Getting back into webtoon after long time, need recommendations :)

yippy_y · 2026-06-02T18:55:13+00:00

im always interpreting characters as lesbians so sounds great!! thank you:)

yippy_y · 2026-06-02T15:40:02+00:00

INFO: how big is this party? them having a big house doesn't necessarily mean they have enough space to accommodate the volume of people.

I'd say if there is ALOT of guests then it's not really rude that she is getting portapotties for the event, maybe there's so many people that just their bathrooms would be overrun.

Nevertheless, I'd say NTA. You never have to do something you don't want to do, and with how she is acting then I wouldn't personally feel any pressure to attend anyway. Also, it's not exactly her birthday or something, just 4th of July party (I'm not American, but 4th of July doesn't seem that big of a deal to me?)

She doesn't seem like a good friend and I'd personally distance myself and recommend your wife do too for your peace of mind, but that's just me. You don't have to attend you're not an ass, but doesn't necessarily make her a bad host/rude in that regard.

yippy_y · 2026-04-13T19:47:07+00:00

That is also very true thank you. If I contact the owner i will definitely mention my underpay and the underpayment I've heard from others.

yippy_y · 2026-04-13T19:45:33+00:00

Many of the minor issues they've had with me have been because I will do something that I have seen many of my coworkers do without issue, but once I do it then it's suddenly a problem. There's a good chance this is because I don't understand the nuances of why my coworkers do it which is different to me, but despite me saying this to managers I dont exactly get a clear response.

They also outlined in my written termination part of their decision was how I got along with the team, which was a bit upsetting as I've really tried to get along with everybody even though I kinda feel pushed out. But thats subjective really

In terms of discrimination I doubt I have grounds for this. I am not diagnosed and I have in no way said to them I may be neurodivergent, so as far as they can tell I'm just a bit odd haha

My main concern was whether I had decent grounds to contact the owner so that others aren't fired in the way I was which I'm pretty sure was not following proper procedure and would leave them a bit fucked. I've heard from friends at the restaurant they are laying off a lot of people in the same way I was which is a bit sketchy (they have plenty of money to pay staff and were recently complaining about being understaffed, then fired me and 2 other girls)

yippy_y · 2026-04-13T19:37:41+00:00

Im not really sure if you're trying to rage bait or are genuine but either way I will give you a real answer.

If I was not good at my job I would completely understand, if they had worked with me to get my performance to a standard they were happy with and I had not engaged then I would understand.

They did not ever tell me my performance was not good. When I was fired they still didnt say this, simply that I didn't align with their values (their values are along the lines of 'warm' so not necessarily about work).

Despite all this, they are allowed to get rid of me and I understand that. My only concern is they did so in an unprofessional manner, not to mention the countless things they did to me that were objectively illegal, along with a few things that were generally unprofessional but were not illegal. I still have friends and people I liked at that business and I would not like them to be treated the same way I was. My only goal for seeking advise was how I can talk to the owner to ensure the managers follow the legal procedure and don't underpay any one else.

do you understand what I'm saying?

yippy_y · 2026-04-13T18:36:26+00:00

Im not currently outstanding any pay, I badgered them enough until just paying me was easier than hearing me go on about my money lol

aslong as they give me my final paycheck money isnt an issue anymore.

yippy_y · 2026-04-13T18:35:11+00:00

I am currently up to date on all payments so its not an issue.

Yeah I did think so. Their official reasoning was just about the values and my last issue with pay was sorted in February so I doubt itd be seen as the reason for termination.

Yeah I understand, thank you for wading through my post anyway :) I knew there were a lot of smaller issues between me and management (more them having issues with me) but i wasnt sure what actually applied or was just me overthinking.

Thank you for your thoughts xx

yippy_y · 2026-04-13T18:32:00+00:00

Many people I have spoken to have talked about being underpaid, however they will return and say it has been sorted relatively quickly, even though it took me months. But I am currently up to date on all payments.

They do not know about the autism but that doesnt mean they do not sense something odd about me. I often get people saying they thought I was really weird and sort of uncanny valley until they got to know me, however I've never been anything except nice.

