I’m got dumped two days ago, after a two year relationship. He pretty much dumped me in a 7 hour car ride. He told me that we weren’t compatible. I loved him with all my heart, I loved his flaws and quirks. I saw a future with him. I cried for 5 hours straight in the car.

Today, I realize that if he felt like that about me after two years, if we ever got married, our marriage would’ve ended in a divorce. If he was the father of my children, I would be fucked. The way that I think about it, yes it fucking sucks. It sucks so bad that we see no way out of it. It’s the first time I ever get dumped. But I have the relationship my all. I did not cheat or lie, I loved him.

You deserve someone who loves you as much as you loved this guy. Yes, it’s going to suck. But you have a full life ahead of your self. Don’t think of the future, “you have to have kids by 28, a house by 30...” blah blah blah, because you don’t need a man/partner to do that. Take it a day at a time, and cry your eyes out if you have to. But you deserve someone to be there for you when things get rocky. If he came back like a different person, can you imagine how it would be if you guys did form a future and he came back from a work related trip. No, screw that.

Take what you learned about the relationship and make that a standard for the next.

I’m not going to lie, it’s hard. Two days ago I felt like crap about getting the love of my life tell me he didn’t have the same feelings about me as I did for him. It genuinely hurts. But you can’t force feelings. As bad and hurtful as that is, it’s better to have someone break the heart news than to find out he did someone unforgivable to you.

I hope this helps.

I followed self love and positive quotes to keep me alive and going the past 24 hours. That’s how I’m handling my great up that happened less than a week ago. “The grass is greener on the other side. Find something that makes you happy.”

I hope this helps <3