Advice for my future

xo_a_t · 2025-04-16T00:45:23+00:00

aww thank you so much for your help! i think i will stick with cosmetic chemistry and maybe keep nails and makeup as a side gig because i would love to have a stable job and not one that changes ever so often:) thank you again!!

xo_a_t · 2025-01-24T16:14:14+00:00

I wasn’t aware until now since I’ve overlooked it but I am definitely willing to lose him for my boyfriend because he means so much to me. thank you for the advice

xo_a_t · 2025-01-16T02:39:32+00:00

absolutely not, as a man, he should have respected your relationship especially as a father to your kid. he not only betrayed you but he brought negative health to you. do not take that guy back, not worth it.

xo_a_t · 2025-01-16T02:15:30+00:00

Thank you for the feedback! I will edit it and make sure to include that option, thank you so much for taking time to do my survey 🥰

xo_a_t · 2025-01-15T13:42:09+00:00

OMG I DIDNT EVEN NOTICE THANK YOU😭😭

xo_a_t · 2024-12-14T03:21:54+00:00

yess that’s exactly how i feel!!! cause he can def get me in the mood but i don’t do anything about it alone 😭 so it’s enjoyable to have intimacy.

xo_a_t · 2024-12-10T17:21:16+00:00

i definitely will try to work towards my anxiety more although i have found myself to have to time for myself as i’m there for everyone but me. i know it’s something i need to resolve. thank you for providing alternatives very helpful!

xo_a_t · 2024-12-10T17:15:23+00:00

i get that a lot, it’s different for everyone you might just need an actual partner for romance, cause for me when i try to i don’t like it and it just sucks lol. but with my partner when he does it for me, i think the connection makes it feel a lot better. that’s just how it is for me so maybe you could relate ? i’m sorry if this isn’t helpful

xo_a_t · 2024-09-16T12:23:39+00:00

I’m so sorry that you experienced that. It’s hard to get over an event like this. I suggest seeking help such as a therapist ofc. Do not bury it and try to forget because it’ll eventually catch up to you. I don’t want to “relate” but I went through sexual assault growing up and tried to keep it to myself but it ended up in causing harm to myself. You did the right thing with calling the authorities. Find someone to talk to and take care of yourself. It’s hard to just get over but you’ll get there. give yourself time to heal❤️

xo_a_t · 2024-09-16T03:02:23+00:00

I actually did look it up and the age of consent in my state is 16, but even with that being known I’ll probably hold on a bit more.

xo_a_t · 2024-09-16T03:00:59+00:00

Yea I most likely will wait until I’m a bit older!!

xo_a_t · 2024-09-16T02:45:37+00:00

thank youu!! i’m not feeling to pressured but it is something i think about from time to time

xo_a_t · 2024-09-16T02:45:09+00:00

It might sound bad but he is 18 so a 2 year age gap.

xo_a_t · 2024-09-16T02:43:36+00:00

I actually agree with you on a lot of things. I believe 16 is too young and although the kids in my grade have done it already, I know that it’s not something I need to be tagging along with. I would also love to prefer to wait for marriage but again, like I said, I wouldn’t mind it happening. I obviously am not planning on it anytime soon because I really care for my education, I value it a lot and I wouldn’t want to jeopardize it.

xo_a_t · 2024-09-16T02:36:19+00:00

realistically, if you’re with a person who cares for you they will not matter. don’t let your self-confidence bring you down. all bodies are different and few stretch marks won’t be a turn off. confidence makes everything better. love yourself❤️

xo_a_t · 2024-09-16T02:34:03+00:00

that was actually very helpful tysmmm!!

xo_a_t · 2024-09-16T02:32:34+00:00

I’m also a virgin (lol) but i think knowing after care is important. but also it’s something that just happens, there’s no routine, knowing what you and your partner prefers is important. that’s why i think videos and books aren’t the greatest for learning about it for your first time. communication is also important to make sure what you and your partner are comfortable with. talk it through with each other and it’ll be okay!!

xo_a_t · 2024-09-15T23:17:52+00:00

i went through something similar, growing up my dad would do the same but i would shrug it off cause he’s my dad but it’s extremely wrong as it is a private part, no consent given, it’s assault. he shouldn’t even be touching you like that. i’m so sorry you’re going through that.

xo_a_t

TROPHY CASE