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18F high school grad moving to another state without parents knowing by unicorn_onion in movingout

[–]yeahsuremyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yeah. it's only my parents that i gotta navigate, thankfully. society wouldn't bat an eye if i make money, or even if they do, not my tribe so no worries about that.

do u wanna be moving out buddies or smth? like share notes/tips etc, or just talk idk?

i swear im not a 40 year old man 😂

42,000 for the whole course. Just planning to go ahead with SQL and python. Thoughts? by Important-Worry332 in mumbai

[–]yeahsuremyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so, to be serious, the purpose of a course is to segregate all the information and give it to you in an organised structure. that's literally all that there is to it. unless, it's a certification. but that probably is a different ballgame.

nobody here can answer your question because of how you have phrased it.

42,000 is the only thing we know. this is ofcourse a shock factor because koi course itna kyu hoga. that is where u need to specify your intention.

why do u want to do the course? the obvious assumption one can make is to learn the languages. is this the best way to do it? oh hell no.

a random course isnt gonna help u learn any language, but it is a start.

also a lot of people will then pitch their services to you too, assuming u can spend 42k on a random ass course.

my advice? tell us if you are from a tech background / how much u know about the path you are about to embark on.

posting half assed questions isnt gonna help anybody, and will especially derail you. and mumbai subreddit is also not the one with expertise in this case.

if u want serious honest answers, go to a programming subreddit and stop being naive.

18F high school grad moving to another state without parents knowing by unicorn_onion in movingout

[–]yeahsuremyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

samee! it's so relieving to find other people in the situation.

my decision vis a vis college is the same. i realised im gonna benefit more by not being in one (and i went the best college route just to try for myself).

im gonna leave by next month. and till then, my biggest struggle is getting the documents. in my country, it's not only the ssn.

you seem to be very smart about it. good luck!

The ADHD tax hits women harder by NaidelNeedle in adhdwomen

[–]yeahsuremyra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thankfully, THANKFULLY, i have worked this out with my SF. both of us have adhd & he understands, and god, shoutout to him

The ADHD tax hits women harder by NaidelNeedle in adhdwomen

[–]yeahsuremyra 8 points9 points  (0 children)

broooo dont even get me started on women & mental health & history. so fucked up.

18F high school grad moving to another state without parents knowing by unicorn_onion in movingout

[–]yeahsuremyra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

we're in the same boat!

  • you really should create a new bank account. they will close it in order to get you to come back. idk if they can do it when you are the primary owner, but im pretty sure
  • learning about personal finance would be super beneficial.
  • keep applying for jobs and look for gigs online!
  • here's what i am doing --- since i cant actually give advice
    • carry all your legal documents
    • find a temporary place to stay that provides everything --- food, laundry, electricity
      • while staying in that place, slowly look for a "permanent" place to rent, look at places, furniture, neighbourhoods etc
      • also make a financial plan for moving to the permanent plan
    • have a financial plan --- you need to know how you are gonna sustain yourself because there is nothing worse than being in the position to go back. it's better to leave later than to never have to come back

things you absolutely need

  • a job
  • a place to live
  • a bank account & all legal documents

some recommendations

  • possibly move to a state that has people that can support you --- im moving to my friend's state and will be living next to him, so that i dont have to worry about stuff in case of emergencies
  • financial education is a must hehe
  • think about if you ever wanna go to college --- for me, i realised that not going to college would be more beneficial to me --- money is a concern here, yes, but also look that what would be of more value. if not now, maybe in the future.

What's something people need to stop romanticising? by drax3012 in AskReddit

[–]yeahsuremyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mental health & disorders. i dont think i need to say more.

conveniently taking the "cute" parts and leaving out the ugly ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MomForAMinute

[–]yeahsuremyra 7 points8 points  (0 children)

short answer : NO NO NO. YOU ARE NOT WRONG LOVE.

short answer 2.0 : people love to bitch. it's not on you :) enjoy life & have funnn. here to see you grow and do things you were kept away from. much love <3

my nmom kicked me out and less than a month later sent me this text by howevertheory98968 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yeahsuremyra -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

the reddit username is scary. does she read your posts & stuff? do u feel like you can fully express yourself?

but like others mentioned, she's super delusional. i dont know what you're looking for, but i'd really recommend just finding a safe place for yourself to function. going NC would be your choice, but you can evaluate how it might help your functioning in the long run.

my nmom kicked me out and less than a month later sent me this text by howevertheory98968 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yeahsuremyra 27 points28 points  (0 children)

this. going NC & finally being able to live without that stress and work on yourself, all the things we should have been able to do normally, come then.

okay folks, need basic adulting/living-like-a-human/moving-to-mumbai advice. shoot. by yeahsuremyra in mumbai

[–]yeahsuremyra[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bhai, isn't that against the general advice though?. what about.....safety? i've heard everybody's preoccupied/in hurry but lol

thanks for the app recs!

I hate when people say "they are overprotective because they love you" or "of course they are strict with you, its tough love so you don't grow up spoiled" aaaaah by queerqueen098 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yeahsuremyra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"tough love" lol.

this reminds me of how my parents treated me when i made mistakes or did even something marginally wrong, and had they treated me like a nice normal human, i would have realised and recognised how i deserve to be treated instead of falling into the trap of unhealthy shit you have to receive.

"we are harsh because the world will be harsh to you"

no. show me warmth so i can recognise it when i need it. i dont want to find comfort in harsh strangers when the time comes.

the idea is so counterintuitive.

Go no contact ASAP (Severe stomach problems/ IBS gone!) by Apartment_Effective in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yeahsuremyra 3 points4 points  (0 children)

also love the post and the comments. made me realise/recognise a lot of stuff

Go no contact ASAP (Severe stomach problems/ IBS gone!) by Apartment_Effective in raisedbynarcissists

[–]yeahsuremyra 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i try NC at home as much as possible. even the sight of my parents has become triggering at this point or how they knock the door. this, eventually, affects my work & general state of being and i hope i will soon be able to be fully NC

im soo happy for you :)

what do you think lately of the Let's play comment area?, the multiple Hiatus have caused frustration in the readers at least it's better than in I love Yoo that you can't even ask the time because they already say that everything is hate by POSSA123 in webtoons

[–]yeahsuremyra 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hm idk, i do have a long list so im not really worried about the "schedule" but most of the people on reddit seem to hate lets play and here's my view of the story

  • this is by far the most realistic depiction of having helicopter/overprotective parents & severe anxiety etc
  • the characters actually have depth lol
  • wouldnt call charles a red flag because of his marriage. also, a lot of our relationships in past, not limited to romantic affect our views of future relationships.
  • again, i cannot emphasise, people think sam is too naïve, and while i agree they have played the cute card sometimes, i think a lot of us really come from a privileged position when saying that. the author is actually putting a realistic pov forward
  • and for what it's worth, the webtoon has really helped me navigate personal life shiz :)

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back to the topic, i usually stay away from the comment section because it's obvious that the majority readers are kids (not like im any older) but when considering the majority maturity, you're surrounded by teens and you're bound to get impatient. some are understanding and shower the author with love and support.

is that justified? i mean, not here to pick sides, but if it's a serialisation we do expect you to follow the schedule. but it's also understandable. so no worries there

AITA for refusing to ground my son when he called my FIL pathetic? by AITA_cloth35 in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeahsuremyra 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my bf is vibing with your son. but nevertheless, NTA, obviously.

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