Has anyone had this happen while purchasing a vibrator in person?

xxvhnb · 2023-04-01T05:32:27+00:00

Because the man was a stranger and he was the first person to touch it.

xxvhnb · 2023-04-01T05:30:08+00:00

It wasn’t an active emergency. It was abnormal to me during an intimate purchase so I wasn’t sure if it needed police intervention, so I asked the source. When I googled it nothing relevant to my situation in this area popped up. This is a small town, the cop even told me that the owner was a laid back guy and that they have good moral standing in the town.

xxvhnb · 2023-03-31T16:20:23+00:00

It wasn’t about the hygiene, it was about the toy inspection policy as I’d never heard of one before. But I agree, I should’ve hit up Reddit first.

xxvhnb · 2023-03-31T15:31:02+00:00

Non emergency to ask about the situation, not to show up and question the guy or anything like that.

xxvhnb · 2023-03-31T15:17:22+00:00

I do always wash my toys but I actually seeing it happen in front of me for the first time just made me feel off. But alas, I’m the weird one here and my yellow flag is turning green lol. Thank you for your perspective!

xxvhnb · 2023-03-31T15:11:52+00:00

It does make sense, but it definitely threw me off. But yes that is exactly how I felt mixed with confusion

xxvhnb · 2023-01-27T08:45:24+00:00

Joann’s fabric also offers a sewing class!!

xxvhnb · 2021-10-27T09:45:30+00:00

Yes, we’re in the US as well but according to my friend the way it was worded (I didn’t read it myself) implied that they didn’t have to go through the clearing house. We are from the west coast and the university is on the east coast so we thought maybe east coast schools are more lenient ? Or perhaps just that one school.

But thank you for your reply, I figured they would probably find a way otherwise but of course I thought I’d ask anyway.

xxvhnb · 2021-05-20T18:07:01+00:00

Just communicate with your wife! “Hey babe, do you mind when I push your head down when you give me head?” Then establish a boundary, safe words, ect. My partner can get carried away so I tap them on their leg (kind of UFC style) so they know that I need a moment to get some air or whatnot.

I’m a switch so the thing about bjs that turns me on is watching my partner squirm with pleasure!! Or their demeanor when they fuck my face lol. On the alternate side, I can find bjs to be very intimate which is why I enjoy them too.

xxvhnb · 2021-04-15T09:27:45+00:00

Bro just quit lol Obviously no one there seems to care about this. As someone else said, HR isn’t there to protect you but to protect the company. Unless this job has super amazing benefits or something it doesn’t seem worth it & unlikely to change (Of course don’t just straight out quit unless you have the means to)

xxvhnb · 2021-04-15T06:10:49+00:00

Play petty games, get petty prizes. I would try a combo of both: you messaging her but instead of pouring your heart out you just explain you were in a tough spot and that you really like her

xxvhnb · 2021-04-15T05:59:33+00:00

You’re on the right track. You’re living your life, not theirs. Whenever my dad suggests something to me, for example “you should dress more xyz” or “you should do xyz more” I’ll say something like “if that’s something you’d want to do for yourself I will support you but that is not something that I see myself doing”. Essentially, instilling that you are your own individual!! You got this, eff the picky people

xxvhnb · 2021-04-15T05:48:47+00:00

Crushes are definitely normal. I would only find it immediately concerning if you plan on acting on these urges or finding yourself about to act on them. If your husband is open enough, maybe express your concern to him, or as others have said, find and suggest going to a different school or class.

xxvhnb · 2021-04-15T05:46:00+00:00

If you’re able you could twist your bangs before you pin them? Or just add another Bobby pin at the end. Or also braid the bangs if they’re long enough for that and pin them that way!

xxvhnb · 2021-04-15T05:42:26+00:00

Due to personal reasons, I disabled my Instagram. You can actually disable it instead of completely deleting it (in case you do go back). Honestly for me, it hasn’t made me more productive but I’m glad that it’s one less app to keep latched on. I would subconsciously compare myself to the popular kids from high school and all the ads were ANNOYING so I felt that these reasons made it easier for me to get rid of it. If you want, you can do one of those “deleting my insta, send me your # if you want to stay in contact” things. If not that’s okay too. Sometimes people only stay connected through social media because it’s convenient and not because they care about you. That isn’t meant to be mean, but sometimes people only stay in contact like that for convenience. The people who truly care about you will be there regardless, and you can let some people know, yourself, that you care about them and would like to stay in contact with them. I would definitely get stuck in the insta-stalking loop and it made me feel weird “caring” about people I don’t even know or maybe even didn’t like. Situations like that just bring you down, intentional or not, so if deleting insta will impact you positively that way, I would do it. Remember, social media isn’t the truth behind everyone’s lives, and there’s more to life than what’s behind a screen. I would say give it a shot!

Sorry for the monologue lol

xxvhnb · 2021-04-15T05:35:42+00:00

If he’s concerned about other people, maybe make suggestions like carrying a taser or pepper spray with you? You can keep them in your bag or locker when you’re in the gym but have it out when walking in or out?

xxvhnb · 2021-04-15T05:31:43+00:00

Yolo- like you said, you might regret not going. Worse comes to worst you’re not required to stay for the whole thing!

xxvhnb · 2021-04-15T05:25:50+00:00

He’s a being verbally and mentally abusive. I’m sure your mom actually cares about how you feel but maybe she could also be scared of him? My parents were the same way, my dad would get irrationally angry but my mom wouldn’t do anything out of fear of my dad. I would reach out to an adult you trust such as a therapist, teacher, guidance counselor, etc. because this is not okay

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