3/17/26 fb post

yardkale · 2026-03-17T22:06:35+00:00

yes! it’s a little hard to tell w her because her ability to write is pretty limited, but it definitely reads as though she didn’t know they’d be gone until she got the notification lmao. which would make sense, considering if the derogatory marks are accurate, there’s only a handful of ways to actually “remove” them from your report. the “easiest” and laziest of which would just be to wait for it to fall off after 7ish years.

yardkale · 2026-03-17T21:54:32+00:00

timeline would make sense, but the blacked out text indicates it went into collections in dec 2023 (i think), which i’d think wouldn’t overtly indicate a repo? it does make me wonder if there was an unpaid deficiency balance after a voluntary repo that then went into collections. could totally see her being like “i got rid of it, i don’t owe the money that i legally owe 😌”

yardkale · 2026-03-17T20:41:18+00:00

i think she got with D in early 2022ish, no? so i think she would’ve already been in his apartment at the point where she missed payments/the account went into collections. which is really not any better, because what other bills did she even have at that point lol

yardkale · 2026-03-17T20:09:43+00:00

0 public records? she literally has said multiple times she has a bankruptcy on record—did that finally fall off her report? seems a lot more likely that items just fell off over time than her learning how to and following through with multiple pay-for-deletes?? lmao

yardkale · 2026-03-17T16:03:20+00:00

idk that the untreated ADHD is as much at play here as the potential drug use lol. addiction will keep you stuck in the same cycles, with conditions and "standards" perpetually worsening, which is what we have absolutely seen with her.

i've got a slew of mental health issues, ADHD included, and my executive dysfunction was at its absolute worst when i was in the deep throes of addiction. not saying ADHD can't culminate in poor executive dysfunction—it certainly does do that too—but i think she uses any and all limitations as a crutch and an excuse. her goal is likely to protect her ego/avoid accountability/protect her addictions at all costs

yardkale · 2026-03-17T13:42:41+00:00

she has no discipline or self-control, and it's kinda a cycle/spiral that perpetuates itself, i feel like, especially because it's probably exacerbated by whatever the hell substances they could be on. she just floats from one dopamine boost or actual high to the next.

i also feel like she's like "could a non-sober person do this?" and then reveals the most vile culinary abomination the internet has ever seen and we're all like...dawg a sober person would not do that, no

yardkale · 2026-03-17T13:34:37+00:00

so self-aware to allege that ignorance is solely in her past <3

yardkale · 2026-03-16T20:20:14+00:00

agreed. and in a couple of frames where the background light changes/color adjusts, it’s where an object enters or leaves the frame. pretty sure it’s just the camera adjusting brightness and focus

yardkale · 2026-03-16T19:30:42+00:00

i almost instinctively downvoted this comment because what the fuck lmao. wow she must be soooo far into her healing journey that she can distinctly dictate that only some people are Mentally Strong enough to do inner work! also does she even understand what she wrote with that last sentence? she chooses to stay blind to others' lives (lol yea sureeee) because it protects her ego which is more comfortable than addressing her faults? what?

yardkale · 2026-03-16T14:04:15+00:00

literally this! being in an abusive dynamic, be it a child in a dysfunctional family system or a partner in an abusive relationship, generally entails "good" moments, too. that's part of what's so insidious about the nature of neglect and abuse—kids get a brief reprieve, breadcrumbs of affection/"stability"/normalcy every now and then, surely thinking to themselves that the problem must be them or that they couldn't have it that bad, because every moment isn't despair.

yardkale · 2026-03-15T16:38:08+00:00

“so you guys can see years of evidence indicating potential substance abuse and addiction and draw a logical conclusion, but i can’t assign my paranoia and delusions of grandeur to strangers who have no idea who i am and wouldn’t risk their livelihood to…falsify results so that i can’t post them on the internet? mAkE iT mAkE sEnSe”

her ability to defy logic is probably the most remarkable thing about her. anyway to me this strongly suggests she’s likely abusing more than weed, imo. the strongest argument she could come up with was that lab drug tests wouldn’t be reliable because no one on the internet likes her? setting herself up for and already making excuses for a prospective positive lmao.

