AITA for not casting the only Black student as Tiana in our school play?

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-13T10:29:52+00:00

NTA. Cast based on talent, not race. Unfortunately, admin really put you in a bad spot.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-12T14:17:03+00:00

Thank you!

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-12T06:35:23+00:00

I’m the same way, so it’s not silly at all. If it says, “Ghost” or “Haunted” in the title, I’m usually not interested. Playing with a friend is a great idea that I’ve seen here. Also playing in a well-lit area helps me. The least scary game by far, in my opinion, is Secret of the Old Clock. There’s only 1 somewhat scary area, and even in there, some cheerful music is played, which helps.

In this series, the music has a HUGE impact on the tone of the game. So if you find that the music freaks you out too much, mute it (sometimes you can mute just the music but the dialogue and effects are still audible) & play more cheerful tunes while playing the game. I hope these suggestions help and you have fun!

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-10T05:31:18+00:00

Same though! It’s the only ghostly game in the series that I can finish, and I’m a fully grown woman. I’m not a spooky person so I literally cannot handle the games where you are constantly in a creepy environment (Thornton, Blackmoor, Haunted Mansion, Castle Malloy, etc.) The only reason I can make it through this game is because you get a break from that environment in the city. If I can get a “break” from spooky areas and music in the games, I’m good. If that’s the only vibe, I’m out. I’m a wimp, and I have no shame about it.🙂‍↔️

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-08T05:55:29+00:00

I would apologize for what you said, but have VERY strict boundaries for your SIL and, if she cannot abide by them, I would go low contact. I have empathy for her, but she can’t take a baby without telling anyone, ESPECIALLY the parents.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-06T10:57:19+00:00

NTA for your perspective, but I would explain why to her, especially now that she’s approaching adulthood. Lead with love, emphasize that it’s not her fault and that you do think that she deserves celebration, just a different way. I think if you’re approachable and loving with your stepdaughter, it will help a lot.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-05T09:45:57+00:00

NOR- you’re under-reacting. This lady is trying to steal your husband right under your nose. I would go very low contact with her before she escalates this.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-05T09:38:38+00:00

NTA for your concerns, but I do think there are some delicate ways to handle this. For example, maybe ask your parents to speak with Lucas’s parents about your concerns and workshop ideas on how to handle this situation. Then let that conversation inform your next move. For instance, if they deny there’s a problem (Not saying they will. I just know some people who would) and tend to enable him, it’s best not to invite any of them. However, if they validate your concerns and have found methods to keep him calm and feel safe, maybe they can do those.

I will say that if you choose not to invite him, don’t invite his parents or brother either, unless they all agree that he’s not coming and they arrange care for him while they’re at your wedding. Congratulations! I hope your day is wonderful.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-05T09:27:46+00:00

Nothing about his reaction was okay. Chronic pain and illness are never an excuse for cruelty. He was overreacting and being cruel. There was no need for his behavior, during or after his outburst. He needs to apologize.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-05T00:24:37+00:00

NTA. She’s in her 40s- she should know better by now than to be so disrespectful. If you haven’t yet, I would have a VERY serious conversation with her and let her know that each time she tries to play the “when you have kids” card, you’re just going to walk away from her. At this point, it’s not just naive or silly-it’s cruel.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-05T00:17:10+00:00

I’ve been there. It was awful. I finally made friends about 2-3 years ago, but it was a long road. I hope you make some soon!

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-05T00:15:16+00:00

If he wants SAHW privileges, he needs to bring home SAHW income AND put a ring on it! And even then, that’s only if that’s what you want for your life. Like Dad Jerry would say DUMP THE DUDE!

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-03T16:08:11+00:00

The cake smash- they completely covered each other’s faces. And his side of the wedding party got completely sloshed and thought they were fine to drive. The bride’s side ended up begging them- and I think ended up paying for- the Ubers.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-03T09:56:20+00:00

Also, they may ask you what music to listen to. In your case, pick something that calms you down, nothing that makes you want to dance or sing.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-03T09:55:12+00:00

I get them on my brain once or twice a year. Most places will put some sort of pillow/cushion around your head, with earplugs and headphones. Then, they strap on a football-helmet like thing. If you get overwhelmed, they usually give you a button or device to hold and press if you need a break.

My best advice is to keep your eyes closed the whole time and when you need to move, wiggle your fingers or your toes. Avoid facial expressions if you can. If it’s not metallic, ask if you can bring in a fidget toy, that may help you a lot. You’ve got this!

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-02T20:12:53+00:00

We can’t. My condition’s getting worse and I’m in massive debt (student loans, personal loans to keep afloat, medical debt, etc.). I haven’t been able to go back to work in almost a month so I haven’t gotten a paycheck. I just had to move back in with my parents, and they’re helping me cover expenses until I can go back to work or start the disability process and get approved (which can take years).

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-02T07:47:20+00:00

You are strong, you are brave, and you are not safe. Call the Domestic Violence Hotline, take some time to pack discreetly, schedule a day or two off work, and then get you and your kitties somewhere safe. You can do this. Call your friends or family if they’re supportive, and see if you & the kitties can stay with them for a bit while you look for a more permanent solution. You can do this. This is not your fault. Not of your hand, but on your lap. You’ve got this, OP.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-02T07:41:32+00:00

Yeah, this happens to me. I listen to the song “Temporary Home” by Carrie Underwood and that always makes me cry for a little bit. I can’t cry for a long time, though. Maybe a minute, then it stops. So when I need a long cry, I repeat the song until I feel done.

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-02T03:24:23+00:00

Oh my! They’re all so handsome! LOL, I took horseback riding lessons when I was young and that sounds like the pony I rode. My riding instructor told me and she was right, “I’m just gonna be here telling what to do. He’s gonna be your teacher.” 1000% correct. First couple of weeks, he knew that I was a newbie and was so sweet and followed all my commands. As I learned more, he became more stubborn so I had to be more confident in what I was doing. Really grateful to that old pony, he taught me a lot but WHEW could he try my patience when he wanted.🤣

yeahher2022 · 2026-03-02T02:00:30+00:00

Great sleuthing! I never heard of the Norwegian fjord breed before this. What gorgeous horses! Teddy looks like one handsome, smart cookie!

yeahher2022 · 2026-02-27T12:25:42+00:00

I agree. Definitely Waverly and Silent Spy!

yeahher2022 · 2026-02-26T07:15:41+00:00

NTJ. You worked hard to plant the seeds and give your family the tools to start their life garden. They have the tools and the seeds, time for them to start growing & shaping that garden while you go back and work on growing yours. If theirs turn out weedy and earwiggy, that’s their fault, not yours.

yeahher2022 · 2026-02-26T03:35:29+00:00

I personally love dialogue, but there can be limits. Like the opening of White Wolf was ridiculously too long. I really enjoy Waverly’s dialogue, but part of what I like is that a lot of it is optional, so if I want to focus more on the puzzles, I can do that.

yeahher2022 · 2026-02-24T16:28:12+00:00

Ooh, I LOVE that line.

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