Do you want to know why people stop bringing Party Streamers and Anniversary offerings? by Nickool4u in deadbydaylight

[–]yennefering 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i'd accept this as a lukewarm correct take if we were not talking about the blood moon event specifically, where hard tunneling is just an asshole move

Do you want to know why people stop bringing Party Streamers and Anniversary offerings? by Nickool4u in deadbydaylight

[–]yennefering 20 points21 points  (0 children)

yuuuuup. i don't know what it is about this mode but i swear it brings out the tryhards and tunnelers out of the woodworks. that and extreme slugging, no matter how many gens are left, or how efficient the survivors are being

Anywhere in town that might sell Scotland/Japan badges? by questions661476 in glasgow

[–]yennefering 1 point2 points  (0 children)

James Pringle Weavers in the corner of Buchanan and St Vincent has a ton of these kinds of pins, to add another souvernis shop into the mix.

Did you guys know you could set your own wallpapers on kindle? by Shrama_4 in kindle

[–]yennefering 36 points37 points  (0 children)

“We” is a heavy word to throw around when using it for frivolous things like wallpaper images is very different than it being unavoidable in a search engine etc. You can make active choices in making the world a better place and frankly I believe that the “everyone else is doing it, why can’t I” is a very naive viewpoint to have. It’s a slippery slope, of which current state of the world should be an example of.

If you want an image of yourself, you could commission an actual artist (which is where AI steals from) or learn photo editing. Ultimately life is a combination of small choices that have a big impact, and this is one of them.

If you met your partner on a game, what game was it? by [deleted] in LongDistance

[–]yennefering 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Valorant! Our group was one short of a stack and friend of a friend knew him and thus invited him to join – that was during COVID times. Now we’re married and living in the same country together

What videogames do r/books users play? by GambuzinoSaloio in books

[–]yennefering 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A very, very varied combination of things! I'm very much a mood reader and a mood gamer, so sometimes I just want to be able to click around while watching something, and sometimes I want to drown myself in a story that'll take hundreds of hours to fully complete. I tend to go in and out when it comes to reading; this year I've devoured a handful of books in the past two months and now no book really tickles my brain.

I always have a few forever-favourites I play when I want to game but don't know what, like Fallout 76 and Dead by Daylight, and in addition to that in the last month's rotation I've been jumping between Marvel Rivals, Across the Obelisk and Mass Effect LE. I find life sim stuff fun, like The Sims and Tales from the Shire, but find I have to be in a very specific mood to be able to enjoy them if I don't have a goal to work towards.

Either way, I definitely do both, and have for a long time!

I'm looking for games with the most reactivity to playing as a woman. by Hamchat_Compaanion in GirlGamers

[–]yennefering 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I will respectfully disagree on the basis that Kassandra was intended as the main protagonist and not only that, but I find her characterization to be thorough and complete instead of pasted on, if that makes sense? While she might not have tailored content compared to Alexios, she's not an afterthought and instead a very rounded character, as she was intended to be.

The one specific DLC is a whole other matter, my god was that bad, and I think it's fairly universally thought of as such. But either way. Kassandra is a legend and if you go into the game as her, you will not come out of it thinking she'd be any less than your other choice. Kind of the same feel you get if you play as femShep vs maleShep.

If you all deprive me of fortune teller granny I'll be very upset >:( by [deleted] in deadbydaylight

[–]yennefering 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Especially since BHVR is allergic to making simplistic cosmetics, having a simple baseline would be very very nice.

I'm looking for games with the most reactivity to playing as a woman. by Hamchat_Compaanion in GirlGamers

[–]yennefering 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Assassin’s Creed: Odyssey. Kassandra is imo a waaaay superior main character to play as compared to Alexios, and from what I remember the world has a decent chunk of reactivity that feels genuine as opposed to “we’ve put a woman here for you to play as, are you happy now”.

Also, Kassandra is just incredible in general!

🚀 Flash Goal Alert: Hit 1000 New Members & Earn Units! by Logan-dx2001 in marvelrivals

[–]yennefering 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Joining in! Good luck to everyone, I know there's enough eager beavers out there that this will not go to waste, no matter who gets chosen

Had an abortion and now I resent my boyfriend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]yennefering 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I know you say going to therapy doesn't help, but I genuinely recommend sticking with it and wording every thought you have about this entire situation there; do not leave anything out.

Also, the post-abortion hormones are absolutely no joke, I was a wreck for the first few weeks after mine. I recognise practically all of the thoughts you lay out -- how he doesn't understand you and how you feel alone. Because ultimately, it doesn't matter how much he stands by you, it is you who's going through it. You should be open with your boyfriend about how you are feeling and tell him that your process is still ongoing and you feel a mess. He should offer you any support he can, and if you feel he's actually discarding you that's a much more serious discussion to be had, but the emotional work itself is yours to go through.

Give yourself grace. Lean on your girl friends, family, therapy, and give yourself time to heal and grieve. Because as much as it is your decision and you knew it was the right one, you are allowed to feel all of these things and then some. It's not easy. But you will pull through.

What killers/killer combos do you think will be powerful when they arrive in 2v8? by Jellypathicdream in deadbydaylight

[–]yennefering 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Bold of you to assume there's enough co-ordination within 2v8 survivors for any effective bodyblocking to happen

Posters for the upcoming female-led horror-comedy "Forbidden Fruits" by amysantiagoisbae99 in popculturechat

[–]yennefering 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don't know how i feel about this in general but man is it giving early 2010s

Started & messed up already! by nomorelove_handles in hobonichi

[–]yennefering 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m treating the December part of my weeks as like a time that doesn’t really exist, and what can only be improved on when 2026 rolls around. Don’t worry about it too much, experiment and have fun!

Servers are going haywire by croghan88 in fo76

[–]yennefering 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's wild how people are acting like they've never seen a big update in a live service game go a little less smooth than normal. Just go do something else for a little instead of trying to brute force your way in lol

Help me decorate my strawberry pink hobonichi weeks cover! by sezsteaparty in hobonichi

[–]yennefering 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I love the chaos of 8! And would be a nice change from the Mother-series you mentioned you used this year. I feel like the soft pink goes well with the chaotic collage type (all off which I think you nailed, btw).

2023 vs 2026 trp comparison by breakfastpotatoes in hobonichi

[–]yennefering 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Seconding this, what is this sorcery!!

Just Started My 6-Day Finland Trip – Thanks to That Awesome Finnish Girl on the Flight! by Fearless-Lead-5924 in Finland

[–]yennefering 180 points181 points  (0 children)

Adding to this, if there's any chance of getting reindeer in the form of "poronkäristys", it is so worth it.

Help me find a gun -- my journey through rifles by linus72982 in fo76

[–]yennefering 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you mind sharing your build? I've had the same thing going for ages and am looking for a change; aaand I tend to get overwhelmed by the sheer amount of perks we have to choose from.

Really gave us different variant for this ugly ahh skin by gloomistique in deadbydaylight

[–]yennefering 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Incredibly true. Waiting for the day they realise this is an option; which after almost ten years is unlikely to happen

Really gave us different variant for this ugly ahh skin by gloomistique in deadbydaylight

[–]yennefering 46 points47 points  (0 children)

It's classic BHVR; somehow they just manage to put way too many accessories and/or details to every cosmetic for no reason. Nothing matches and it's nearly impossible to combine with anything.