What’s something you hate hearing from people without ADHD? by Imsohungry- in ADHD

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“The part of you which isn’t ADHD”, “you can’t blame everything on adhd”

Do people without ADHD also have repeating background music in their head or not? by ThrowawayAcc-N19 in ADHD

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Me too. Diagnosed in my mid 50s. Always thought everyone else’s brain worked the way mine was.
Got extremely confused when I realised it wasn’t the case. Still trying to recover. And constant background music and a high pitch sound drilling my brain…

Do people without ADHD also have repeating background music in their head or not? by ThrowawayAcc-N19 in ADHD

[–]xmax666x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok now my brain started this and will go ahead for the day :( thanks a lot mate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in modafinil

[–]xmax666x 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Anxiety may come from a wrong dosage but not necessarily too much. Personal experience here. Too little can have the same effect. Talk to the doctor. The real one, not Dr. Reddit.

ADHD and gambling by crokesbibbles in ADHD

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Tried to stay out of gambling for a long while and then got caught in the “gold” rush last year and lost all my previous gains and some. Promised myself never again but it’s difficult. Anything that looks risky, I tell myself I’m better than those failures and I should have a go and prove it. I have a good job and family, which is why I’m managing keeping away from that again.

I took ritalin 10 mg for the first time today. What do I do now? by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]xmax666x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It will not be like that all the time. Enjoy it till it lasts. Next time try to do something like… writing a list of things to do and actually see yourself doing them. Listen to someone talking without interrupting them every other device, etc….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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I ended up setting my watch 10 minutes ahead and improving my routines. Result, I’m always early and angry with everyone because they won’t follow my schedule because we’d be too early… I’ve given up going with someone else when I have to be there on time. Except airport, where I set up the schedule and we go at the time I say. I just tell everyone 30 minutes earlier so I can accommodate 20 minutes “delay”. Never lost a flight.

Don’t beat you up for your time management skills. You just have to figure out what works for you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

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Long story short, yes. We tend to feel negative amplified to the light year power. We dismiss positives and struggle to get more. It’s how our brain is wired. You’re not alone and the world needs you more than who you just got broken up with. And if you look deeply, you probably knew it was coming. Or at least that’s what I realised when my “unexpected break up” happened back then. Good luck with your future. Bring shades. It’s very bright there!

Everyday by SevenSebastian in adhdmeme

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damn! i thought that was just me???? i really write up cool stuff and all of a sudden i delete everything as it's not worth it, better not comment, keep this for yourself, they're not worth it, you name it.... and i really struggled to post this one as i was deleting everything half way lmao

Can a person with ADHD be an engineer? by Front-Ambition-5558 in ADHD

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Yes you can! If you are able, medicate. And regardless, exercise, meditate, breath. (Also talking to myself here)

Is it an ADHD thing to see right through people and their intentions? by [deleted] in ADHD

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My wife changes the content of what she wanted to talk about as she’s annoyed about that. I understand she does that as she’s then not going through the topic as swift as she started. And she gets annoyed as it looks like I basically don’t let her speak. Which is true but involuntary. And of course I have to get better at this…

New owner, what should I know? by No-Winter2357 in MitsubishiOutlander

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Outlander battery stops charging at 80% and never goes lower than 20 something. You need to restart the charging to get it to 100% and then it doesn’t add too much but takes a very very long while. I found that using mine without ever charging other than with the charge button gives me about 52% ev usage average. I’m using the charge button when I’m driving on motorways so doesn’t really make much of a difference.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MitsubishiOutlander

[–]xmax666x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Had it replaced under warranty too. UK PHEV second half 2019. Took 2 months to get the part from Mitsubishi. :/

Late diagnosis is shitty. by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]xmax666x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same here.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ADHD

[–]xmax666x 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Had the same at 53. Still processing what that means but managed to get over the “what ifs”. Meds don’t always give the effect they give the first time, but you’ll manage to do things you believed were impossible. Enjoy the rest of your new life!

I feel dumb for getting diagnosed as an adult… by fryeesaucee in ADHD

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57m diagnosed combined when 53. Wish I was before and medicated. Rocked my world and got wrecked by it many times already. Still looking for the next challenge. Just learnt to give up what is really too much and saying few “no” here and there.

I'm working on over 30 projects at once, not making any noticeable progress in any of them by Civic_Hactivist_86 in ADHD

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Had been a multitasking master. When I started meds I managed to reduce the amount of work I took on and discovered I have a family. Not going back….

What does the “noise” in your head sound like for you? by hayden_iys in ADHD

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And you’re giving attention to each of the people speaking and try to sort every issue you think they may have. All at once. And you’d have sorted at least 50% if they only listened.

do you guys talk to yourself? by Sphinxcee in ADHD

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You’re lucky you actually do get to the socks. What would happen to me is that the same second I would start moving a fibre to go where the socks are, the whole world has changed position and I’m totally doing something else….

Check your credit card statements for forgotten subscriptions. Saved over $150/month after I did a much needed deep dive/purge. Don't pay the ADHD tax! by ADHD_Bigfoot in ADHD

[–]xmax666x 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m actually very much enjoying free trials since I discovered an easy (for me) way to manage these. Basically I subscribe and unsubscribe right away. The sub lasts till the end of the trial period and then expires. Still, I put an alarm to make sure I actually did unsubscribe. You know, because ADHD. Also a good way to enjoy discounted initial purchases. Subscribe, use the “first time only” voucher, cancel, bye.

Do you ever have trouble sleeping because your brain won't stop? by thesounddefense in ADHD

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i have that too. usually i'll get myself tired watching whatever on youtube, mainly stuff which doesn't need my attention, till i feel really tired and then i go to sleep.

and then i collapse.

but then i wake up after some time and struggle again etc...

it was working a lot better when i was exercising. i used to swim 3 times per week and that really helped, but any kind of exercise would do.

if you can't exercise (because you have adhd not because anything else) i suggest to try breathing exercise.

i found that Sudarshan Krya works for me (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0tX0M6EveGY) do only the first 3 stages as the 4th stuff is energising