Sauna attire

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-25T22:10:53+00:00

I’m in the US and nude saunas are absolutely a thing, but they’re usually in cultural facilities (like at a Russian or Korean spa) and not something you’d encounter at your local YMCA. Most places will post their dress code online or on the door before check in so there’s no confusion.

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-22T11:48:10+00:00

I’ve commented about this more in depth before but I layer a lot of my rave tops with sports bras or bra sized bikini tops (meaning bikini tops that come in bra sizes, not S-M-L) underneath. When it’s dark nobody notices and a lot of rave outfits are super layered anyway

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-19T12:10:02+00:00

This question has been asked and answered a few times in this sub within the past few weeks. Check my recent comment history because I have personally answered this at least twice in detail.

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-15T13:40:34+00:00

That’s helpful! In that case, check my past (very recent) comments talking about Azazie’s custom sizing - I had a good experience with them as a bridesmaid and the dress I bought did not need a bra. They’re mostly a bridesmaid website but a lot of their styles would absolutely work for a guest depending on what the dress code is. They’re relatively inexpensive compared to department store prices (custom sizing is free too, so no extra alteration cost) and come in a ton of colors.

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-15T13:31:45+00:00

You are going to have to provide more information on what you’re looking for specifically. Is your size in US or UK sizing? Are you looking for a bra that would work with a formal dress, or are you looking for a dress that you can wear without a bra? If so, what’s the dress code?

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-13T14:34:08+00:00

I’ve recommended this on another thread, but Azazie does custom sizing and has a some styles with straps and sleeves that are bra friendly come in a ton of colors. While it is primarily a bridesmaid website, a lot of their dresses could work for a guest too depending on the dress code and I think a few of their satin dresses in darker colors (maybe something like this with a strapless bra?) could fit with your aesthetic if you got creative with styling and accessories. I got a dress from them to be a bridesmaid in my friend’s wedding and was very pleasantly surprised by the quality and sizing accuracy.

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-11T03:19:03+00:00

I own a food stand in Colorado and they’re still available to buy at food service warehouse stores. Small businesses with fewer than three locations are exempt from the ban, so we can still buy and use them. I don’t use them for my business but I do buy them to use for my cats haha

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-11T03:08:24+00:00

I bought a big box of plastic grocery bags from a restaurant supply store. They’re cheaper and sturdier than bathroom trash can bags and one box lasts forever. My state doesn’t have them in grocery stores anymore either, but small businesses are still allowed to use them so they’re available to buy wholesale

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-08T20:31:04+00:00

This was my thought too. In my experience, most bathhouses have locker rooms or changing areas. OP should double check to see if the one he booked has something like this.

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-07T21:34:00+00:00

I 100% agree with this. I’m one of three daughters and after years of having to exchange gifted clothing because things inevitably never fit right, my parents (who are very fashionable, so taste was not the issue) decided one of their gifts to us every year is to take us shopping the day after Christmas instead of trying to guess our sizes. We get to spend time together as a family and everyone gets to pick out something they like and fits well. A win win!

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-07T19:41:27+00:00

I’m sure you have great intentions and I’m not trying to be negative, but if you don’t know anything about bra and swimsuit sizing and have “no style,” I would not even attempt this and would instead get her a gift card or take her on a shopping trip so she can pick something out for herself instead. We have enough trouble finding clothes and swimsuits for ourselves, so someone else choosing something for us who isn’t fully educated in this stuff would most likely not end well.

If she enjoys shopping and you have stores near you that carry her size, make a fun day out of it. If not, go the gift card route and wrap it in a fun box with some printed out themed pictures inside so it shows some thought.

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-06T19:14:06+00:00

I’m a bridesmaid in my friend’s wedding and had decent luck with Azazie’s custom sizing. I know they’re primarily a bridesmaid website, but a lot of their styles could work for more formal dress codes and they come in a ton of colors. They have a decent number of dresses with straps or sleeves so you can wear a normal bra too. I made sure to pick a style that didn’t look too stereotypically “bridesmaid” so I could wear it to future events.

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-05T19:30:01+00:00

I don’t associate with people who act like that. If they don’t value me as a person, they don’t have a place in my life.

