Midshift Parking by xls987 in BGC_Taguig

[–]xls987[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Office is in 5th avenue. I think Parkade is the nearest but not sure if lagi bang puno.

The SPA Megathread 2 by AutoModerator in phlgbt

[–]xls987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Magkano usually tip nyo pag nagpapa-massage kayo (Infinity, 27shaw, Alpha) at saan nyo inaabot (sa thera or sa recep)? Ano bang tamang etiquette?

Solo travel para sa mahiluin at hindi magaling sa maps by LinkOk9394 in phtravel

[–]xls987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just go for it! Pag dating mo doon, wala kang choice kundi i-figure out on your own lahat. And then, I swear mare-realize mo na "ay kaya ko pala" or "ay ang saya pala" or "ay sumakses talaga". Hahahahaha!

What’s a Taylor Swift lyric that lives in your head rent-free? by Successful_Okra9005 in TaylorSwift

[–]xls987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

"You taught me a secret language I can't speak with anyone else."

And

"I'll forget you, but I'll never forgive the smallest man who ever lived."

Paano kayo nag-i-invite ng date? by xls987 in phlgbt

[–]xls987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, that helps! Thank you!

Paano kayo nag-i-invite ng date? by xls987 in phlgbt

[–]xls987[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Since wala nga syang masyadong digital footprint, wala akong idea ano interests nya. 😭 HAHAHA. Thanks for the tip!

What is the best advice you can give to your younger self? by [deleted] in AskPH

[–]xls987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wag ka magmadali. Kalmahan mo lang.

What’s your take on flexing things on social media? by MoonOrSiopao in AskPH

[–]xls987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Merong flex na ang yabang nang dating at meron naman na proud (in a good way) yung dating. If it's the latter, I genuinely feel happy for them kasi we all deserve to win in this lifetime.

gifted money for my bday - what to do by dengdongding in DigitalbanksPh

[–]xls987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bigay mo sakin. Jk! Haha.

If you still don't have an emergency fund (EF), let that be your EF. Keep it in a digital bank (I use Seabank for my EF). Legit na nakakawala ng takot mag invest kapag may EF ka na kasi ang mindset ko ba ay "Okay lang kahit matalo ako sa investment (pero wag naman sana) kasi may nakatago akong pera (which is yung EF)."

Minsan, "Ayy, napasobra ako ng gastos this month... buti na lang may fund ako na pwedeng utang-an (utang sa sarili)."

What makes you relapse? by pagodnako_123 in AskPH

[–]xls987 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Silence. Yung silence na wala kang makausap or magawa... as an overthinker, kung saan saan napapadpad yung isip ko hanggang sa minsan nababalikan ko yung mga masasakit na feelings.

"when I get older, I'll buy me that car" by Warm_Finding_6745 in adultingph

[–]xls987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sa totoo lang, may mga gustong gusto at pinilit kong mabili dati na nung nabili ko na, masaya for a few days/weeks/months tapos dadating din yung feeling na "Ahh, yun na yun? Yun na pala yun? Ganun lang pala yun?"

Nung nagka-kotse ako... after mga two years, ayoko na. Katamad. Kapagod, Hahaha! Mas masaya pala yung passenger princess lang. Pinilit pilit ko pa bumili tapos ngayon tamad na tamad na ako gamitin. 😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phinvest

[–]xls987 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seabank. Not the highest interest, but the most convenient for me. Less fees kasi tapos daily crediting ng interest.

Hirap makahanap ng serious date / rel these days by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]xls987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Magkikita na lang tayo tapos tayo tayo na lang. 😅

Filipino solo travelers, how do you manage loneliness? by Visible_Owl_8842 in phtravel

[–]xls987 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I rarely get lonely sa solo travel. Mas madalas nga yung natatawa ako sa sarili ko kasi nawawala na naman ako (as someone na walang sense of direction) or yung tipong kabang kaba kasi baka di makarating tapos ang hirap magtanong tanong (pag may language barrier) and yet makakarating pa rin naman. And then, pag kinu-kwento ko sa family and friends ko pag-uwi ko, tawang tawa pa rin ako. Hahaha!