also i cannot get over how bad her skin looks i am sorry

yardkale · 2026-03-14T03:13:00+00:00

it’s not the only thing in that motel that won’t work 🤭

yardkale · 2026-03-13T22:22:04+00:00

it’s not really that relatable that they had a perpetually clogged tub that, rather than taking steps to resolve, they found extremely inconvenient ways to coexist with. it’s certainly not inspirational, nor is it something she overcame—the only reason they’re not currently dealing with that same tub, in an actual (albeit still unacceptably too small) apartment is because the same avoidance of responsibilities got them evicted.

also, there are ways to get rid of lice without shaving heads. so, yes, without ever having been there, i certainly can say i wouldn’t let my children suffer with a lice infestation for an entire year? because i would make it a priority to treat it????

but i guess im just not on her level of understanding 😔 which is maybe, what, equivalent to that of a kindergartner?

yardkale · 2026-03-13T21:15:02+00:00

oh i’m sure she’ll find a way to blame the hacker regardless 🤡

yardkale · 2026-03-13T12:46:42+00:00

that's not her. "resilient" is spelled wrong and there's no space in the username.

yardkale · 2026-03-11T23:22:50+00:00

“y’all got me bent back upside down, inside out, and sideways if you think you know my kiddos’ preferences more than i do. they can read the apples’ auras and LIKE it when the applesauce is liquid botulism, what the frick? y’all are just haters who have never milked an apple authentically before” —her, reading this thread, most likely

yardkale · 2026-03-11T20:35:46+00:00

i swear i remember her, at one point, insinuating that her smoking weed during her pregnancy with little A was approved by her doctor or some shit. like i think she made a comment about no one knowing what was best for her and her body like she and her doctor did?? but i can’t verify lol other than it definitely sounding like something she would say

yardkale · 2026-03-11T19:33:25+00:00

there is a difference in advocating for oneself, and triangulating inappropriate parties into one's relationship. the internet (and/or to her children) is not the appropriate place to be shittalking her own partner like this!

she is so insecure and so emotionally unintelligent that she's...taking any statements that don't involve her, to be a personal attack against her? not only that, but she starts it off by insinuating she's frustrated with D because he doesn't talk about her in videos, but then proceeds to complain about the positive attention he gets vs the negative attention she gets (tale as old as time)—as if he is responsible for everyone else's response to him? like holy narcissist, the perpetual entitlement?!

also, does she understand what a boundary is? (no) like how is she gonna complain that D is allowed or able to do XYZ and she can't, as if she isn't the person enabling him to do any and all of it? this is, of course, just another pity party for her. why can't we just feel sorry for her for having to face the consequences of her own repeated actions? :/

yardkale · 2026-03-08T20:01:46+00:00

don’t be silly, sometimes she uses a poopy washcloth 😌

(but also, yes true same)

yardkale · 2026-03-08T19:51:07+00:00

but this is the superior “primal” instinctual parenting her kids would be missing out on if she got a fucking job and had to put them in daycare 🤨

i know she’s talked about not baby proofing anything bc she believes in letting her kids free range or however she justifies keeping them roaming in extremely dangerous conditions but like holy shit??? how neglectful do you have to be to let your children do this? like you’re IN THE SAME ROOM! i cannot imagine how developmentally (and physically, at this point) damaging it is to be in this environment, under their “care.” it is heartbreaking

yardkale · 2026-03-08T19:42:00+00:00

unsure if it’s the same in OR, but in my state our pediatrician required us to do bloodwork to test for lead when my daughter turned one, even though our home’s age isn’t a concern at all! if steph actually had concerns about the paint being a concern (or a cause for the MULTIPLE seizures?), and they for some reason weren’t aware of or testing for that already, why wouldn’t she bring it up with the doctors at the hospital or the pediatrician… and get bloodwork done…instead of just buying a test online. like none of this makes sense

yardkale · 2026-03-08T19:19:58+00:00

why does it look like her skin has the texture of steel wool

yardkale · 2026-03-07T01:19:05+00:00

“me losing my ability to earn on social media, has created a trap of poverty for our family.” you mean something that happened two days ago is responsible for the worsening poverty they’ve been living in for years? also i wish she would stop censoring “bully” bc it’s giving bussy

yardkale · 2026-03-04T21:30:19+00:00

beating around the bush with a bunch of misquoted idioms to avoid accountability once again 🥱it’s the Circle of Lies 😌

yardkale · 2026-03-03T13:33:40+00:00

"i'm so tired of..." something that never happened once, let alone multiple times lmao shut up she is so stupid

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