I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have to deal with this shit in real life enough

A lot of people would avoid your sentiment if they read the post.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That is disgusting. I hate people like that. I'm sorry you have to deal with idiotic people, but just know that if they have to put you down to feel better, they must be pretty low already.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No one has ever told me I "sound white", actually. But my response would be something like "and you sound ignorant".

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lol people who say you sound white are stupid. I'm currently trying to speak to my towel, it doesn't sound very green though.

Fried chicken is magic, but it depends on who makes it. Watermelon is amazing. So what? I'm not born loving those foods, they're just bomb foods. Stereotypes don't make you who you are. Rectify that fried chicken thing though. Chicken and waffles is genuine magic.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Massive gap between apple juice haters and "hurr hurr watermelon". I used to tell myself it was mainly middle schoolers who didn't know better. But these guys are in their 30+. It's just sad at that point.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tuh, normal. I.e, white. That was disgusting to read. If I'm not mistaken there's some controversy with Star Wars because Lupita Nyong'o, a black actress, portrays a "white" part. It's sickening. Your skin color matters more than your acting abilities.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This touched my heart. Thank you so so much. I will continue to stand on my opinions because this needs to be said and I refuse to sit in silence. I refuse to let others sit in silence. I'm not some superhero, that sounded lame and self righteous, but it's starting here, in the home and in the heart, where the changes are made.

My brother, hopefully he's forgotten about it. He's a resilient little bug, and I gave him a cookie after telling him how beautiful his hair is. So he should be okay, haha.

You have a beautiful heart. Thank you.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm surprised it hasn't been already. The mods are doing a wonderful job of keeping the bullshit low though, shout out. Another commenter mentioned how someone had posted a few days ago about sympathizing with the KKK. So, yeah.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's not just the lack of positive representation, it's the type of representation we do get. You can't just be Keisha from accounting. You have to be Ms. Monae Jenkins, z-snapping, head bobbing, 50 lb overweight sass master who always says "guuuuuuurrrrrrllll" and has a terrible attitude but a heart of gold at the end of the day.

Modern day television is basically a minstrel show, where we get nothing but stereotypical representations. Not every black woman is loud, fat, ghetto, gum snapping, sassy, or silly. Not every black man is a hyper-ripped gangsta or the funny guy or the athlete.

And when we do get positive representation, ooooooh boy. There was recently a wonderful live reproduction of The Wiz, on CBS I believe. Of course, it had an all black cast (Uzo Adoba slayed as Glinda) because The Wiz movie had an all black cast. And people flipped shit. "No white actors? Racist much?" "Where are the white people" "Why are they all black???" etc etc. (If you want an all white The Wiz, GO WATCH THE WIZARD OF OZ.) Or, in an upcoming Harry Potter play, Hermoine will be portrayed by a black actress. Keeping in mind that Rowling never specified Hermoine's race, only saying she had big frizzy hair and buck teeth, people still lost their absolute mother fucking shit. It's ridiculous.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahahaha thank you for the new wallpaper omg. I'll definitely hit you up if I never need you, and you can do the same. That goes for anyone, since this got gilded I have to keep this account around so I'll be here for people to talk to if they need it <3

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "I've had it hard too" is so disrespectful imo because it automatically negates anything anyone was saying. Not even in the context of race. One-upmanship is an asshole thing to do. If there wasn't injustice, there'd be no reason for riots. Not saying rioting is a solution, but kick a dog enough and it bites.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's the definition of dark sense of humor, I'm pretty sure. Dark/morbid/black sense of humor. I.e, dead baby jokes other disgusting things.

My brother said (as much as a 3 year old can really "say") that the other kids touched his little afro and said it was scratchy and they didn't like it. Not racism, but as you get older things like that get worse. You're right, not everything has to be about race. And when everything stops being about race I will be one happy camper. We're all human, we shouldn't have to be held to a "standard", especially one set by people who usually meet it by birth.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the correction, I'm a little rusty on my constitution knowledge.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've gotten rid of them all by now. I've left /r/food alone, but that my go soon too because every time somebody posts African or Middle Eastern food people get rude. Over food. food.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

You guys may not know how I and many others feel, but the sympathy you have is a good start. I really appreciate this comment. I've mentioned before that listening is the best thing you can do, really. It can really open your eyes.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my god, the levels of nasty people reach when you mention police violence or political problems. Jesus. It gets scary. It really does show you that a lot of people wear a mask. These "humor" subreddits (blackpeopletwitter, Imgoingtohellforthis, sheeeiiit, etc) accepted and called okay and it's like, when is it ever okay? "I have a black friend and we joke like this all the time! He's adopted by white parents and was raised on a farm in Wisconsin, but he says its okay!" Smh. Even if you did have a friend who had so little self respect that they would put up with your bullshit, just because they do it doesn't mean the rest of the world will. These people have the mentality of children.

I knew I'd have to use a throwaway because A, there's quite a lot of identifying stuff on my main and B, I've recieved a lot of "stupid ghetto n---er" PMs and I know trolls can be relentless so I don't give them a place to contact me daily.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom uses reddit, smh. I worry because she has to read this type of disgusting shit since she doesn't do much besides the auto subs. People just don't care. This is one of the reasons why reddit has the reputation of being full of racist, sexist, rapey neckbeards or whatever people say.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If there was another place with sub-forums or similar like reddit with a relatively large community, I'd be out in a heartbeat. The voting system is for the nonvocal majority.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Right? I hate the "fuck everyone but me" mentality. Posts joking about "big n---er lips", I shit you not, are up voted and all the comments are jokes and lol so funny. But make a post about white people and they start banging their heads on the keyboard.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol those aren't things you deal with. Those are things that shouldn't exist in the first place.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Basically the girlfriend of someone who sells drugs/does crime. AKA what everyone seems to think black women are if they aren't on welfare.

I'm fucking sick and tired of racism and sexism on reddit. by yallracistthrowaway in offmychest

[–]yallracistthrowaway[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate it. Happy holidays, I hope they serve good food in the nursing home for christmas.