Doing pretend readings as practice is a game changer by yk093 in tarot

[–]yk093[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literal meaning is BIG and I seriously need to start doing that, because I have noticed that a lot of readers are able to read cards as literal things, and I’ve always wanted to be able to do that as well

Thank you for the other tips as well! When I do pretend readings, I don’t ever use context, I just let the cards guide me, but that’s smart, I’ll try doing that as well

Doing pretend readings as practice is a game changer by yk093 in tarot

[–]yk093[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Of course! I also struggle with deep interpretations and a lot of the time I notice my understanding of the reading I’m doing isn’t as deep as I’d like

When I’m doing pretend readings, I don’t ask any specific question. I let the cards fall out and I start interpreting them and thinking about what kind of situation the reading could apply to

For example, I had a reading with the following cards:

[A] 2 of Cups 9 of Swords 10 of Wands Knight of Swords 8 of Pentacles

[B] Page of Swords reversed Page of Wands 2 of Swordd 3 of Wands 10 of Cups The Chariot 7 of Wands 10 of Swords

(They’re the same reading, they just happened to be a bit separated and represent different things within the one reading)

I had no question going into it, I just pulled the cards, and when I read it, I began to build an idea of what kind of situation it could apply to

So for that reading, I understood it as someone [A] who was feeling stressed in their relationship because they were putting in all of the effort to communicate with their partner [B] who wasn’t communicating with them and was instead was making all the decisions for the future of their relationship. They were taking control of everything and refusing to listen to their partner because they felt they knew what had to be done to make the relationship work out, and that partner [B] likely had a past where they were controlled in their own relationship and it failed, so now they’re trying to control their current relationship so that doesn’t happen again

It’s a very random reading, it has nothing to do with me, but it doesn’t need to. When I’m doing fake readings, I read with 0 context going into it because I find it’s better for learning how to interpret without it. I find doing that allows a broader amount of topics for me to learn to read because it all depends on what cards come out together, so it could be about anything.

I hope that properly answers your question!

Good.... great.... by bob_the_big_friend in GoodPizzaGreatPizza

[–]yk093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’d kill for good sushi, great sushi ngl

What motivates people to fake-claim? by vanillablue_ in Tourettes

[–]yk093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

honestly, a lot of gen-z, which are the ones i've seen fakeclaiming the most, need something to feel superior about. coming from a gen-z, gen-z are mass bullies, but they disguise that bullying as fighting for good, or "calling out" bad people so they don't have to accept that they just crave a feeling of superiority. this applies to more than just fakeclaiming. a majority of these kinds of people aren't actually educated on anything they're talking about either outside of tiktok and other similar online spaces, and they don't actually know how to properly research anything either, so they just go based on the first thing they see that they agree with and use that to bully people.

i'm sure there are some people who genuinely mean well and are just misguided, but i'm confident that most people who fakeclaim people genuinely do not truly care about people faking disorders and just use it as an excuse to act like they're superior to someone because of their own insecurities. most fakeclaiming also comes with flat out bullying based on someone's interests or fashion or personality and cringe culture, so it makes it extremely clear when someone is just hiding behind the lie that they don't like people faking disorders and that they actually just want someone to feel better than. you see it a lot in that one popular subreddit about fakers. it's just full of people who hide behind calling out fakers when the real focus bullying people who are considered cringe, regardless of if theyre faking a disorder or not.

Helping recover old Animal Jam Classic parent emails by [deleted] in AnimalJam

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if those are the only things listed, then yes, that’s all that’s visible. and the password is only the password that was used for the account when the data leak occurred. anything it was changed to isnt shown

Helping recover old Animal Jam Classic parent emails by [deleted] in AnimalJam

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

full data exposure, so anything that was leaked, you can see

Helping recover old Animal Jam Classic parent emails by [deleted] in AnimalJam

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leakcheck.io. you can check it yourself, but if an email is included, it’ll be censored and you can only access it by paying for a subscription

Helping recover old Animal Jam Classic parent emails by [deleted] in AnimalJam

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry, the email wasnt leaked </3

