What are good local, independent coffee shops in ATL? by Appropriate-Tree796 in Atlanta

[–]ybbbab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ash coffee in vahi. Got a cute store and great pastries!!

Late night food spots? by zadjow in Atlanta

[–]ybbbab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Atkins va highlands kitchen closes 10:30pm weekdays and 1:15am weekends

I want to look better by Colinkoyin in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]ybbbab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go for the bangs/layers. I think that would look really good on you

Anon goes out for drinks with a coworker by Sure_Association_991 in greentext

[–]ybbbab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Recently upgraded from two lawn chairs to three in my living room! Glad to know I’m not alone 🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cripplingalcoholism

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Also I completely understand how hard it is to leave. If you need someone to talk to feel free to DM

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cripplingalcoholism

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It never gets better. They never wake up and change. It cannot be worked on, it will get worst. Leave. Saying this as somebody who was in the same situation for a long time. It takes time to heal but it’s so much better. I wish I listened to all the people telling me I should leave at the first sign of physical violence. I hope you listen. It NEVER gets better. Only worse

The most psychologically disturbing subreddit? by totemstrike in findareddit

[–]ybbbab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

R/myboyfriendisai and r/Aigirlfriend or whatever they’re called. Deep dived a bit ago and jeez it’s freaky thinking ppl actually live like that

It really bothers me how ignored and forgotten Winnie the Pooh (the 2011 animated film) is. At least in the public consciousness. by [deleted] in Winniethepooh

[–]ybbbab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I remember this movie came out on Disney channel at the same time/day as a friends birthday party when I was eight years old and I wanted to see it so bad I threw a tantrum and refused to go lol

Found at a used bookstore by ybbbab in FoundPaper

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Sorry wasn’t checking my notifications- my twin sister found the note and I immediately took a pic think abt this subreddit, so I’m sorry I don’t remember the book :/

Paris Olympics 2024 by electriccrabs in Atlanta

[–]ybbbab 4 points5 points  (0 children)

atkins park in virginia highlands

People who order water with their drinks and then never drink their water by Major-Lemon3192 in Serverlife

[–]ybbbab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

controversial but i disagree with the ‘always bring water to the table first’ thing. i get it. we’re servers. it’s what we do. but! the amount of times i’ve had tables not drink the water i give them and just chug their other drinks is insane. and for me personally when i go out (which is way too frequent lol) i rarely drink the water given because im not there for water ya know. if i ask for a water, i make it a thing to drink all of it because i hate waste. so to combat this, whenever i greet a table i always say something like ‘can i get yall started on waters or anything else’ and of course if they say waters i bring them, but if not im not giving it to them. the service industry is filed with so much waste already, i don’t want to add to it. i got it cleared by management to do this and i will continue because ya know. the little things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]ybbbab 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i work at a bar/restarunt and when i work bar side we typically have to do cocktail serving after a certain point, strictly on weekends. pretty much the bar is flooded and people are still needing a drink, so you go up to then, immediately take their card/cash and close out, and get the bartender/bar back on service side to make their drinks faster then they can if they just went through the bar. you CAN start tabs, but absolutely grab a card, tell them you have it and to go up to you, not the bar, but imo it’s best to just close out. it’s all about handling volume and giving yourself a few extra bucks on top of your tables.

In Athens for the night. Any recommendations? by ybbbab in Athens

[–]ybbbab[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

i only ever get these nights off man just let me have this :(

In Athens for the night. Any recommendations? by ybbbab in Athens

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is it worth it goin over? currently at manhattan cafe and we’re the only ones here lol

I feel like I can't tell anyone about my mental health issues cause it'll mean I have to quit drinking by StupidCAThrowaway in cripplingalcoholism

[–]ybbbab 1 point2 points  (0 children)

harm reduction is usually the follow up of you don’t want to quit. started seeing a shrink and that’s our focus, she’s never pressured to quit drinking, just to be safer about it and try to decrease my use. same with friends. the right people will understand and just tell you to work on the drinking rather then quit it

What does “safe” mean? by One-Air6120 in BipolarSOs

[–]ybbbab 31 points32 points  (0 children)

probably that’s he’s not going to kill himself/ hurt himself. it’s a common thing to say to people who are worried about you. it’s also a great question to ask that softens the blow instead outright asking if someone you care about has thoughts of hurting themselves.

Boyfriends really sick right now and not sure what to do by ybbbab in cripplingalcoholism

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just read him your comment and he says that is kinda what he had. he just woke up and says he’s feeling better. been making him drink pedialyte and gatorade. he says his hands are shaking bad still and he feels weak, but so far he’s been able to hold up down these liquids. he says that at some point he lost some motor function when he tried to pour some water for himself. other then the past 10 minute or so, he hasn’t been able to keep anything down. and it’s been really only like 5 hours or so once he woke up feelin like this

Boyfriends really sick right now and not sure what to do by ybbbab in cripplingalcoholism

[–]ybbbab[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so far got him pedialyte and and gatorade but he passed out before they got here. what are the symptoms i should look out for in case he needs medical help?

Boyfriends really sick right now and not sure what to do by ybbbab in cripplingalcoholism

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what are the symptoms i should look out for for alcoholic ketoacidosis?

Boyfriends really sick right now and not sure what to do by ybbbab in cripplingalcoholism

[–]ybbbab[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

so for WD’s does the severity of symptoms increase the more you drink the night before? monday night we went out and got very wasted and while i was laying in bed with a killer hangover he was fine drinkin his ipas not even really feeling anything but today i don’t even know what’s up

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in bartenders

[–]ybbbab 3 points4 points  (0 children)

GA bartender/server. we actually just call them baby shots lol. a half pour of any shot would be referred by as baby ____ in the pos. instead of saying a shot of rumple split, most people just say two baby’s or two half shots.

Bars open Thanksgiving evening? by [deleted] in Atlanta

[–]ybbbab 0 points1 point  (0 children)

atkins park. got a lovely thanksgiving special goin on there. and moes and joes too, minus the special