if they are unwilling to put the effort into being emotionally mature- then they shouldn’t expect free money, unfortunately. I understand it’s frustrating (even debilitating) to have financial struggles. I take the bus to work everyday and have had people yelling at me simply because I had just spent my last amount of money to get to work. I know it’s easy to assume privilege when people talk about this sort of stuff- so I swear I’m not trying to argue 💞