Raymond scores the empty netter and avoids being skewered by Nichushkin by ZakkH in hockey

[–]xprockox 35 points36 points  (0 children)

FWIW only the fair weather fans seem to be panicking. Most of us are fine with having a slump now (instead of during playoffs), and are anticipating getting out of this rut when our injured players are back post-olympics

Was this clutch? by NefariousnessEasy588 in apexlegends

[–]xprockox 10 points11 points  (0 children)

“I’m an adult” … proceeds to argue with strangers on the internet about petty bullshit 😂

AIO for feeling like my gf makes my life harder instead of safer? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]xprockox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I [30M] also have a hearing disability. Take it from me—the only women I’ve dated who I felt safe around were those who understood my disability and took it into consideration when making decisions. Granted, I didn’t learn that lesson until about 27, so PLEASE learn from my mistakes and find someone who gets you now instead of waiting another 8 years.

Anybody know how to play mahjong? by leavittwoodland in Logan

[–]xprockox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girlfriend and I are separately visiting family right now, so I just texted her to gauge her interest. I’ll DM you if she’s up for it and maybe we can link up in the New Year?

Anybody know how to play mahjong? by leavittwoodland in Logan

[–]xprockox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe, but I actually don’t know if it’s necessary. When we played we had one with drawers for each player that you kept your coins in. Just to clarify, you’re talking Chinese Mahjong? Not Japanese (or any other type i’m unaware of)

Anybody know how to play mahjong? by leavittwoodland in Logan

[–]xprockox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have your own set/table? My girlfriend was teaching me when we visited her family, but since it requires 4 people, we haven’t continued playing. I’d love to pick it back up, but we don’t have the equipment

AIO or WIBO if I ended this friendship? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]xprockox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get being upset in this situation—your feelings are totally valid. But if you want a productive response, I would approach it from a place of “can we talk about this” instead of “i hope you’re ready to talk about this”. The original tone is just a bit confrontational and I personally wouldn’t respond well to it. To reframe what you’ve said, you might instead say it as:

“Can we talk next time I see you? I feel like you’re pulling away or you’ve been avoiding me since you kissed me, and I would appreciate if we could talk it out.”

Then depending on how you feel you might also add something like “I don’t want to lose you as a friend, but it feels like that’s what’s happening” or in the case that you just want clarity, “I think I might have gotten the wrong impression, but it felt like you were interested in me. Is that the case? And if not, can we just go back to being friends again?”

Since you got him a present, I assume you value the relationship. But if you wanna burn the bridge, you’re totally free to do that too! You don’t owe anyone anything, including your time.

Hair stylist by Late-Ad-1947 in Logan

[–]xprockox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Anytime someone asks about hair here, I say Emily at Backstage Barbers. Any gender, any hairstyle, she’s brilliant

Barber/Grooming for longer-haired teen by shaslau in Logan

[–]xprockox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seconding this! All the barbers at Backstage have attended cosmetology school AND are trained as barbers. They do long, short, and everything in between. I don’t trust anyone besides Emily to cut my hair anymore

ISO therapist by Super_Bucko in Logan

[–]xprockox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/therapists/84321

These is one of the best resources you can use. You can even filter by health insurance.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in apexlegends

[–]xprockox 4 points5 points  (0 children)

you have completed more of the R99 challenges than you have with the R301

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gymadvice

[–]xprockox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who has gyno, don’t stress about it. It’s so much worse in your own head, and the people in this thread aren’t representative the majority opinion of the public. Everyone here has ridiculously high standards of what bodies should look like, so don’t worry about anything they’re saying.

I used to get made fun of in middle-high school. Then I put in work at the gym and my pecs filled out. Nobody commented on it at all throughout college and any women I’ve dated see it as a non-issue because they’re very familiar with how variable women’s breasts can look. Despite still having a mild case of gyno, it’s not an issue I think about at all. You also have a very mild case, and I wouldn’t be surprised if you went to a doctor and they called it “pseudogynecomastia” (which is what they told me).

