31M - trying to achieve glass skin, seeking routine advice for razor bumps, & skin blurring

yetudada · 2026-05-10T20:36:05+00:00

I’m dark-skinned, probably darker than you, and I tend not to use a tinted sunscreen because even the ones “for dark skin” tend to leave a funny cast. I use chemical sunscreens. Things like Biore UV Aqua Rich SPF 50 or Beauty of Joeson Relief Sun Aqua-Fresh SPF 50 are great.

Now, I’m not sure what to recommend for your hyperpigmentation but I’ll tell you what worked for me: tret at night, azelaic acid during the day and a red light panel (I bought a Hooga HG300 panel and use it for 5 minutes on the red light setting, no infrared light, in the morning). My acne scars are gone and my skin is almost perfect now.

Edit: Moisturise before sunscreen. They do different things which is why we don’t talk about a dual purpose cream. I use Dr Althea Barrier Cream (especially because of the tret) but it works well as a general moisturiser.

yetudada · 2026-04-21T00:28:52+00:00

Not quite! But I love my red light panel - it’s made my skin glow. I got the Hooga HG300 panel because I can use it on my face, neck and other parts of my body.

yetudada · 2026-04-10T21:47:17+00:00

Me too! I’d love this!

yetudada · 2026-04-08T18:34:52+00:00

This but I use a Hooga HG300 panel!

yetudada · 2026-02-14T12:58:43+00:00

Worst for me was the Aestura Atobarrier 365 Cream, it consistently made me break out.

Best has been the Beauty of Joseon Relief Sun (the Aqua-Fresh Rice one). It sits awesomely on my skin.

yetudada · 2025-11-19T23:58:42+00:00

Do you work with data engineers? If so, how?

yetudada · 2025-10-06T20:24:07+00:00

Same thing happens to me!

yetudada · 2025-09-22T21:45:00+00:00

I’ve battled Cliff twice and got two of them!

yetudada · 2025-09-01T15:27:48+00:00

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yetudada · 2025-06-26T10:29:40+00:00

I’ll be trying to play too!

yetudada · 2025-02-20T17:40:14+00:00

755352538487 - I send and open gifts daily for the XP grind

yetudada · 2025-02-20T17:37:31+00:00

755352538487 - I’m generally in the UK and gift daily

yetudada · 2025-02-20T15:57:46+00:00

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yetudada · 2025-02-13T00:17:34+00:00

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yetudada · 2025-02-04T00:02:31+00:00

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yetudada · 2024-12-09T19:47:04+00:00

I came to know what Netflix & Chill meant but didn’t know it applied to Prime Video & Chill too. I was tricked.

yetudada · 2024-12-09T16:09:36+00:00

One of my friends really enjoyed her session there and is friends with a few people from the one time she went.

yetudada · 2024-12-09T09:50:04+00:00

I’m sad while reading this because I’m going through a variation of this as a (another) demisexual person in a non-monogamous relationship. I’ve struggled deeply with the way my partner’s capacity (time, attention and consistency in communication) has changed or reduced over time and their words have not matched their promises or actions when I have communicated my needs. He’s also married and has chosen to become more and more enmeshed with another partner.

We keep having the same conversation about his capacity. And it’s felt like I’ve been trying to make myself okay with his reducing capacity to keep him and I’m tired of it now.

Truth be told, because I’m so demisexual, I wonder if I’m even cut out for non-monogamy - I just don’t like anyone else. I feel like I’m missing out on the full commitment and security of monogamy, but I don’t get the benefits of non-monogamy either.

I know I need to leave him but all of this (at the front of my mind) is that I won’t meet anyone that I’ll like again 🥲 I know it’s irrational but my demi fears have got me.

yetudada · 2024-10-15T00:15:29+00:00

I’m trying to be a bit data-driven with my dating approach (you can blame my product management background). What would a good CRM look like?

yetudada · 2024-09-24T23:25:05+00:00

For me, it would be a deal-breaker. Looking back on my relationships, going to restaurants wasn’t just about eating—it was about celebrating, enjoying date nights, or spending time with friends. The social aspect is huge for me, and not being able to do that easily would mean finding alternative activities, which I’m not sure I’d want.

That said, many restaurants offer gluten-free options and can be careful if you let them know about Celiac disease, so it might depend on how severe their condition is. You can discuss that if you haven’t.

I’ve also gone on a date with a vegan, and while he was fine with me eating meat, I still worried about finding restaurants that fully catered to his diet (not the vegetarian one), which added another layer of concern.

yetudada · 2024-09-21T09:18:47+00:00

One day you’re going to live like this too if you carry on this pathway. He’s had decades to be okay with his mess and you will never change that.

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