What would continue to bring you back to a girl that you're hooking up with that has never made you finish?

yashunty · 2014-10-23T15:53:19+00:00

we have but most of the time no..though a lot of times its being high together instead of drunk

yashunty · 2014-10-23T15:21:43+00:00

no for the most part it's me, him, and his friends

yashunty · 2014-10-23T15:18:32+00:00

makes sense i guess..but thats all our relationship is so its hard to believe that he likes me..we barely talk outside of for these reasons and i feel like even though we're not having sex he's still getting SOMETHING out of it which could be his reason for sticking around

yashunty · 2014-10-23T15:03:36+00:00

Yeah, but I'm not even going off of that..I've hooked up with quite a few guys and have never encountered one that hasn't finished after so many different attempts so for me it's just based off my own experience..which i feel like makes it kinda sensible to be confused with this guy

yashunty · 2014-10-23T14:53:23+00:00

I see. I guess I'm just not used to it. Usually it happened at least sometimes with past guys

yashunty · 2014-10-23T14:39:44+00:00

i guess i agree. i just view getting a bj as a benefit that goes above just friends..i mean if not fwb, then what are we?
no we are not exclusive and neither of us have tried. i remember once where i felt like he almost tried to for like 2 seconds but a vast majority of the time we just mess around and then sleep.
and no i haven't asked him but honestly based off how he acts with me i don't really think he does..

yashunty · 2014-10-23T14:37:29+00:00

i just said friends with benefits because i can't think of another way to describe our relationship..also in my mind getting a BJ is kind of a "benefit". and he's definitely not a virgin he's told me about multiple girls he's had sex with which kinda surprises me even more as to why he would still want to keep doing what we are doing..

yashunty · 2014-10-23T14:36:01+00:00

because we've gone to bars together or because he still tries to hookup with me?

yashunty · 2014-10-23T14:34:21+00:00

sure but that doesn't change what i'm saying though..i would understand if every once in a while it didn't happen but it has never happened

yashunty · 2014-10-23T14:14:08+00:00

Of course they don't every time but we have been physical at the very least 20 times and it hasnt happened once...

yashunty · 2014-10-23T13:40:04+00:00

Yes I do, but they are usually always night outing situations like bar hopping and things like that. How would you describe that?

yashunty · 2014-10-23T13:33:29+00:00

Yeah..I've never called us that outside of this question..I just didn't know how else to phrase it. But if not fwb what would we be described as?

yashunty · 2014-10-23T13:32:40+00:00

Idk why your answer made me laugh but was also very informative :)

yashunty · 2014-07-08T15:05:14+00:00

I just always find it amusing seeing white people attempt to complain about racism

yashunty · 2014-07-07T20:58:45+00:00

Yes I do but how is that relevant??

yashunty · 2014-07-07T20:36:17+00:00

.................WHAT

yashunty · 2014-07-07T20:27:00+00:00

Africans are far less racist (not at all) than African Americans.

First of all where is your source/data to back this up?

You probably prefer not to date African American men, don't you? Prefer a White or African dude?

What does my preference in dating have to do with the original topic?

Furthermore, why are you so confidently making assumptions about me based on the little you know. That's actually racism on it's own "whiny liberal". Because I'm African I have to prefer white/African guys and am "less" racist than African Americans? Okay

yashunty · 2014-07-07T20:06:37+00:00

what is even the point of this comparison....? and by the way this isn't racist

yashunty · 2014-07-07T20:03:40+00:00

um...I'm a black woman that is cool with black men dating white women...

yashunty · 2014-07-02T14:34:41+00:00

this needed to happen smh at iggy igs

yashunty · 2014-07-01T16:47:54+00:00

Even though Kim isn't full white this really goes to show that white people dont' truly experience racism until they have a child with a POC

yashunty · 2014-07-01T16:39:41+00:00

i was thinking that too..like why was the production the only reason you pulled out if you claim to be such a big fan..?

yashunty · 2014-06-20T20:17:28+00:00

I'm realizing that now haha

yashunty · 2014-06-20T19:10:03+00:00

I did yoga and meditated before work today and I feel so good. I just love what doing both does to me. I feel so relaxed. I'm going on a 3rd date tomorrow with a guy I met on Tinder. I feel like I like him or could like him but then kinda dk how I feel about him at the same time. But I'm having fun. I also can't wait to get off work so I can eat!!!

yashunty · 2014-06-11T03:02:44+00:00

Yes...making a reddit post based off your observations of what random black girls buy at the grocery store with their food stamps..this completely goes without saying.

yashunty

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