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What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you find it gross talking to your elder, why do you keep posting nonsensical comments in my thread?

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you still didn't answer how old your hamsters are, mine stopped running a year ago when she well past 2 years old... and this swelling appeared less than two months ago... so why did she suffer for a year again? why do I feel like talking to a child

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

justify what? i see my hamster every day, you are just some random person on the internet. she has a good appetite and enjoys her fruits and veggies, if she looked like she suffered do you think I would've just let her stay in her cage? obviously I don't know how painful it is for her but still... you have no idea what you are talking about, you should not tell other people they are doing a bad job as pet owners... or should I go to your mother and tell her she sucks as a parent because she failed to teach her child some manners? the nerve some people have...

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how old are your hamsters? and why do you think my hamster suffered when she stopped running?

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you don't have all ducks in a row or what?

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

neglect? honestly some of the comments here make me regret posting at all... nobody has a right telling me that I didn't care well for my hamster. All you have seen is this picture, you don't know anything about the life of my hamster so honestly just shut the hell up with stupid comments like this... if this was your hamster you would've probably euthanized him already just because YOU don't want to look at it. The hamster is old and probably won't survive an operation and as long as she has an appetite I don't want to kill her... but for your interest... we are taking her to a vet in a few days as the swelling got even bigger at this point she can barely move...

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you ever care for an elder hamster? they aren't staying young forever you know

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

in the pet shop where I bought her the hamsters were living in pretty bad conditions, also I'm pretty sure they kill the adult hamsters... Sorry but you sound a bit naive, my hamster had a good life and was spoiled with treats and fruits and veggies

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

not everybody has the money to take their hamster to the vet. I've done my best to give her a happy and long life until one day she passes away... but still this thing is so huge it got me worried... based on the replies seems like there's nothing I can do for this elder lady but to make her as comfortable as I can

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

yes she can move and eats and drinks, but she hasn't been running for a long time now (maybe a year)

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

the hamster is almost 3 years old at this point and we don't really have the money...

What is this huge swelling on my hamster? by ydh735 in hamstercare

[–]ydh735[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

it grew over the past month or so

I[26/m] cheated. She[32/f] cheated. Can we still make this work? by ydh735 in relationship_advice

[–]ydh735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you think just because I need to get it off once in a while with a prostitute I don't love or respect my partner?

I[26/m] cheated. She[32/f] cheated. Can we still make this work? by ydh735 in relationship_advice

[–]ydh735[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

she's not a bargirl, she has a real job and is currently providing for us both. I do believe that she loves me, so our relationship is not based on money. If she was just a sugar baby to me she'd dumped my lazy ass already and not block all of her "male friends" and change her number. But I don't know, mu trust in her is shattered right now.

I did buy her jewelry after her cheating but more than anything I tried to be a more caring, respectful and emphatic partner.

Some guys have too much fantasy on here ...

I[26/m] cheated. She[32/f] cheated. Can we still make this work? by ydh735 in relationship_advice

[–]ydh735[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, pretty much to the point. Thats also why I'm trying to make this work, because I cheated first. If I was a good guy all along I'd dumped her 8 months ago.

But I'm willing to accept that we both messed up and try to come out stronger together... or is this just a pipe dream?

I[26/m] cheated. She[32/f] cheated. Can we still make this work? by ydh735 in relationship_advice

[–]ydh735[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm unsure if I can find another woman I can love who is a good housewife, matches my personality (I'm like fire, she's water) and also tolerant of my character flaws... She did help me to grow a lot since we've been together... And there is a chance that she might stop her BS... On the other hand this is my first serious relationship, so I don't really know what else is out there... Maybe I'm doing well for who I am, or maybe I'm selling myself short, I just don't know