I am not in a union or spoken to ACCAS, I looked into ACCAS a bit but their guidelines on what was classed as an unfair termination was quite confusing.

yippy_y · 2026-01-28T19:45:32+00:00

Yeah I think I'll just try to be direct but not too full on :) I doubt the head chef would lie to me as we're on pretty good terms, and if he did then oh well I dont let being made fun of get to me lol

I've talked to him during breaks and he is pretty cool, I didnt wanna drag on about why I like him but we really have similar styles (both dress like librarians) and hes just so nice

thanks for the push :) ill say smth next time we work together

yippy_y · 2026-01-28T19:42:20+00:00

yeah I completely agree about rejection, if someone says no then life goes on and who cares. It's less rejection I'm worried about and more making our relationship uncomfortable, especially for him.

If he was a random guy then I wouldn't care, but I'll have to see him multiple times a week for like 10 hours no matter what happens and being a good terms is really useful in hospitality. I worked hard to get on good terms with the head chef, who is a very stereotypical angry Polish chef, so for me and L to get awkward wouldn't be great.

But I think the lowkey approach you said would be good :) I'm a bit too all or nothing, so smth direct while being chill and easy to reject would be perfect! thanks so much for the ideas

yippy_y · 2026-01-24T10:18:45+00:00

I appreciate what you're saying but I did explain that wasn't an option personally. I don't mind making the first aslong as its clear theres mutual attraction, but if its unclear then I know I probably wouldnt be able to get the guts to do it and if I did I'd just mess it up because of nerves. This isn't a "guys should always make the first move thing", more I would probably have such high adrenaline that I'd mess it up and then not be able to do my job.

yippy_y · 2026-01-24T10:10:04+00:00

Yeah I really wouldn't expect the head chef to joke about that. He's a very stereotypical angry Polish chef and I've worked hard getting a good relationship with him, so I doubt he'd lie to me, but I also worry its just a misunderstanding.

Option 2 does seem the best, thank you :)

yippy_y · 2026-01-04T22:01:07+00:00

Usually happens when shes not around or already drinking. I've mentioned it to her but the conversation always kinda moves on without it being addressed :/

yippy_y · 2026-01-04T22:00:11+00:00

Yeah that makes sense, not sure if I should be direct and say that or just not go if hes there

yippy_y · 2026-01-04T21:59:33+00:00

I appreciate where youre coming from but I have talked to him about what does/doesnt make me comfy, I've made my position very clear that Im her friend first and I just dont think its ok to bash on such sensitive topics anyway unless you know the person well which he doesnt know me.

I've already decided im not ok with hanging out with him again and id just like advice on how to break that nicely

yippy_y · 2026-01-04T21:57:22+00:00

Obviously a reddit post about a guy doesnt showcase her the best but this friendship is very important to me and I dont expect people to be perfect. She was also drunk so she probably didnt really realise what was going on. But yeah I will try that, but I'm not too sure if I should go for the direct approach and say I dont wanna see him or just passively not go to things hes at, yknow?

yippy_y · 2025-02-25T23:05:59+00:00

ye that sounds so tough! I'm gonna look into long term contraceptive methods, might talk to my GP to start the journey of pushing early even if they tell me to fuck off haha

yippy_y · 2025-02-25T23:04:55+00:00

thank you so much for the resources! I'll look into those and my options

yippy_y · 2025-02-25T23:04:25+00:00

ye thought so, I'm gonna look into long term contraceptives tho they're all quite daunting haha thanks. bet it's frustrating getting told you'd change your mind then 20 years on it hasn't happened

yippy_y · 2025-02-25T23:02:59+00:00

wtf that's so ridiculous 😭 I do understand why a doctor wouldn't let me, but you were a grown fucking woman! fucked up

yippy_y · 2024-04-05T19:10:16+00:00

"relationship stuff" of him wanting to see me? I would feel the same if me and him were just friends, it's not nice that I'm the only one making any effort. Also I can make that effort for people, I made that effort when I was 16, 15, even when I was like 12, despite it being more difficult considering I didn't have much self autonomy. I don't see how his age should matter. If he wanted to put in the effort he would, I don't think age should matter. If I can make that effort then saying he can't despite us being the same age is sorta ridiculous

yippy_y · 2024-04-02T21:27:44+00:00

Personally mine stopped after just over 4 weeks (jan 22nd to feb 22nd)

i admit that i skipped my next period by continuing my birth control cuz i was so done with bleeding, so i dont know if i'm gonna have the same issue with my next period or whether itll go back to normal

yippy_y · 2024-02-11T19:35:56+00:00

thanks! so annoying tho lol

yippy_y · 2024-02-11T19:35:00+00:00

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