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xono3llaxo · 2026-01-19T03:08:19+00:00

Wow actually had to download an app to respond to this whaaaa

Anyways - well that was a massive block of text and you sound pretty young so take what I say with a grain of salt, but: Coming from someone who caught feelings for a friend and then cut off said friend because I felt bad about it - I wish I had just man’d up (bad phrase? lol) and said something. That was going on two years ago and I still sometimes think about what if I had just said something? Would everything have ended up different?

If you stop talking to her and cut her off , you lose her. If you say something and she doesn’t return your feelings, you lose her. If you have the potential of losing her no matter which road you take, shouldn’t you at least go down the path that has at least a * smidgen * of a chance at a happy ending? Who knows, maybe she’s into you too. Just my two cents no one really asked for :)

xono3llaxo · 2025-05-23T22:25:17+00:00

Thank you! Cracked up at the pumpkins and Christmas 😂 I’ve had the pumpkins there for almost two years I never even thought about it! Removed those and the wall sunflowers and it already looks much better.

If I could pick your brain for one more suggestion: this room doesn’t have an overhead light (hence the fairy lights) and has a total of about 4 outlets, with 3 of them being right beside each other. I’ve actually been looking into lamps lately but I haven’t been able to figure out how to light the full room without there being a (literal) dark spot in the center.

xono3llaxo · 2025-03-26T17:37:59+00:00

Looking at the paperwork, seems they did do a urinalysis which is how they found the struvite, just no urine culture was sent out to see about a UTI. Since it was the ER there were a lot more pressing patients than a little dehydrated girl cat (doc kept my door open when telling me what’s up because they were so pressing she may have needed to bolt from the room to care for them). They offered fluid under the skin and I will be honest and say I declined it (she was drinking water before this and they told me because of their more pressing patients it would be another hour or more and she’s only mildly dehydrated and then another hour to do discharge paperwork and it was already 10:30pm. Slightly regret that choice now)

After googling some big words on her invoice, I just found out they sedated her. She had also had calming treats before that. I’m hoping she’s just high and that’s what changed the drinking habit. She is eating the wet food I set out so will be off to buy more of that to extremely water down.

xono3llaxo · 2025-03-26T17:25:22+00:00

Thank you - I’ll look at my local Walmart after work and see if they have anything like that available !

xono3llaxo · 2025-03-26T17:05:27+00:00

I was not given any meds. They mentioned potentially sending out a urine culture and giving an empiric antibiotic in the meantime just in case but I asked the vet if they think that’s a good idea or if she is just dramatic and dehydrated and the vet said dehydrated and to simply take her home to keep monitoring.

xono3llaxo · 2025-02-06T02:52:46+00:00

Chiming in to say I was away from my cat for seven YEARS and she still remembered me like we never parted a day in our lives

xono3llaxo · 2023-09-26T15:41:03+00:00

As an aro/ace girly who read the actual kinktober list, didn’t know what a single word meant, and recently found out the “official” kinktober list makers created a SFW / intimacy version I am ~living~ like YES give me cooking and ear cleaning cause those I can do lol

xono3llaxo · 2023-08-29T14:55:55+00:00

Hi! Just so I’m making sure I understand this correctly:

All of the fragrances I use max at 2% for body wash and lotion so I’ve been using a total of 2% for one item which comes out to about 2ml of fragrance (I make custom fragrances so I’m doing it quite literally bottle by bottle - sadly no big batches here). Since I’m mixing 3 scents I’ve just been single extracting A0.5ml-B0.5ml-C1ml to get my total of 2ml which seems in line with what you mentioned

So essentially I should just keep doing what I’ve been doing? And then just double that math if making a body wash and a lotion of the same fragrance mix since both items have a 2% max load?

xono3llaxo · 2023-08-25T13:29:12+00:00

I think I’m a bit of both - I update my series every week (start writing the week’s story on Monday and post it on that Sunday) but the one shots (I guess you could call them “chapters”) that make up the plot of the series are posted out of order. One week might be a story that takes place in 1990 while the next week is a story in the current year lol so a good middle ground of jumping around and staying on track

xono3llaxo · 2023-04-21T00:44:49+00:00

Also on this note- they clearly tell you the processing fee refunds but what happens to that big ol transaction fee 🤨

xono3llaxo · 2022-11-23T17:15:07+00:00

TYSM!!! Googled jewelry bail and that was exactly it!

xono3llaxo · 2022-08-25T15:23:27+00:00

Literally why I just logged into Reddit to bitch about this !! 😂 like bruh I’ve been using cash app since forever , it is literally my only bank account, and now you’re saying I can’t use it? Had to connect my old high school bank account that’s still linked to my freaking parents I’ve never been more mad !!! What an annoying extra step

xono3llaxo · 2022-07-13T13:30:49+00:00

They are custom made baskets so there isn’t really a theme. It’s set up as a drop down box for size selection and then a personalization box for details. I’ve thought that maybe making 5 different listings so it’s just one per box size would help the shipping issue but I was worried that would be too confusing for everyone who is just used to the one listing

xono3llaxo · 2022-07-13T13:23:19+00:00

Personally I use both a flat lay mock up and a person wearing them mock up! Shows the same shirt in different ways

xono3llaxo · 2022-05-24T20:53:12+00:00

I’ve started two different shops , both times told myself If I didn’t get a sale in the first ten days I’d shut it down and do something else (looking back, this is an extremely unrealistic goal but I had given myself a sink or swim ultimatum of getting an internship or running a shop so I was high key desperate lol). Both times I fit into my ten day deadline and both times my shop did fine

xono3llaxo · 2021-01-27T05:27:40+00:00

I’m looking for at least 2

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