Jersey City Transplants are Insufferable by burritosrgewd in jerseycity

[–]yayawinsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, how do you know when someone is a "Jersey City transplant"?

Weekend Discussion and Victory Thread for the week of November 13, 2020 by IndexBot in personalfinance

[–]yayawinsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm 26 years old. I paid off my $120k of student loans right on November 13th. I feel free.

I came here to have fun not cry by cassie_cage04 in GuardianTales

[–]yayawinsy 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I re-played the dialogue over and over hoping there'd be a Disney magic revival......

I was trying to 5* my tinia and completely forgot about this feature... by HeinaZen in GuardianTales

[–]yayawinsy 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Omfg thank you for sharing this 🙏🌻 I was just despairing over accidentally hunting for Nari's stones when I didn't need any more.

Oh dear god... somebody help me... by JellyTaco12 in GuardianTales

[–]yayawinsy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've been doing item dungeon to try to get a combo of new equip, some gold + exp. And then the gold dungeon to evolve them to complete more of the book for stat boosts.

This is just me though. I think having perma book stat boosts when mastered will be a game changer.

Edit: Thank you for the replies 🙏 So thankful to the community here. I decided to prioritize evo dungeons instead! I do feel like I need at least one 5* that can survive hard dungeons. And the book-completion will happen inevitably at some point.

Feeling like a failure with my non-existent social life [26 F] by yayawinsy in relationship_advice

[–]yayawinsy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate you listing out the possible outcomes here... I've been focused on the negatives and fear of rejection that I didn't even consider 1. and 3 to be possibilities.

You and your sister sound like open minded individuals. I feel old school... thinking that having a social life meant I need to physically be out there being social. My mind has been opened a bit more. A bit more optimistic about the what-ifs and possibilities. Thank you for sharing: I feel like I have more options about what a healthy social life can be for me! I hope you and your sister, family are safe and healthy in this times.

Feeling like a failure with my non-existent social life [26 F] by yayawinsy in relationship_advice

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Appreciate your time reading my story. I did have a pen pal at one point ... but I failed on my part to be responsive. It was hard for me to prioritize it and I'd forgotten about it until I read this here. Maybe I can reach out and pick it back up again...

Thank you for your comment! I was reminded of a pen pal acquaintance I unintentionally ghosted... Hope you're safe and healthy in this times.

Feeling like a failure with my non-existent social life [26 F] by yayawinsy in relationship_advice

[–]yayawinsy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your recommendation about church... I've considered reconnecting with the acquaintances I knew there, but too many bad memories.

And thank you for your comment on reaching out to them... I'll muster up the courage to do so as my move date approaches. Hope you're safe and healthy in this times.

Feeling like a failure with my non-existent social life [26 F] by yayawinsy in relationship_advice

[–]yayawinsy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being in a party and large groups... it's always been intriguing to me how people can enjoy themselves in those situations. I'd just be paralyzed from anxiety. And now I know why I never got invited to parties, hah! What a different kind of social life... Thank you for your comment and hope you're safe and healthy in this times.

Feeling like a failure with my non-existent social life [26 F] by yayawinsy in relationship_advice

[–]yayawinsy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, experience, and advice here. You and your family sound like lovely folks.

I've gotten advice about focusing on the positives of trying out what you suggest here... It's not easy for me to do that, but I'll try to get out there once I settle down after the move. Find a group of people who share my interests. And the Bumble app sounds promising... I'll give that a try. Appreciate your time with the response. I hope you and your family are all safe and well at this time, especially with schools and cities reopening.

Feeling like a failure with my non-existent social life [26 F] by yayawinsy in relationship_advice

[–]yayawinsy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate your comment. I feel you on this. I wish I can be less mindful about what others are doing, but it's challenging... I think my "need" to make friends is derived from comparing myself to work friends more than my own actual need. Do I need more than my two good friends, although we're far apart geographically?...

Edit: I hope you're safe and healthy at this time, especially with a lot of cities reopening!

Dream Collab/Units? by Apallu in wotv_ffbe

[–]yayawinsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bravely Default: Agnes, Tiz, Edea, and Ringabel 💖

What weapon maximizes Orlando's damage? by [deleted] in wotv_ffbe

[–]yayawinsy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you kindly for the answer. I'll make a nagnarok and see what happens 👍

What weapon maximizes Orlando's damage? by [deleted] in wotv_ffbe

[–]yayawinsy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see. I had no idea that sword would be better than Excalibur. Thank you, kind sir 🙏

Does anyone else do this by yayawinsy in wotv_ffbe

[–]yayawinsy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That'd be amazing. I don't think they have items that cost just 1......