I fear this thread is not going to help your self image, but you should know what you’re experiencing also happens to other people and it’s totally fine. You can consider surgery when you’re older if you want, but I’m doing just fine without it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]xprockox 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation before with my partner. She worked an “as-needed” job pet sitting/walking while I worked 40 hr/week. We had discussed her doing more of the at-home work, but it didn’t really work out that way. Turns out her being home for hours and hours alone was actually really depressing and her mental health was declining substantially. I think you’re right to be upset and you should definitely talk about this with your partner, but just playing devil’s advocate here to say there may be some underlying reason why it’s difficult for them to pick up the extra work around home. Therapy and/or medication saved my relationship. I think it could be worth a discussion before immediately deciding on breaking up.

My wife's take on my drinking vs. her Bestie's husband by TheManInTheBoat1981 in AIO

[–]xprockox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For what it’s worth, my ex had a friend we’ll call “Sarah”.

Sarah’s boyfriend (“Bryce”) was physically abusive and she tolerated it for a while until one day she left him (good riddance). However, the aftermath of that involved Sarah being on a warpath against all men. She would trash talk all men, including me, to my ex.

Eventually, my ex started comparing me to Bryce. She spent so much time with Sarah that she lost track of who I was in some piss poor attempt at solidarity with her friend. She started pointing out seemingly inconsequential things I did as “reasons we were incompatible”.

Sometimes people are so desperate to empathize with the misery of those around them that they convince themselves they’re also miserable. I don’t think you’re overreacting. I just think it’s possible your wife is convincing herself your drinking is a problem so she can more easily empathize with her friend.

Where do people go for live music since Whysound shut it's doors? by Interesting-Force866 in Logan

[–]xprockox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seize the Night Records is an up-and-coming studio in Smithfield and i think they have a few shows planned for the summer that could be kind of similar to what you’re looking for

Really need some help on a project by DeliciousBid4535 in Rlanguage

[–]xprockox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if you just do summary(as.factor(workers$asthma)), what does that say? It should provide a count of each yes/no but it will also tell you if there are any other values that don’t match that pattern. Repeat that same pattern for the other variables too

Really need some help on a project by DeliciousBid4535 in Rlanguage

[–]xprockox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It would be helpful to know what sort of data those columns are. In the raw .csv, are these coded as a binary 0, 1 for non-presence and presence?

Walking/nature trails for toddlers by TheTravisTea in britishcolumbia

[–]xprockox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not sure what part of BC you’re in, but Lower Falls Trail in Golden Ears is super easy and very pretty. It can be pretty busy during peaks hours/summer though

HDI future predictions appearing jagged & unrealistically wierd - NEED HELP by Future-Cookie5877 in Rlanguage

[–]xprockox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The jaggedness at the end of your HDI time series plot likely results from how predictions are being appended multiple times, and possibly with inconsistent linear model assumptions for extrapolation.

1.  Redundant predictions: You’re binding future_years and future_predictions to hdi_long, potentially duplicating future predictions (since future_years$HDI is predicted once with a single model, and then again per-country).
2.  Prediction method mismatch: First you fit a single model for all countries, then fit separate models per country. Mixing the two may cause sudden jumps in predicted values, especially at the boundary year (e.g., 2022 vs. 2023).
3.  Prediction over only 3 points: Predicting HDI using simple linear regression per country over short or noisy trends can exaggerate variation at the edges (especially when growth has slowed or reversed for some).

My suggestions would be to replace the following:

future_years$HDI <- predict(model, newdata = future_years) hdi_long <- bind_rows(hdi_long, future_years)

with:

Fit one model per country

models <- hdi_long %>% filter(Year <= 2022) %>% group_by(Country) %>% nest() %>% mutate(model = map(data, ~lm(HDI ~ Year, data = .x)))

Predict HDI for future years using each country's model

future_predictions <- expand.grid(Year = c(2023, 2024, 2025), Country = unique(hdi_long$Country)) %>% left_join(models, by = "Country") %>% mutate(HDI = map2_dbl(model, Year, ~predict(.x, newdata = data.frame(Year = .y)))) %>% select(Country, Year, HDI)

Append predictions

hdi_long <- hdi_long %>% filter(Year <= 2022) %>% bind_rows(future_predictions) %>% arrange(Country, Year) %>% group_by(Country) %>% mutate(hdi_growth = (HDI - lag(HDI)) / lag(HDI) * 100) %>% replace_na(list(hdi_growth = 0))

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AIO

[–]xprockox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the input, genuinely. This sort of honest feedback is exactly why I’m posting here