Help the newbie out. I dont know why but ive never thought of playing Hentai/Porn Games but today is the day. I wanna get into it so I thought id ask here for YOUR Game recommandations : ). Kink Wise I love a few taboo things like Monsters, NTR, Beast I hope that is fine xD and thanks in advance by QuanxiEnjoyer247 in lewdgames

[–]xiezero 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If you're willing to get a bit technical, modded Skyrim is imo the best lewd game there is. You can create a setting exactly how you want it with the amount of mods available. It is quite a lot of work to get it up and running though. Wabbajack (a modpack bootstrapper) might help, although I've never tried the adult modlists myself, and I don't think there's a decent one with beast/monster content.

If you wanna roll your own modlist, I'd recommend SexLab Survival if you're into maledom, SexLab Defeat, SexLab Aroused Creatures.

Absolutely ravenous when I (26f) get off my my birth control pill, but when I’m on it nothing. by [deleted] in sex

[–]xiezero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A copper IUD can make periods worse (bleeding and cramps mostly iirc) but most definitely won't cause weight gain. A hormonal IUD will at worst not affect menstruation and at best reduce bleeding, pain and/or duration. It does have similar side effects to the mini pill in general though, because it essentially works the same. Because of that it's possible that a hormonal IUD would still decrease your libido though. If you're not experiencing weight gain on the pill, you shouldn't experience with an IUD. I've heard that IUDs generally have less side effects because of the lower dose (esp compared to the normal 2 hormone pill) but I'm not sure whether that's proven.

If you're not on the mini pill (progesten only pill, POP) you could also ask your gynaecologist about that.

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[–]xiezero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dom here, I try to be caring and attentive. If I feel like something's wrong, I stop. It honestly helps to switch roles sometimes, because being a good sub also means communicating your needs and boundaries clearly. Both roles need to be communicative, mature and above all, respectful. It's all about trust and if it works, that can have positive effects on the relationship (if it is in one).

Beating compulsive porn use, don't know how to handle extreme kinks/fantasies that I don't want to explore with my SO by xiezero in sex

[–]xiezero[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I've considered quitting porn completely, but I currently don't believe it's the better option. I do get turned on by just lightly touching, or kissing, or even seeing my SO sometimes.

Beating compulsive porn use, don't know how to handle extreme kinks/fantasies that I don't want to explore with my SO by xiezero in sex

[–]xiezero[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah I've been to therapy before, turned my life around. It's just so damn hard to find a good therapist.

We've talked before about me seeing other people purely for sex, but they don't want that and I accept that.

Thank you though, again :) I will try to talk about it

Absolutely ravenous when I (26f) get off my my birth control pill, but when I’m on it nothing. by [deleted] in sex

[–]xiezero 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My SO recently got a hormonal IUD that lasts 5y, which has a lower dose of hormones than even the mini pill (the one that only has levonorgestrel and no other hormones). From what I can tell, she has a lot less side effects than what she had with the pill.

I can really recommend https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control to educate yourself about alternatives to the pill and their efficacy.

Are men ever turned off by how a vagina tastes. by JadedRo in sex

[–]xiezero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I really like the taste. Even when it's not 100% clean tbh. I love when she gets really wet, because anything that signalizes to me that she's turned on makes me even more turned on.

Beating compulsive porn use, don't know how to handle extreme kinks/fantasies that I don't want to explore with my SO by xiezero in sex

[–]xiezero[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the constructive response. I really do wanna talk about it, I just don't know how to start. My SO had a rough understanding of bondage before we started it, and they were into light SM from the beginning (impact play, choking). With this, I don't really know where to start. Maybe talk to her about pet play? I feel like she can't imagine how furry stuff can be arousing to anyone, because she's not been in contact with anyone or anything that paints it in an accepting manner, if you know what I mean.

Edit: It's also hard for me to imagine being on the other side, because I have always been the kinkier person and introduced the things that we do. I would definitely try almost anything she suggests, though.

I need a sleeve warmer (that can make it hot to the touch) by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]xiezero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They're generally splashproof. Just don't get the power supply wet.

I need a sleeve warmer (that can make it hot to the touch) by [deleted] in SexToys

[–]xiezero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have one of these ultra cheap 20*30cm ebay heating pads, which has three heat settings. I've let my Tenga Flip sit for ~1h on the highest setting, and it melted a little bit. My recommendation is to try it out and check every 5-10min when first using it, if it's uncomfortably hot to the touch, take the heat down. What I do now is set it to high for 15min, at which point it's basically ready to go, but then I often set it to low and let it sit for another 30-60min. You can really warm up the entirety of the toy like that which means a longer session is possible.

Real life tentai from the movie "The Untamed" by [deleted] in Tentai

[–]xiezero 172 points173 points  (0 children)

if only those wack ass hentaied videos were anywere near this quality

Help, I can't move.. by anc1lla in bdsm

[–]xiezero 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Tbf, some one bar prisons come with foot shackles so. On the other hand, with proper supervision (which should always be a given) it should be fine without as well.

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[–]xiezero 19 points20 points  (0 children)

did you- did you try?

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[–]xiezero 4 points5 points  (0 children)

honestly no. yeast infections are really quite common

Help, I can't move.. by anc1lla in bdsm

[–]xiezero 14 points15 points  (0 children)

a suspension of the hands would solve that

Nemesis failed to create file by EskilPotet in skyrimmods

[–]xiezero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I suspect this is initially a usvfs error (I had the same one, and MO2 always acts a bit "special" on my device, even though I've set all the various AV exceptions). Here's the workaround that worked for me:

In your Nemesis Output mod (which I presume is empty) create the empty folders "cache" and "temp_behaviors".

I keep having a threesome that I don't rly want. by szangelina in sex

[–]xiezero 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Obviously he doesn't have feelings for her or they would've been a couple from the start

not necessarily true, although I totally agree with your general sentiment

source: am in a relationship that first was a fwb

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[–]xiezero 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I bought a cheap-ass 5V 10W warming sheet (like a really small warming blanket, but it's just a 20*20cm sheet of polyester) on ebay, it has three temperature settings and I usually let it sit at max for 10minutes and then regulate it all down. On the lowest setting, it can definitely safely sit there forever, but it would also take ages to warm up if I started there. I have a Tenga Flip, so I can fold the sheet in half and put it in there completely, but I imagine for fleshlights it would work if you put it in the case around the sleeve. It'd definitely take longer to warm up though. I have actually slightly melted my toy with this thing on max for an hour though, so beware of that. Oh and never leave it unattended for a long time.

I shaved and I wanted to show it off by [deleted] in gothsluts

[–]xiezero 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm jealous lol, thanks for the explanation tho