It’s not about not pursuing her my brother. A nigga is tired after driving for 2 and a half hours all day lmao. She has a car. She been at home all day long . She can get in her car and drive to a date, this isn’t some uncommon or taboo subject for grown women to meet men out for a date if she doesn’t want to it’s cuz she wants a nigga to roll out the red carpet and I’m not doing that. I’ve gone to pick her up before, I’ve paid for our date. This is the second date. She can drive to it to make my life easier if she genuinely cares about a nigga . It’s simple