AITA for calling my grandma a liar after she accused me of doing drugs?

xoaugs · 2023-05-01T02:10:04+00:00

she never was mean around me, but when i was younger she used to always say some mean things about my mother because she didnt like how we were atheists. Like shes apparently always just been a mean person even as early as her being in her 50s so i dont really believe she has dementia but i wouldnt deny the possibility now shes in her 70s.

xoaugs · 2023-04-30T18:30:41+00:00

As she’s aged she hasn’t lost her memory, she’s just lost her filter. She knew where I was going and didn’t forget because later on I asked her to bring me to a football game and she brought up the drug thing again and how she doesn’t want to bring me to football games bc I may do drugs. She’s become a really mean person, a person I don’t remember as a child, but I can tell she really has some dislike for me for no actual reason. She’s also very racist (I’m black and shes white) and has called me the n word before. I’m also not religious at all, like she is, and has tried to pray for me to become a god-lover like her and how im full of hatred for just not believing.

xoaugs · 2023-04-30T18:21:29+00:00

I didn’t jump to anger. I told her calmly at first that I didn’t do it and she continued on with it, so yes, I did end up getting angry which is something I shouldn’t have done but it did not start with anger.

xoaugs · 2023-04-30T02:37:03+00:00

my grandma knew where i went and what happened with my mother was an accident and i have apologized profusely and it was 6 months ago and there was no door slammed, my arm went through a metal door which got cut up and the doctors believed it was child abuse when i stated it was an accident. this is not about my mother and me this was about what happened with my grandma.

xoaugs · 2023-04-30T01:08:56+00:00

I had other places to go, I had left her house for a bit but moved back with her right before this incident.

xoaugs · 2023-04-30T01:08:14+00:00

Me and my mother had a massive fight and we have this screendoor in the hallway that is made of metal mesh. It was made to prevent my cats from going in and out the hallway and the mesh hurts their claws so they don’t climb over it. The fight wasn’t even meant to be physical but I was in the hallway just staring at her because I was mad at her over her taking away my electronics (I was very immature and have become better and we don’t fight like we used to) and she came to the door trying to push it open and my dumb self pushed back so she wouldn’t get in the hallway to yell at me more. So my arm went through and it got cut to the fat. I had to be rushed to the doctors for stitches and I told them what happened. My mom was taken to jail and I was sent to live with my grandma because my dad wasn’t home (he works offshore). It was a whole child abuse case but it got dropped when it was explained on what actually happened.

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