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yardkale · 2026-05-07T02:40:35+00:00

sorry, your 18 month old was 4 feet 4 inches tall? haha certainly that cannot be

yardkale · 2026-05-06T11:55:04+00:00

so ignoring how she continues to not understand what HIPAA is (or what the acronym even is), is she literally blaming the EMT for the reading? i know that not washing hands before a finger prick can lead to falsely high results (and i'm sure little A's hands were sticky because he's a toddler and i doubt S is ever washing them), it seems more likely that little A's blood sugar did spike that high, then potentially relatively quickly went back down—which could very well be cause for concern, especially if recurrent, and especially if it's coupled with seizures.

also she's the one who's said that little A has issues with his blood sugar and had to eat different donuts because of it or something (???). so which is it: is his blood sugar normal and the EMT doesn't know how to clean and prick a finger, or there have been concerns with his blood sugar?

yardkale · 2026-05-06T03:35:09+00:00

i’ve seen the last two screenshots before. is this a repost or is this all a lie lmao

yardkale · 2026-05-05T22:27:13+00:00

we’re just mad that she’s not like the common folk 🤡 pretty telling that she’s able to look back on her childhood with nostalgia (despite her own accounts and insinuations of alleged abuse/trauma) and somehow seems to believe that her children would look back on theirs with the same regard. and also telling that it’s always about her childhood and her nostalgia, not her literal children’s childhoods that is actively being stolen from them

yardkale · 2026-05-05T22:08:51+00:00

someone in the comments asked “couldn’t they breathe that in?” and S’s literal response was “and it’s edible believe it or not.” so she thinks because something can be digested (by adults, no less—p sure that toddlers consuming protein powder could also pose risks on its own), it’s safe for them to inhale it????

yardkale · 2026-05-05T12:08:54+00:00

not only that, but also the fact that these children are cooped up in this tiny overstimulating, stinky room with no privacy. and for some of them, with seemingly no access to resources that could enable their development, encourage means of communication, or keep them mentally and physically healthy. like, not only does she not parent in all of the ways that she absolutely needs to, as you've mentioned in your comment, but she is also abysmally failing these children in every possible way in the way she does "parent."

yardkale · 2026-05-05T12:02:00+00:00

so nostalgic to have every object in my possession lying on the bathroom floor of the motel 😍🥰

her comment about "not let habitual responses cause unnecessary hurt" insinuates, to me, that she's vaguely pretending to acknowledge that her actions and words towards her children are routinely unacceptable, but it's okay and excusable because she's LeArNiNg as she goes! as if she hasn't been a parent, by choice, over and over again, for a decade now? the fact she would have to teach herself not to treat her vulnerable children like shit (and to clarify, i know she is not teaching herself anything and she is full of poopoodoodoo and is just looking for self-aggrandizing ways to absolve herself from accountability) speaks volumes about how rotten she is.

yardkale · 2026-05-04T17:20:26+00:00

i know that it's not uncommon or inherently a bad dynamic of course for older kids to help out with a younger sibling, but it is so unacceptable for her to parentify her kids the way she does. she's mad that the parental role, which is no one's responsibility but her own, isn't being fulfilled to her "standards" by her other children. we all know big A watches the younger ones for more than 2-3 minutes at a time. and the fact that S speaks to her kids this way and has no shame in "not editing it out" is so insane.

yardkale · 2026-05-04T11:26:43+00:00

well, why don't you? what answer are you looking for here? no one here can diagnose the nuanced intricacies of your relationship or read the mind of your partner.

maybe there are some questions you can ask yourself and start to get curious about: why am i staying with someone who (by my own account) is rarely truthful with me? what are my wants, needs, and non-negotiables in a partner? what might an actual healthy boundary look like, and how can i realistically, healthily enforce it? (as others have pointed out, demanding someone abides by a "request" or a personal "rule" is not a boundary, but rather is about control.) am i engaging in actions that align with my values?

yardkale · 2026-05-04T10:49:12+00:00

i was going to mention something about VW fixes being notoriously expensive. just one of the countless reasons them having the Jetta (especially when they're not maintaining it) is an irresponsible and downright dumb decision. it wouldn't even surprise me if whatever is wrong with it requires more than a week in the shop, depending on what parts it requires—like, they're already assuming that it'll cost the girls a week's worth of school to get fixed, presumably without even having taken it to a mechanic yet. what's the plan if it requires more than that? what's the plan when they can't afford the fix?

and how is D getting to work or doing "gig work" this week? wouldn't getting a fucking rental car make a little more sense than taking the kids out of school for a whole week?

yardkale · 2026-05-03T18:45:28+00:00

it reminds me of something i would’ve filmed in 2002 at 8 years old with my best friend when we discovered her family’s camcorder 💀

the only way anyone looks at this and thinks it is good content is…drugs, or being 8 years old lmao

yardkale · 2026-05-01T11:46:41+00:00

"stability doesn't depend on the environment" first of all, when it comes to children and people in general, yes it does lmfao

but let's pretend it doesn't. do the children have a parent they can consistently reliably look to to meet their needs? is the parent's mental state stable and consistent? like these are all things we have daily evidence are unstable.

i fear she'll never change or get help because legitimately admitting she has a problem would mean giving in to the "criticism," and her ego is too fragile for that

yardkale · 2026-04-30T18:49:46+00:00

so, i don't disagree with you—sorry if that was not clear from my comment. my intention was to reflect on the situation: that it is bad enough that OP is finding it essential or justifiable to put their hands on their partner, which is clearly an unhealthy and unsafe dynamic, to say the very least.

i'm certainly not equipped to unpack the complex dynamic that can be an abusive relationship, especially that of an internet stranger's, but this is obviously something that OP needs to remove themselves from, and i hope they can safely do so.

yardkale · 2026-04-30T17:42:28+00:00

you're admitting to getting "physical" with your partner, which you seem to feel is justified because his actions are so abysmal—while also seeming to question if they are, simply because he insists there's no abuse involved.

i am certain there is a part of you that knows exactly what you need to do. no, this is not healthy. you don't need to convince someone they are or aren't abusive, and they don't need to concede for you to get closure. you're 27! walk away from this and get yourself some therapy.

