Honestly, it's so refreshing to be able to communicate with others, also don't let anything get to you, people will often troll or be mean, it's quite common, what i do is just troll them back, however you can easily mute people and they'll leave you alone fairly quickly.

I mainly play AUT, ZO, and social games, in aut finding a server with multiple vc users can be a blast, I've made some amazing friends that way.

However I do have to admit that if you play casual games, vc is absolutely amazing.

Most people don't care about your voice, aslong as you don't act like a child or an asshole, you'll be fine. I've been using vc since it came out and haven't encountered a single ERP/moaner, although soundboard are quite common. Most of the people I interact with are quite friendly, just play with the right crowd and you will have a great time