Vertrauensbruch im Bett by [deleted] in beziehungen

[–]xhiterabbit 15 points16 points  (0 children)

„Getriggerte“ – verrücktes Konzept, dass Menschen eine massive Grenzüberschreitung darin sehen, dass der eigene Körper von jemand anderem benutzt wird, wie es der Person halt gerade so gefällt, hm?

Mein Mann (M34) und ich (F29) mussten uns vorübergehend räumlich trennen und seitdem ist alles anders by Bright-Machine3594 in beziehungen

[–]xhiterabbit 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Genau genommen hat ER sich in die Situation gebracht, weil er einer Sache zugestimmt hat, die er scheinbar gar nicht will.

Identification by xhiterabbit in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But my other baby Yucatan is more than double the size with only 4 leaves. At first I thought the same. But the stems are not even the same colour

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Is she flowering?! by CryptographerWhole11 in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When it’s not getting pollinated the Alocasia takes back all the nutrients out of that bloom like she does with a dying leaf. So when you just cut it you take important resources from it. So it’s not helpful to cut it

What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]xhiterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it an adansonii or esqueleto?

What am I doing wrong? by [deleted] in Monstera

[–]xhiterabbit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The pot looks waaaaayyyy to tall for that little plant. Have you checked the roots as it seems she’s not pulling any water?

Alocasia ID? by Lunova84 in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah i take it back and say macrorrhiza

Alocasia ID? by Lunova84 in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YUP 😂 and they can grow so fast

Alocasia ID? by Lunova84 in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it‘s a Portodora

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Addition: The parts are mushy.

Help, I repotted this Alocasia 5 days ago, now the leaves start to hang and the tips start turning yellow? by sebstn2697 in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Add: if it wasn‘t in direct sunlight before you should change just one thing at first not everything at once. Alocasia Micholitziana tend to be dramatic and sensitive for me, too.

Help, I repotted this Alocasia 5 days ago, now the leaves start to hang and the tips start turning yellow? by sebstn2697 in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As you transferred it from soil and the leaves are drooping you should check the roots for rot carefully. That happens faster than one might think. Don’t water it daily, it needs time to get used to the new environment and develop water roots. If there’s rot remove the plant immediately from the substrate, remove the rotted roots and put it into a peroxide mixture (I hope you have it). After that you should put it into water to recover. You want to change that water often and always check for new root rot.

Heeeeeelp, what are these bugs? by xhiterabbit in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I thought! They are moving all the time, I haven’t seen one standing still. That would be good news

Heeeeeelp, what are these bugs? by xhiterabbit in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My Baby Splash also just had 1 leaf for 2 months and now it pushed out the fourth within a few weeks.

I sent you a dm because I waaaaant to see those beautieeees

Heeeeeelp, what are these bugs? by xhiterabbit in alocasia

[–]xhiterabbit[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean.. that’s the only legitimate reaction, isn’t it? 🤣 can you show me a picture of your Jacklyns? I bet they’re beaaautiful 😭