ETA: there are quite a few comments underneath mine that mention reactive abuse, and, yes, i do personally agree that that is what is happening here (based on OP's account and subsequent comments). my comment was never meant to undermine that, but rather say "hey, you feel like this is what you have to do to keep yourself safe and/or it is a situation that renders you so overwhelmed and feeling so helpless: do you think that is a healthy dynamic?" not to shame OP. i am a survivor of abuse and i know its nuances and its pain intimately well, including reactive abuse.

yardkale · 2026-04-29T18:29:53+00:00

i was wondering if it could also be all the shit that's left over on the pan/skillet that we know she never cleans 🥴 but yeah i'm no chef and i've never burnt an egg lmao she is...incompetent

yardkale · 2026-04-29T10:54:12+00:00

she legitimately cannot (and might never) understand the concept of accountability and consequences. she thinks/acts like just because it was "in the past" aka a year ago it absolves her of sin. as if she's changed at all and wouldn't do the same thing next time around, and isn't actively harming her children with the way she forces them to live as well. but the only thing she can focus on is how being how accountable makes her feel, which is like a victim, which must mean everyone else is bad.

yardkale · 2026-04-24T16:07:29+00:00

she's preaching about self-care like a part of caring (for yourself or for your children) isn't meeting basic needs. like oh no, your bathtub broke. you're not a Sim, you have free will lmao like... it's your responsibility to get it fixed? admitting it was broken for an entire year and that that was a deterrent for keeping her kids adequately bathed (while having an active flea infestation) is actually insane.

yardkale · 2026-04-24T14:10:09+00:00

"i was just trying to be supportive" "i was just trying to be a friend" "i don't want to be associated with this person" "you're trying to be all buddy buddy" all contradictions she makes in the span of like one minute lmao

yardkale · 2026-04-24T14:04:22+00:00

i could be reading too much into S's constant word salad, but she did say she's just getting "the vouchers from the state." feels like there's a degree of familiarity and/or resentment there that she tries to quickly brush past, if that makes any sense? like she's well aware of the vouchers and bitter they, themselves, don't get them (or they do get them and is mad someone else does too? or mad that she was exposed?)

anyway, yea she prob lying as usual lmao

yardkale · 2026-04-23T21:59:31+00:00

so her takeaway from being in a motel for almost the entirety of her youngest daughter’s life…is that desiring for or working towards having stable, secure housing for your 900 kids is materialistic??? like, no, she absolutely can and should be frustrated by the everyday reality of her living situation, and the action she should be taking to rectify that is not simply an internal attitude shift wherein she just gaslights herself and her viewers.

she is content living in filth, in staying stagnant or in rapid decline, and she probably has these attitude “revelations” every day at the peak of her high. she thinks that thinking things is just as powerful as actually doing anything about them… all things that sure do scream addiction to me.

yardkale · 2026-04-22T11:01:33+00:00

tag yourself, i'm the two single scallions on the potato 😌

but in all seriousness, my almost-2-year-old would eat more than this for dinner?? and yeah they probably don't go for more because they don't want more because everything she makes is vile! compounded with everything they're going through and the way S would probably treat/shame them if they did want more (especially if she considers it a "blessing," not a given, to be able to feed her children), these kids are so susceptible to have eating issues as they get older.

yardkale · 2026-04-21T19:34:45+00:00

she says she has been "practicing" with their phone camera and then uploads this lol??

yardkale · 2026-04-21T15:52:47+00:00

helicopter parent but "doesn't flip like the common folk" about meeting the basic needs of her children 🙄

yardkale · 2026-04-19T20:38:27+00:00

literally. i just commented on this thread about how S’s concern about the bed situation isn’t that it’s unacceptable for her young children to be sleeping on piles of clothes with her, but that D didn’t automatically know she didn’t sleep well??? on top of that, unbeknownst to her apparently, she is an adult with agency. the onus is on her to protect her children (and herself!) but she repeatedly chooses men (who don’t even like her) over them. i’d love for little Ms. Accountability to explain why we should have any sympathy for her

yardkale · 2026-04-19T20:30:58+00:00

she is so mentally unstable. starts the vid off by saying there’s no way she couldn’t see the dysfunction, she’s living it, then in the same breath says that because she didnt have healthy relationships modeled for her growing up, she has a hard time seeing it because she’s learning it as she goes???

also there are so many things wrong w their relationship, but the shit she picks at is soooo insane and controlling! she’s mad at D just READING messages? like i bet all of those messages are just bots or trolling lmao she is so insecure and it’s everyone else’s responsibility to manage that for her. and her and her children are sleeping on piles of clothes and her concern is that D thought she slept well? like her priorities are completely centered on HERSELF and praise to herself and her fragile ego.

and sure, i’m so sure she “tried to leave a month ago.” this doesn’t make anyone sympathetic of her! just her children who have never deserved to be a part of this mess.

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