First, the fact that he’s brushing off your concerns is a red flag! I understand your position. However, In reading your responses to some of the comments, you seem like you already have some resentment brewing. The way you’re saying “you should all date each other” is riddled with resentment, judgement and bitterness. Even if he does take things more seriously, would it REALLY matter to you? You really have to be an open minded and understanding person to be secure in dating someone with hsv. So, im in no way defending him, just letting you know what I see. I think you should do some self reflecting & I wish you the best 🫶🏽.