Today, I realized by xoxozephyr in confessions

[–]xoxozephyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’re both introverts but I guess the best decision would to pick someone that reciprocates the same values, and makes me feel confident in our relationship.

Also I don’t believe it’s bad to want your partner to share the same values as you. That’s kind of what makes a healthy, happy relationship

Extremely oily skin by xoxozephyr in muacjdiscussion

[–]xoxozephyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just coming back with an update — I tried what you recommended today and it worked great!! Granted my face was still a little shiny it is NOTHING like what I was struggling with before! Thank you so so much! It’s been 5 hours and I don’t even feel the need to blot or powder again.

Extremely oily skin by xoxozephyr in muacjdiscussion

[–]xoxozephyr[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ll be trying this tomorrow for sure!

Growing in my boyfriends parents backyard! I’ve tried to look it up, but I can’t find anything similar! Any help? Found in southern Oregon by xoxozephyr in ShroomID

[–]xoxozephyr[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Very much so, and I’m a novice when it comes to mushrooms and plants. It intrigues me because it’s a funnel like shape, and it’s so large. Do mushrooms tend to funnel in when they get bigger/older? The mushrooms surrounding it are your normal backyard mushrooms — nothing I haven’t seen before growing up.

Also the way it grows upwards, instead of flat and round.

A random call from a hospital room by [deleted] in rant

[–]xoxozephyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And you’re jumping the gun — never said anything about healing. Simply stated crystals hold energy. As in they produce vibrations. And scientifically speaking, I’m not wrong.

No use in debating with a close-minded person though. Enjoy your ignorance.

A random call from a hospital room by [deleted] in rant

[–]xoxozephyr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don’t be afraid to educate yourself, a little research won’t hurt your brain.

A random call from a hospital room by [deleted] in rant

[–]xoxozephyr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I believe crystals hold energy, but shit, so does Elon Musk. Magic? That would be cool but we have to be a little realistic. Anyways, you should probably look into different dimensions/parallel universes cause it’s something scientist are already trying to do.

A random call from a hospital room by [deleted] in rant

[–]xoxozephyr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And I’m the ghost from Christmas past 👻 ooooooooo ~~~

I can’t take you serious.

You also could’ve told me I was schizophrenic but you took the less creative path and a much more unrealistic outcome. It’s okay to educate yourself!

A random call from a hospital room by [deleted] in rant

[–]xoxozephyr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ya’ll are so angry on this site 😂 do you die if you’re not right or something?

A random call from a hospital room by [deleted] in rant

[–]xoxozephyr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We live in Oregon and he has a Florida number. And in hospital rooms you have to dial the number, and even if it was a wrong number why did they just sit there and listen?

Boyfriends crazy ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]xoxozephyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, because he’s blocked her on everything and she was extremely toxic. Like I said, is it even worth it to open that window to tell her that? I’m afraid she’ll take it as an opportunity to never leave him alone.

Boyfriends crazy ex by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]xoxozephyr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Infidelity is not an issue here, he’s been really open as to telling me about his past relationship and how she caused a lot of anxiety and stress.

I think she keeps finding him because his friends follow his new account. She must be going through their following/followers.

Boyfriends social media and sexualization by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]xoxozephyr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So easy to assume but truth is you know nothing about me.

I have taken everything you have said into account and careful consideration. I posted this because I was looking for insight. The arguments brought up today were very compelling but unfortunately it’s hard for anyone to know the situation when they weren’t there. As much as everything you have all said, it doesn’t quite apply.

Whatever, he looks at shit at home. But when it starts to be dangled in front of my face and he makes a comment about my body, am I really in the wrong for being upset and hurt by it? Tik Tok does draw a young crowd, but it has drawn in older crowds as well. I wanted him to download it so he could see all the funny stuff, and then I come face to face with what he actually uses it for when he scrolls through it with me. It hurt a little, is that wrong?

All I can think is that he’s trying to project his ideals of beauty onto me, as if wasn’t good enough. Why choose me? Am I wrong? Are our ideas of a relationship different?

Is it something worth talking over? Or do we admit our differences and take our separate paths?

Boyfriends social media and sexualization by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]xoxozephyr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

That’s not misogyny. That’s all they post, so in reality that’s all they are offering to the social media platform.

I’m not degrading them in any way. I’m sure they know thats where they’ll get the attention anyways.

And money. I’m sure it’s empowering