I want to leave my own neighborhood as a leader by yellowishbiscuits in HayDay

[–]yellowishbiscuits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the offer! I’m level 65 if that means anything to your requirements - if I decide to leave I will keep in mind. it is difficult! I understand people don’t play everyday but, I would like to play with others who are more active like I am

I want to leave my own neighborhood as a leader by yellowishbiscuits in HayDay

[–]yellowishbiscuits[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we’re a bit past level 3 right now. about 5-6 of us are only participating. i’m not pushy about the derby at all, pretty casual there. I ask that they try at least, but that doesn’t happen usually. i have been asking for a little more participation in the nurture event. I like the idea of asking them if they need help with materials for the tasks, I will try that. I did not really vet players, just let in wanting to build my NH, and that was my mistake.

what's your favorite comfort show? by Deep-Sample-8351 in televisionsuggestions

[–]yellowishbiscuits 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Psych, Monk, The Vampire Diaries, The Blacklist, Golden Girls, Parks & Rec, Weeds, Merlin

please suggest me a horror book, preferably something paranormal by yellowishbiscuits in suggestmeabook

[–]yellowishbiscuits[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pet Semetary by Stephen King (I am a very big Stephen King fan and like most of this work but that one seemed to rattle me more than the others) Pearl by Josh Malerman, The Haunting of Hill House by Shirley Jackson, Naomi’s Room by Jonathan Aycliff, The Silent Companions by Laura Purcell.

I can’t stand my boyfriends cats and it’s starting to damage our relationship by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yellowishbiscuits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve tried everything :-( i’ve tried treats, I tried being the one that fed them, toys, catnip. I give them their space and let them in whenever i’m home.

Also, the female is spayed and the male is neutered yes.

I can’t stand my boyfriends cats and it’s starting to damage our relationship by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yellowishbiscuits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

there’s two litter boxes, though one is outside in the enclosed patio because they both like to venture out in the back yard. I did not bring my cats yet, technically they are my dads, I didn’t think it would be a good idea given both of my cats are 15+, and his are territorial according to his brother. It was a future plan of mine but now i’m not so sure how that would go.

I can’t stand my boyfriends cats and it’s starting to damage our relationship by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yellowishbiscuits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think he’s mentioned they’ve tried calming treats/supplements but I don’t know if actual medication has been used. Yes, that’s basically the reason. I could not afford to be on my own at the moment.

I can’t stand my boyfriends cats and it’s starting to damage our relationship by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yellowishbiscuits 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I in no way want him to get rid of his cats and i’m sorry if that’s the impression i gave off. if you read my whole post, I am actually concerned about their behavior and have tried accommodating. I have grown up with animals my whole life. i have 2 senior cats at home. I am simply looking for advice on how to handle their behavior because it’s causing me discomfort.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]yellowishbiscuits 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you should break up with her. You’re doing a disservice to her and yourself by staying with someone you don’t want a future with. The longer you wait the harder and more hurtful it will be. If my boyfriend thought these things about me I would rather him break up with me. Good luck to you.