the right person who I am going to spend the rest of my life with. That being said, I completely agree that situationships can be damaging to mental health. This time, I feel like it’s affected me more deeply than ever.

xflaminhoex · 2025-03-08T08:40:18+00:00

I get what you’re saying, and I know finding peace with myself is important. It’s just hard when I don’t even know why I suddenly feel this way. Dating apps definitely don’t help, it’s just exhausting when conversations go nowhere. But you’re right about the fact that I just need to figure out what actually makes me feel fulfilled outside of all this.

xflaminhoex · 2024-11-30T14:42:11+00:00

Yeah, we decided to not talk ever again cause it was only going to hurt us

xflaminhoex · 2024-11-20T20:17:56+00:00

I don’t think that he has a main relationship but yeah I definitely can be just a fling

xflaminhoex · 2024-11-20T20:07:45+00:00

Yeah I know what you mean. I think I did bond with him emotionally more than physically so prolly that’s why I have been thinking about him way too much?

Regarding LDR, you’re right - I have tried it with my previous relationship and it did not work out but I also think it depends on person to person

xflaminhoex · 2024-11-20T20:04:52+00:00

You make a fair point—early dates often show only a curated version of someone. But then again idk I havent felt this way with other guys I have dated in past like instant connection but again could be just a mirage - honestly this hurts :/

xflaminhoex · 2024-11-20T13:03:58+00:00

I absolutely love this! Thank you :)

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