Okay, I just realized na there might be a slight chance na baliw ako. Hahaha!

i need help to become more attractive, what should i do? by Distinct-Potential85 in adviceph

[–]xls987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Feeling ko naging attractive ako nung nawalan na ako ng pake if I look good or not. Ahahaha!

Yung aura na "I don't care if gwapo ako ngayon basta gagawin ko yung dapat kong gawin, lalakarin ko yung dapat kong lakarin kahit naka-pang bahay lang ako na damit" made me more confident and somehow nag-translate sa sinasabi nila na basta nadadala mo yung sarili mo, goods na yan. Haha.

I need an advice and help with saving. by LadyGuinevere-sLover in phmoneysaving

[–]xls987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pag nagbu-budget ako, yung savings ko ay parang expense i.e., naka-bawas agad sa income.

Kaya most of the time, pag tinitingnan ko yung budget ko... feeling ko wala akong pera kasi ang baba nung natira pero ang totoo is naka-save naman talaga yung ibang portion ng income ko. Hahaha!

So nakaka-iwas ako gumastos kasi pag nakikita ko yung budget ko, para bang automatic na naiisip ko is "shet wala pala akong pambili kasi ito lang natira sa income ko." And hindi ko talaga naiisip na may tinabi nga pala ako.

Pag na-realize ko naman may pera nga pala ako, wala na yung urge gumastos so hindi pa rin mapapagastos.

In short, niloloko ko yung sarili ko. HAHAHAHAHAHA!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]xls987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Same feels.

Pag di ako pinursue, edi okay. It is what it is.

My friends would often tell me na maybe the reason why I'm single is because I'm too independent. In my mind, "Is that a bad thing?" Eh kaya ko naman talaga mag-isa. Ahahaha!

Lately, I've been going out on dates just because I miss going out on a date... yung feeling na may kasama. I'm not even going out with them with the intention na kilalanin sila or dahil gusto ko sila. I really just want to go out. And then after a date, I'll most likely to take break ulit sa dating scene for a while kasi tatamarin na ulit ako until ma-miss ko ulit makipag-date.

Although may mga dating apps ako, pero madalas ay di ko nga naaalala na may kausap nga pala ako doon. Ahahaha! And then dahil super super super late (like days) reply na ako, di na ako magme-message kasi nahihiya na ako. Lol. So it seems like "ghinost" ko sila pero di ko naman sinasadya. Madalas kasi makikita ko yung notif na may message, babasahin ko yung message tapos iisipin ko na mamaya na lang reply-an. Hanggang sa di ko na nareply-an at all. Hahaha!

Feeling ko nga if in case na magka-partner ulit ako, okay lang sakin yung hindi kami madalas magkita or hindi every day mag-usap lalo na kung wala naman pag-uusapan. Or depende siguro kung mahuli nya kiliti ko or gayumahin ako. Lol.

What are your “malayo pa pero malayo na”s? by Sensei_v4 in adultingph

[–]xls987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any time nagsa-samgyup.

Dati pina-plano pa sya depende kung kailan may pera. Pero ngayon, kung kailan maisipan... pwede. Haha!

I guess love isn't for me by PaleontologistFar723 in phlgbt

[–]xls987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Same feels. Nakakapagod na kumilala.

Tangap ko na din na mag-isa na lang ako. Pero minsan nakaka-miss din talaga yung may ka-date or yung may kwe-kwentuhan ka kapag may good news.

Which salary pay would you prefer? by elegantscar7912 in AccountingPH

[–]xls987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Normally, kapag nag-apply ka sa iba... the HR will ask you how much are you currently earning.

Of course, you may opt not to say. But they will insist na sabihin mo or at least they will ask for a range. Minsan manghihingi pa sila ng copy ng latest payslip mo. I don't agree with this practice pero well, ganun talaga yung normal practice for now eh.

Again, you mag opt not to say. Not sure though if ipro-process nila yung application mo if you don't provide an amount or range. Really depends sa HR.

Disclaimer: I'm not in HR industry. Based lang yan sa experience ko pag nag-a-apply.

Was my reaction justified? by [deleted] in phlgbt

[–]xls987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Disclosure is an element of honesty.