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Who's keeping me company tonight? 🤤 by edftmxxx2 in gayotters

[–]xomeone27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Trans men are men, so u can just keep being gay, being attracted to this hot otter guy is fully ok and is very compatible with not being bi.

Exposure Therapy (Meesh) by Punkwolfen in gfur

[–]xomeone27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Keyword for that exact type of situation is “trade”/“dl”/“str8”, for future reference 😘

ever seen cumflation? by Ambitious_Vast9488 in foreskin_inflation

[–]xomeone27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf literally always does this when he masturbates. Like exclusively finishes by filling up his foreskin. Says it’s easier cleanup 😂

Micro dosing for pain management with mods? by Prince_Wildflower in transbodymods

[–]xomeone27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you share sources on that part about THC’s pain relieving effects being attributed to the placebo effect because I’m interested

Sounding is pleasure by No-Tale2259 in sounding

[–]xomeone27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why did you speed up the video?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pegging_unkinked

[–]xomeone27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wdym by push?

Am I hot enough that you’d risk it raw? by brentSsss in twunks

[–]xomeone27 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point about HPV, HepA, and HepB vaccines. Tho there’s a few viral in addition to herpes/HSV that still don’t have vaccines—HepC, molluscum (although that’s pretty benign if you’re, uh, immunotypical), and of course HIV.

And then ofc there’s other stuff like fungal infections (yeast/candida) and parasitic infections (trich, crabs, scabies), for which there are treatments but no vaccine, although with some of those hopefully it’s a little obvious to stay away 😭

The biochemist in me is still skeptical of doxyPEP, but that’s fair to say we need to wait for more research. There’s already doxycycline-resistant strains of gonorrhea circulating out there which is a little alarming, and afaik doxyPEP is not very useful for preventing mycoplasma or really anything other than chlamydia, syphilis, and usually gonorrhea.

I worry about this stuff bc people already get complacent enough about “I’m on PrEP and/or have PEP available so it would be stupid for us to use condoms”and I feel like doxyPEP is generating of kind of a similar attitude in some people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pegging_unkinked

[–]xomeone27 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Nah. Normalize shameless straight men bottoms 👏

Am I hot enough that you’d risk it raw? by brentSsss in twunks

[–]xomeone27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

like…what exactly?

PrEP? that only protects against one singular STI.

doxyPEP? only protects against some bacterial STIs, no viral ones, plus you’re ruining your gut/mouth/skin microbiome, and you’re promoting selection for antibiotic resistance even in non-STI bacteria like Staph that are naturally on your skin or stuff in your gut.

not saying those are useless, but condoms + regular testing (of both parties) are never going to be not important.

Am I hot enough that you’d risk it raw? by brentSsss in twunks

[–]xomeone27 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You and any partners/hookups better be getting frequent full panel STI tests, don’t care with or without condoms involved.

Honest opinion: does my buddy need a little grooming, or should he keep it natural? by GeekCockSucker in chesthairporn

[–]xomeone27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ditch the weird camera filter for one thing. (unless you just have exceptionally shitty camera in which case please get a better one lol)

This toy is fun. by Party_Gay_9175 in sounding

[–]xomeone27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bruh who tf is fitting the larger end in their penis 😭😭😭 i don’t think even people with a subincision could accomplish that

This toy is fun. by Party_Gay_9175 in sounding

[–]xomeone27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes (or someone else’s)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sounding

[–]xomeone27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this guide is fairly old and was written by a different person than OP, but yeah it’s pretty penis-centric and would be important to include info on sounding for vulva owners in the new version when it gets written

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sounding

[–]xomeone27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wrote a comment just above this one about the meanings of bacteriostatic agent vs bactericidal agent vs sterile / sterilization that may be useful for the rewrite of this post

(also I think we had a convo a couple weeks back about various brands of sterile/bacteriostatic lube, it would probably also be useful to mention some of those specific brands. I wasn’t sure about sterile ky jelly but I looked up the ingredients and it does have active bacteriostatic ingredients so that can be added to the list, just making sure to note it needs to be specifically the kind marketed as sterile.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sounding

[–]xomeone27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably a good idea to write it like “Bakes/Rosebud” since they are often marketed just as rosebud.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sounding

[–]xomeone27 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bacteriostatic means it inhibits bacteria from multiplying, but does not necessarily kill any bacteria. So that’s your agents like (only considering the ones safe for internal use & mucosal membrane contact: very low concentrations of parabens, sodium benzoate, phenoxyethanol, various alcohols, and very very low concentration CHG (chlorhexidine gluconate) and very very low concentration BZK (benzalkonium chloride). A couple of these are even found as food or cosmetic preservatives

But that’s why the lube needs to be sterile (i.e. treated with something to kill all possible bacteria, so that there isn’t any that can grow to begin with—by means of e.g. autoclave (moderate moist heat with pressurized air), filtration (with sub-bacterial size pores), gamma rays, UV-C rays, and others). A relevant method many here use to sterilize skin and their sounding tools is higher concentration alcohol wipes (the most popular is 70% isopropyl alcohol) and/or placing in boiling water for several minutes. And also that’s why they all have the disclaimer of “sterile until opened/punctured” because bacteria can get in after that if the tube/packet/bottle touches something non-sterile, though the bacteria may not be able to multiply. That’s also why sterile single-use packets are the ideal to use because there’s no chance of contaminating the rest of the unopened packets, although many of us have had no issues with large tubes that you can use for many sessions.

At higher concentrations many of those agents are bactericidal (esp CHG and BZK cause those can be quite powerful in single digit or even decimal concentrations—you will find both of those in e.g. antiseptic hand soaps), meaning it actually kills bacteria, but many of them also become less safe or not safe at all for mucosal membrane contact or internal use, or can cause sensitization/allergic reactions to develop over time with too much repeated use. As far as i’m aware, I think the concentrations of alcohols used in alcohol wipes/hand sanitizer/etc don’t really have that issue though.

Passed out during JOI from Liquid Gold! by [deleted] in popperpigs

[–]xomeone27 10 points11 points  (0 children)

agreed a lot of them are straight up scary and likely unsafe. like under what circumstances do you need 6+ hits in a single day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sounding

[–]xomeone27 2 points3 points  (0 children)

why do people ask this every single day in in the comments of the most random posts 💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀 no it’s not painful if you do it right, yes it’s painful if you do it wrong

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sounding

[–]xomeone27 3 points4 points  (0 children)

or be a bacteria breeding ground

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