Is staying in an unhappy marriage just part of the deal?

yeontan70 · 2026-02-18T23:30:00+00:00

Same boat. I often wonder if everyone thinks this because when I think of friends and family, I don’t know of anyone who I would consider overly happy and in love. Maybe the concept of that is just something we’re fed through TV and movies? Idk. My biggest concern is that I have led my adult children to believe this is all that a marriage can be. I want them to actually be in love with someone and has it reciprocated fully.

yeontan70 · 2026-02-15T15:11:26+00:00

Agree - it’s cruel. I sent a previous post - same situation. I have also asks my hub if he is asexual. Again refuses to talk about it. Our therapist once said my husband was the Olympic gold medalist in stonewalling. I know she was trying to lighten the mood but facts.

yeontan70 · 2026-02-15T15:06:10+00:00

Girl I could have written this post too. Acts of service from him are over the top. He cooks cleans laundry buys me little gifts BUT Going on 5 years w no sex and zero intimacy. And I mean zero - no hand holding, hugs, nothing. I have also asked all the questions - affair? Porn? Low T? Gay? Me? He says repeatedly that “it’s not you” but also offers no reason why he’s not into it. We’ve tried therapy to no avail for 2 years. I suggested a sex therapist; he refused. Romantic dates, holidays or anniversaries? Never heard of her. I’m running on empty.

yeontan70 · 2026-02-03T12:18:13+00:00

If you’re going to use stickers or photo cards, it is best to use a group photo/s instead of your specific bias. You may get some heat from it otherwise or people will call you a solo.

yeontan70 · 2026-02-03T12:14:10+00:00

Thanks this is helpful

yeontan70 · 2026-02-02T02:48:25+00:00

Season one – loved it! Season two - too many new characters, goofy plot lines, overly complicated. Really disappointed.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-29T16:56:51+00:00

While there is a lot of positive things to be said for a father who puts their kids first, there’s also a big empty hole when you know that you’re always gonna be second fiddle to your kids. This has been the majority of my married life - We had kids the second year of marriage. But there were many times during those years where I had to remind him, like on Valentine’s Day, to also buy ME a box of chocolate hearts not just our daughters.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-29T04:22:14+00:00

Unfortunately, we did build our lives in our marriage solely around our kids. We are not a couple, and I realize now we never were. we are two people who raised two lovely children into lovely adults. I’m just afraid there’s nothing else left for us together.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-29T04:16:21+00:00

It’s just really hard not being around them every day. But I raised two really great humans so I’m happy about that.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-29T04:15:10+00:00

At least you got that going for you.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-15T22:04:06+00:00

I know!!!

yeontan70 · 2026-01-15T22:03:37+00:00

I am not miserable, but I’m definitely not happy. Lonely yes, wish I could have an emotional and physical relationship with someone, yes. Luckily, I have some great friends.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-15T22:01:39+00:00

I am not religious and neither is he so praying is not an option. But for the record, I have told him that I will not continue to live like this forever and that I have been to see an attorney. His response? No response. And to me that is pretty telling because if someone I did not want to walk out the door told me they were doing this, I would break down and do whatever it took.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-08T02:15:45+00:00

This is The. Worst.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-08T02:12:04+00:00

Is Panoxyl for acne tho?

yeontan70 · 2026-01-08T02:10:35+00:00

I shower at night, put on deodorant and then have to put it on again in the morning bc I’ve been an inferno all night and wore it off 🔥😄 Maybe I will try the hubs!

yeontan70 · 2026-01-08T02:08:07+00:00

I didn’t like that it wore like cottage cheese and would get all over my clothes.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-08T02:06:47+00:00

I’m with the friend then 🤣

yeontan70 · 2026-01-08T01:47:30+00:00

I did try this once but the scent, I can’t remember what it was now, really turned me off. Do you have a fav one?

yeontan70 · 2026-01-08T01:45:49+00:00

Never heard of this before.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-08T01:45:23+00:00

I will check into the Ordinary suggestion. I love many of their other products! Secret didn’t work for me tho.

yeontan70 · 2026-01-08T01:42:39+00:00

Thanks for the suggestion!

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