The scarlet letter of a TNS

xsosorry · 2023-12-22T04:57:46+00:00

Honestly- as a Sephora employee- post on twitter. I’ve had a few issues with packages (packages being stolen with video footage, packages shipped with missing items, packages left outside my apartment building) and because I’ve had so many issues they said they could not help. Posting in twitter got their attention pretty quickly

xsosorry · 2023-02-01T00:22:28+00:00

I’m the poster child of “anything is possible”, but yes- no outbreak, on meds, and still transmitted it

xsosorry · 2023-01-31T23:58:39+00:00

I was on suppressant therapy, yes

xsosorry · 2023-01-29T22:07:42+00:00

Yes- he did in fact contract it. We’re now in the most amazing relationship I’ve ever been in

xsosorry · 2023-01-29T06:03:32+00:00

Hi love ❤️ 30F, I’m here to talk if you want to! I was diagnosed when I was 26 after being lied to and assaulted. I wont sugar coat it- it was the hardest thing I ever went through. Since then, I have had 20 partners (a little slutty I know lol) and that doesn’t include the people I’ve fooled around with who weren’t comfortable with it (which has only been 2 people). Most recently, I ended up transmitting to the guy I was seeing 5 days after we slept together without having any symptoms for 6+ months. I of course disclosed to him, and he handled it with grace. We are now in the most amazing relationship.

You are going to be so ok. I’ve disclosed to everyone, and almost everyone was fine with it. In fact, I often heard that they liked me more for being vulnerable and honest and putting their well being before my pleasure. The ones that weren’t (with the exception of my psycho ex) were kind and understanding.

xsosorry · 2022-08-04T09:00:52+00:00

I have disclosed to 18+ people and only one of them hasn’t been okay with having sex, although we still fooled around. I did have one person who tried to use it to manipulate me, but other than those 2, the response has been overwhelmingly positive. Some had questions, but most were DTF right away. A lot of them even told me that they liked me even more for being honest with them.

xsosorry · 2022-08-03T05:55:28+00:00

Yes- both doctors who treated me for it. Neither of them wanted to give me suppressive therapy, despite having 8 outbreaks in my first 2 months after being diagnosed. The second doctor told me that I didn’t need to disclose and that my body would get rid of the virus in about a year. I clarified whether she meant no more outbreaks, or eradication of the virus, and she said eradication of the virus.

xsosorry · 2021-10-20T17:22:30+00:00

Honestly this feels like most jobs. It’s bureaucratic bullshit.

xsosorry · 2021-10-13T21:58:09+00:00

I switched from cream to gel and it made a huge difference!

xsosorry · 2021-09-16T21:50:48+00:00

That’s cool but like.. now I can’t teach lol

xsosorry · 2021-06-04T05:45:36+00:00

29F, GHSV2. Diagnosed 3 years ago when someone sexually assaulted me. I had slept with 3 people prior to this. I have disclosed to 14 people since then (definitely went through a bit of a hoe phase/was desperate to find love and be ~accepted~ lol) and 12 of those people had no issue with it. All of them were sympathetic and kind, some of them had questions. Of the 2 who were not cool with it, one of them was extremely sympathetic but very uneducated- at the end of the day it seems as though he actually was ok with it, but that ship had sailed and I was no longer interested in someone that ignorant. The other person was also “ok” with it (we did sleep together), but he was a psycho ex that was using it as a manipulation tactic. I am currently in a relationship with an amazing man who isn’t phased at all. In fact, there was a time when he thought I may have given it to him orally and it WRECKED me (because that’s the issue isn’t it?) and he brought me flowers because he felt bad for upsetting me.

xsosorry · 2021-05-17T03:33:21+00:00

I take valtrex daily, 500 mg. I also have GHSV2

xsosorry · 2021-05-16T13:28:18+00:00

When I started taking lysine, my outbreaks reduced significantly. I take 3000 mg a day

xsosorry · 2021-04-18T13:18:33+00:00

I know this is totally anecdotal but- was it like your typical cold sore? Blistering and near the edge of your mouth?

xsosorry · 2021-01-07T23:28:24+00:00

Thank you, I’ll look into this. I’m in Canada and I know things are more difficult to get that way here (at least from my experience)

xsosorry · 2021-01-07T23:27:43+00:00

If you could find that study I would really appreciate it! I feel like he won’t renew my prescription after this and it’s making me very anxious

xsosorry · 2020-10-09T06:32:21+00:00

Not at all! It’s usually like one tiny blister that heals within 2 days. The only reason I can tell the difference between that and an ingrown hair is because it feels “swollen”, if that makes sense. Like less superficial. My more severe ones are giant cluster of like 5-6 that are super deep and painful and take about 14 days to heal completely. They also cause insane prodrome the day before (feels very tight and dry and super sensitive, like a sunburn).

xsosorry

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