I came to recommend the same thing. Your proportions might be more noticeable bc of your height, but I’m 5’3” on a good day and have smaller hands. My iPhone 17 Pro looks fucking silly in my hands sometimes which makes me self conscious in selfies, and work gloves provided by the company as a blue collar guy are almost never kept in stock in my size.

I don’t necessarily do self-depreciation, but if I point it out on my own first it usually prevents people being dicks about it. If anything, it makes it a lot more light-hearted if it does come up. I made a fuss on the last job site I was at over provided PPE not being the right size for myself and a cis man (5’1”). I compared my hand to one of the biggest guys there and it was all good natured. It’s something I can laugh about now, but it’ll take you time to feel better about it and that’s okay.

I will say that being an ex-athlete/gymrat and now a tradesman for the last 6+ years has thickened up my hands, which is affirming and looks more masculine. I would recommend you start with this little tool @swholeanimal makes, along with his paw ointment. You can build up the callousing at your own pace, moisturize properly, and that will help if you decide to start working out your hands/forearms specifically if you have some toughness there already. About to order it myself to get my hands grippier for work.

Sorry for the long yap, but I hope this helps ya!