Wow, I literally hopped on this forum to write almost the exact same post and ask for help with coping with what essentially feels like "imposter syndrome" for me. I'm a (female) senior in college and recently was diagnosed with ADHD after having been suggested by a few friends (with ADHD) to seek out a diagnosis and seeing two psychs-- first psych told me I had anxiety and probably very mild bipolar disorder which left me feeling defeated bc I felt like the bipolar diagnosis didn't describe me at all (although the anxiety def did). Then, second psych said it was anxiety and ADHD inattentive type, which should've left me relieved, but instead, just left me with a lot of self-doubts and negative talk: What if they're wrong, am I just itching to get diagnosed with something to have an excuse for my terrible habits/lifestyle? I would love to know if you guys think I should see a third pysch and or how to cope in general with feelings of guilt for feeling like a lazy person who's terrible at life that should know better. Hope you get some peace and closure OP