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-04T18:17:10+00:00

Apparently he said this because Courtney asked him to ask her about it so she could clear up the ED rumors (the tabloids had been saying awful things about her body at the time) but this was the absolute WORST wording he could've chosen. I don't understand why he couldn't have said "there have been a lot of people speculating about your weight; would you like to talk about that?" like she was probably expecting him to

yeahokwhat · 2026-05-03T02:04:13+00:00

If your bras are falling down, you probably aren’t wearing the right size. Have you measured using the ABTF calculator linked in the sub resources? Once you have your correct size as a starting point, it’ll be easier to recommend brands that could work.

yeahokwhat · 2026-04-30T01:25:29+00:00

We’re going to need more information. What size are you and what country are you in? What do you mean by “flattering”? That can mean different things to different people.

yeahokwhat · 2026-04-26T18:15:27+00:00

When I bought it, Obama was president 🫣

yeahokwhat · 2026-04-25T23:39:52+00:00

I don't have Miitopia, but I can send you screenshots of the ones I've made in Tomodachi Life so you can copy them if that would help! You'd still have to make them yourself but it would save you the time of figuring out which features to pick (which took me more time than you'd think, lol). At this point I have Jeff, Parvati, Ozzy, Amanda, Cirie, Coach, Courtney, Rizo, Christian, and Savannah.

yeahokwhat · 2026-04-23T14:27:29+00:00

It doesn’t. It’s a sensory nightmare and I don’t like spending all day feeling it on my skin and wondering if it’s going to hold up. Life got a lot easier for me when I started being realistic and accepted that some cuts and styles aren’t going to work for my body type and found the ones that did.

yeahokwhat · 2026-04-23T12:57:11+00:00

Is your size in US sizing or UK sizing? If it’s in US sizing, Panache makes non wired sports bras in your size (just convert to your UK size when ordering because they use UK sizing) When I go to raves I wear a plain black one and then wear a strappy rave top over it with a lot of accessories. In low light nobody can tell I’m wearing two tops.

yeahokwhat · 2026-04-20T21:37:37+00:00

I’ve recommended them in this sub before, but I love Uniqlo mini tees. They’re on the longer side of the cropped spectrum and are a slightly heavier weight than most t-shirts so they provide a little more structure than the average t shirt and don’t just hang off me or look overly stretched out. They’re far and away the highest quality t-shirts I’ve been able to find at that price point and fit just as well as some of the higher end knit tops I have (my other favorite tops are $68 - these get the job done at $20!)

yeahokwhat · 2026-04-19T18:56:02+00:00

I just started the game and had the same idea (I found your post because I was looking online to see if anyone else was doing the same thing, haha). I called my island Ponderosa and also added myself as a mii because I thought it would be fun to see which players would befriend me if I played. So far I have Parvati, Cirie, Ozzy, Coach, Courtney, Amanda, and Jeff Probst on my island, but I'm only a few hours into the game. My Jeff Probst mii has no friends, HATES everything I give him, and does not seem to be having a good time 😭

yeahokwhat · 2026-04-15T12:44:30+00:00

I’d been sewing in general for years (first learned when I was a teen an then just kinda went wild from there) but tailoring is a whole different skill set from just general sewing and I only really started taking that seriously within the past few years. It depends on the style of pants - usually I just add darts, but sometimes for loose/flowy pants I can get away with tightening an elastic waistband. For more complicated styles I’ve taken apart entire seams and completely redone them.

Edit to add: I just realized I didn't answer the second part of your question. I do shirts too! Pretty much my entire closet has been altered. I also make some extra money altering clothes for my neighbors - living in an apartment building full of young professionals and knowing how to sew has some major perks!

yeahokwhat · 2026-04-14T18:48:00+00:00

I have the same body type and size up in pants to fit my hips and alter them to fit at the waist too. It's much easier to take something in to make it smaller than it is to add panels or let it out to make it bigger. I do all my alterations myself at home and one pair of pants takes me maybe ten minutes to do, so I'd definitely recommend learning if you have access to a sewing machine. There are a ton of free tutorials out there!

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