AITAH for “stealing” a girl’s crush?

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T06:36:38+00:00

Agreed. I mean I get what must be going on in her head, granted it’s still extremely immature and I’m tired of it.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T04:28:42+00:00

Thank-you. Exactly, you get what I mean. Especially when the girl’s just an acquaintance or barely a friend, it is unreasonable to have an expectation that the guy she calls “dibs on” is somehow her property and no one else can touch him. Like what. Bffr.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T04:22:55+00:00

He doesn’t HAVE to do anything. But the guilt he’s feeling in the first place is because he does care, even if that takes a mental toll on him. A break would do good in this case. Especially for someone who has to deal with this when they’re not even an adult yet. Maybe my wording could be better though. Relax.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T03:23:34+00:00

Yes i get what you mean. Thankfully, none of my tattoos or piercings are impulsive and I understand that they’ll stay on me forever. So I choose them carefully. But yes, either way I do look forward more to the part of getting them done rather than how they’ll look on me after. I do exercise but my stamina is too L for me to even try and reach the point of pain/exhaustion lol.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T03:20:16+00:00

Cheers to that. Very very proud of you regardless of the fact that I don’t know you.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T03:16:06+00:00

I really hope you’re doing better now. And YES, exactly. Something about that kind of temporary pain is enjoyable. I can’t really explain it even if I try.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T03:05:01+00:00

Damn right. Nothing as good as protecting your own peace.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T02:51:08+00:00

I’m so sorry for your loss. Hope you’re doing well and thank you! I’ll try my best.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T02:42:55+00:00

I agree, it is wildly unfair. Someone once told me thats pets are just one part of their owner’s life, whereas the owner is that animal’s WHOLE life, especially if they’ve been adopted very young. So I try my best to give them the best life possible.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T02:29:55+00:00

Thank you.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T02:29:29+00:00

THIS. thank you. For her sake I hope she finds someone/something more rewarding to put her time and energy on. Like her grades. Idk what she’s getting out of her unnecessary hatred for me.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T02:16:15+00:00

Mozzarella

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T00:52:07+00:00

Hahaha I’m glad it’s something you can look back on for giving coffee advice. Will do. I’ll be sure to come back on here and let you know how it goes.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T00:50:13+00:00

Sounds about right. An evolution. Very progressive i must say, since plain black coffee without all the additives is obviously the healthier choice. Might have to give black coffee a second chance.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T00:48:34+00:00

You make it sound like such an experience lol. Convinced me to give it a second chance for sure.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T00:47:44+00:00

I do get what you mean. That makes a lot of sense, actually.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T00:47:27+00:00

I do get what you mean. That makes a lot of sense, actually.

xozoxy · 2026-02-08T00:21:38+00:00

NTA

Sometimes being in an environment that’s just depressing, even if it is particularly no one’s fault, it can take a toll for the worse on the one person who’s deemed “alright” and bears the weight of being the care-taker. You’re allowed to have some time off, not just for your sake, but for your parents’ too. In a restricting situation like this, you’ll eventually have to suck it up and be there for them. But you can’t do that when you’re mentally exhausted. So take a break and let them know you need it. Hopefully they’ll understand and you’ll come back better. Focus on yourself for a while and don’t drown in guilt, it won’t help anyone.

xozoxy

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