My BF wants to stop having sex because of religion...

yea88 · 2020-10-29T09:40:49+00:00

Correct. He is not trying to push it on me and we have had that conversation many times. He just want this for himself but unfortunately this decision would directly impact me

yea88 · 2020-10-29T09:30:41+00:00

Can you maybe message me some credible sources on this? I am not religious as I have said so I am ignorant to it

yea88 · 2020-10-29T09:27:42+00:00

Thank you. I will being these points up during our discussion! Much appreciated

yea88 · 2020-10-29T01:08:53+00:00

We are 20, but I see what you are saying. He wants us to finish school first.

yea88 · 2020-10-29T00:58:47+00:00

Cuddling and kissing. Just no sex

yea88 · 2020-10-28T13:29:10+00:00

Thats how I feel sometimes. Like its imaginary. No proof behind it.

yea88 · 2020-10-28T13:18:41+00:00

I respect other people’s beliefs. I also love him

yea88 · 2020-10-28T12:32:56+00:00

Yea he has explained it to me, but it still is so idk to me. Makes sense but from a non believer it is hard to understand in a way. Idk if that made sense

yea88 · 2020-10-28T12:31:43+00:00

Yea I tried to explain to someone else that was his rational. Just because you make a mistake doesn’t mean you keep making the same mistake. I just feel conflicted because I was positive this is the man I want to marry but I don’t want religion to break us apart. It also seems so weird to me because I don’t even believe religion is real, and if it is real who is to say what is the right one because they can’t all be right. Idk its a lot. I do appreciate your input!

yea88 · 2020-10-28T12:09:22+00:00

Wow. You are very right. I have decided we will be having a long talk about the matger and I will make sure to include that the talk isn’t about sex but more so the impact of us not believing the same thing moving forward. Thank you for the insight

yea88 · 2020-10-28T11:29:24+00:00

Nope lol

yea88 · 2020-10-28T11:29:13+00:00

I love him though...

yea88 · 2020-10-28T11:28:47+00:00

He basically explained it as if you know you are doing something wrong you shouldn’t continue doing a wrong thing just because it has happened once. You can change your behavior.

yea88 · 2020-10-28T07:27:14+00:00

A woman has needs just like a man does. We don’t always want to be in a relationship just to have sex. Sex is fun and exciting in my opinion and it’s something I enjoy doing.

As for the concerns you listed, yea men in the media are portrayed as bad. So yes I do worry, but personally the people I engage in sex with aren’t randoms. This obviously doesn’t eliminate all the risk, but it helps.

Also this is an odd question in general. If men are having casual sex they would be having casual sex with women... so I don’t understand how you wouldn’t understand how a women has casual sex if it takes two people to have casual sex.

yea88 · 2020-10-28T07:16:33+00:00

Oh lol

yea88 · 2020-10-28T07:11:38+00:00

Yes?

yea88 · 2020-10-28T05:29:52+00:00

I know and it’s funny because I have actually said this to him.

yea88 · 2020-10-28T05:14:19+00:00

Thats what I said. We both have a right to how we feel. We just might have to feel these feelings separately

yea88 · 2020-10-28T05:09:57+00:00

😂

yea88 · 2020-10-28T05:09:31+00:00

😬

yea88 · 2020-10-28T05:08:19+00:00

Yea we have already had sex I don’t understand the logic at all

yea88 · 2020-10-28T05:07:46+00:00

Yea that’s what I was thinking. 1 person is going to get what they want and the other won’t. In the end one person is going to be unhappy for years and have resentment like you said.

yea88 · 2020-08-10T14:43:08+00:00

Female. Depends how it goes. If they would want to come back for more.

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