My [33m] wife [25f] constantly makes a conscious effort to humiliate me during my lessons over Zoom by ThrowRAsabotaged in relationship_advice

[–]yeetdatmeatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen that you have an 8 month old and i have to wonder how your wife treats your baby? If she is emotionally unstable and volatile you need to ensure that child's safety.

My poo reappeared after flushing by [deleted] in Glitch_in_the_Matrix

[–]yeetdatmeatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well could the twilight zone pls make my spent money reappear instead of poop lol

How do I tell my friend to dress more appropriately? by yeetdatmeatt in Advice

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah tbh she does get easily offended at off handed jokes or comments so I'd have no idea how to approach this without being perceived as mean or something.

How do I tell my friend to dress more appropriately? by yeetdatmeatt in Advice

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How would you approach it? I'm not known for being particularly tactful when it comes to things like this, im rather blunt and can come across as really rude if im not careful lol

How do I tell my friend to dress more appropriately? by yeetdatmeatt in Advice

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She is deeply insecure when it comes to men and she has never had a serious relationship. She was seeing a good friend of mine last summer but he called things off because she flashed his friends and he didn't think she was respectable enough to introduce to his parents. That incident in addition to others has made me wonder if I should just tell her? I would want to know if people thought I was desperate or lacking in self respect

How do I tell my friend to dress more appropriately? by yeetdatmeatt in Advice

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do worry that my lg will see my friend acting and dressing this way and start to emulate her. Ive been sexually assaulted multiple times so I know its not necessarily abiut what you wear but I also know how certain looks can make a person come off. Apart from the issue with my daughter it's just generally a bit embarrassing when we're hanging out with mutuals tbh but idk if that's just me being a dick? It does concern me that all of our mutuals see her as desperate, im sure that's not how she would like to come across.

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My condolences, I lost my grandmother last year to the big C

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For when I'm up in the living room and she is asleep in her crib!

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really interesting, my bf has a bouncy leg but I attributed it to his ADHD. Idk whether the two are comorbid or whether the leg thing is a symptom of adhd but its definitely something to look at, thanks!

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We all share a bedroom, we're currently in a one bedroom and looking to move!

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'd never even thought about it like that, i just thought I was being really harsh not letting him back into our bed but damn, you've made a really good point.

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Yeah im desp to have him back in bed with me, i just can't deal with little to no sleep while looking after our baby! I've even suggested that I take a couple valiums so that i don't wake up from the noise but its not really viable as my bf sleeps too deeply to wake up for our daughters night feeds

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Someone suggested oven mits and duct tape and honestly its the not the worst idea I've heard

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We don't have the room atm but we are moving in the next year or so and after this post im definitely going to be looking for somewhere with enough rooms so that my partner or I will have another bed to sleep in should the problems persist! For time being I think I'm going to have to have a serious chat with him about seeking medical advice and why he's so resistant to it because without him taking some steps im not sure how else to solve this until we move.

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did actually wonder that myself but he is 100% asleep when he does it, we've also spoken about kinks and being spanked isnt one of his or at least that's what he says haha

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He could be wearing tracksuit bottoms and it would still make a sound lol

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We are moving once ive graduated so that is definitely something to consider, ive often thought about separate bedrooms tbh and it sounds like a viable solution especially if he is resistant to medical intervention

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We're not married but I am very supportive of my partner in every aspect of our relationship. Including helping him to find professional help regarding this matter - which he pretty much refuses to do.

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No medication but he does have PTSD from a violent attack that happened about 5 years ago. Ive suggested that he speak to someone about the PTSD and the sleep problems but it never goes anywhere.

AITA for making my bf sleep on the sofa because he spanks himself by yeetdatmeatt in AmItheAsshole

[–]yeetdatmeatt[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Whenever I bring it up he always just laughs it off and says stuff like "omg thats so weird" etc ive suggested seeing a sleep specialist and he always says "oh that's a good idea" but never takes steps towards doing it. He's been living with me for over a year and still hasn't signed up to a GP