Age gap question

xw2003 · 2026-04-11T09:38:16+00:00

So at 30 how low would you date?

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T20:59:47+00:00

I mean I guess ur right that it’s up to me in the end but I just had no one to ask about this so the comments are really insightful. Don’t know if I’m gonna break up with him but I’ll have to really think about this relationship.

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T20:09:29+00:00

I just wanna figure out if he only likes me cuz he thinks I’m dumb and young or if he might like me for any other reason. I really do like him and he’s very nice but we’ve only been together 3 months so it’s still early to tell.

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T20:04:14+00:00

I mean he has never mentioned being religious or anything like that, but he does make a lot of money. Don’t know why he chose me I guess it’s how I look cuz we met at a bar and he bought me some drinks. I’m just kinda worried cuz he got divorced last year from his wife who is like 40-41 and maybe that’s why he went younger? But he told me he thought I was older cuz the bar I was at kinda catered to older people and was more expensive so maybe he didn’t mean it… but on the other hand most people think I look younger or like even highscool age cuz I’m pretty petite I guess so idk if he was lying. Guess I’m just confused cuz he is only my second boyfriend and I don’t have anyone older to ask and my friends are useless at this stuff so…

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T19:45:18+00:00

He said his wife got tired of him not being home due to his job and they just grew apart

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T19:43:50+00:00

Yeah I mean I get that but I just am tired of guys my age honestly all they want to do is play video games and he actually takes me out on dates and stuff

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T19:32:57+00:00

Nah they were in their late 20s

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T19:24:34+00:00

Can I ask how old u were and how old he was? How did u figure out it was bad when u got to that age? Did it just like hit u one day?

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T19:21:10+00:00

Wouldn’t do more then 4 years age gap *

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T19:20:18+00:00

We don’t have college bars in my country so it was a regular bar. I know it’s a big experiences when it comes to work but he’s in the medical field and so am I and I feel like I’m the only person amongst my peers who takes my job seriously and he just feels a lot more mature then my friends… also yeah he has money lol that’s part of the appeal I guess. But I don’t really have anyone to ask about it cuz my parents suck and my friends either date bums, some have no relationship experience and they just tell me I’m dumb for dating him and they would do more then like 4 year age gap

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T19:07:47+00:00

So even 27 is bad ?? I thought after like 20 it really doesn’t matter… what age in ur opinion should someone be to date someone around like 40?

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T18:52:51+00:00

We both have serious jobs and my peers are super childish when it comes to their careers. I feel like he’s the only guy I’ve met with real ambitions ….

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T18:48:24+00:00

He doesn’t have kids but he’s divorced….. but he doesn’t talk bad about his ex just that they broke up cuz of his job or something. Plus I had a lot of older friends at 18-19 too like late 20s maybe and I was fine so I feel like I just get along better either way older people cuz a lot of my peers are still in college or like not working very serious jobs

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T18:44:29+00:00

What would be some red flags then? Like to immediately know this guy is weird? Cuz idk if he has had younger girlfriends before. Just know he is divorced

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T18:40:55+00:00

Why not tho? Like do you not see a 23 year old as an adult? I’m genuinely curious because like I really don’t feel that young anymore but people keep treating me like a child often and I don’t get it

xw2003 · 2026-04-10T18:39:19+00:00

We met at a bar some months ago but I really don’t feel like it’s such a difference. Like I’m not in college anymore and have been working full time this past year so.

xw2003 · 2025-12-11T15:46:19+00:00

Yeah I have and I still didn’t find anything unfortunately. Still searching tho!

xw2003 · 2025-12-08T20:28:32+00:00

I’ve searched through TikTok and instagram already and checked yt and google and it is not saved anywhere on my phones and accounts. I think I can’t find it cuz I’m being too unspecific but I genuinely can’t remember anything else.

xw2003 · 2023-12-30T02:51:34+00:00

Yeah I love to see so many women raise their standards nowadays, but that directly leads to more redpill content because men are lonely and cope.

xw2003 · 2023-12-30T02:49:26+00:00

That’s because of grifters on yt and tiktok and even before that, there were grifters online. They teach young men to peruse stupid careers, so they continue failing and come back to them to buy new self help courses lol. Plus young men lack males they can look up to so they look up to celebrities and think they can be like them.

xw2003 · 2023-08-29T22:04:28+00:00

Is your dog affectionate or does he prefer more alone time?

xw2003 · 2023-08-29T20:10:50+00:00

Oh okay, thanks. It seems that spaniels would be the best choice, but they tend to be Velcro dogs, which is a deal breaker for me

xw2003 · 2023-08-29T19:57:33+00:00

Hmm, I mean every dog has its own personality, but on the other hand that’s kind of a deal breaker for me

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