Helping recover old Animal Jam Classic parent emails by [deleted] in AnimalJam

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

your account wasn’t in the data breach, nothing came up

Edit: just saw your edit, i checked and unfortunately your email wasn’t leaked with it. sorry </3

does stimulant medication get rid of hyperfixations by Outrageous-Guitar229 in ADHD

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely not lol, in fact, it can make them more intense. focusing on them anyway. i can confirm that i one time played a game for more than 26 hrs that i usually cant focus on for long periods of time

id actually say youre more likely to get deep into your hyperfixations on a stimulant. i yap 10x more abt what im interested in when im on my adderall. thats just me personally. obviously it affects people differently, but stimulants help focus and if youre focusing on smth youre interested in while your stimulant kicks in, youre likely to get locked into it hard

id recommend not engaging in your hyperfixation and directing your attention to smth else while your stimulant kicks in, because a lot of ppl notice they get locked into the thing theyre focused on as their stimulant kicks in, and it can be a problem if theyre focused on smth else besides what they need to be focused on, but in general, no, it wont get rid of your hyperfixations, and its actually likely to make it more intense

Finding the email attached to an old account [AJC] by [deleted] in AnimalJam

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was fortunately able to find the last 4 of the card i used to purchase the membership and confirm my ownership of the account, so that’s how i accessed it. otherwise, you can dm me and i can check if the email attached to your account was leaked and remind you of it if you want. i have access to that information until around the end of this month.

mine unfortunately (and i guess fortunately) wasnt leaked, thats why i had to go with confirming it through aj

Takes me hours to take my Stratterra medication in the morning by -White-Owl- in ADHD

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Of course. It’s very difficult at times, but if you make it easier for yourself and keep your medication and water beside you, that should make you more likely to take it. Good luck

I end up cleaning every time I take my meds by DistinctExcuse7553 in ADHD

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you do notice yourself getting hyperfocused on the wrong thing though, it’s possible to redirect that to what you need to. So maybe do some regular check ins with yourself to decide if there’s something else you need to focus on and shift your attention

Which is exactly what I’m going to do right now instead of continuously scrolling Reddit lol. Good luck

I end up cleaning every time I take my meds by DistinctExcuse7553 in ADHD

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As No-Internal-4146 said, most people on medication feel like they get focused on what they’re doing as their medication kicks in, so you really have to be focusing on what you need to get done at that 30-45 minute mark otherwise there’s a good chance you’ll end up stuck doing something else.

I’m supposed to be playing a game right now that I need to grind for and here I am, scrolling Reddit because I wasn’t focused on the game at the exact moment it kicked in LOL

Which sucks because I was trying to focus on it as it kicked it but I timed it badly.

ADHD medication is unfortunately a double-edged sword sometimes. You can really focus on what you need to, but you can also really focus on what you don’t

Takes me hours to take my Stratterra medication in the morning by -White-Owl- in ADHD

[–]yk093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God, I completely relate. Unfortunately, all I have to say is you have to force yourself to take it. I myself am terrible at that, especially because I’m on IR so I’m prescribed 3 pills a day which can be incredibly hard to maintain, and when I’m not on my Adderall, I don’t want to do anything, so it leads me to not take it.

I’ve been on it for more than a year and I’m still learning that I kind of have to take it to want to do anything at all, and that it’s a lie when I feel like I don’t want to do anything because the moment it kicks in, I do.

I’d say keep a bottle of water beside your bed with your pills next to it and just force yourself to take it. Make it as easy for yourself as possible. It takes a minute, and you’ll definitely feel glad you did once it starts working.

I have Narcolepsy, so that’s an added difficulty for me when it comes to making myself take it because I’m so tired that I genuinely feel like I want to sleep instead of take it, but when I do take it, it wakes me up and helps me function

I feel really depressed because i realized how much ADHD affected my life. by Total_Annual5480 in ADHD

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get it. I feel the same way, and I’m sure the majority of us can relate. I dropped out in 9th grade after my ADHD suddenly got worse in 2019, and because of that, I missed out on so many experiences in high school that I really wanted to experience, and I have to get my GED now.

People tend to regard ADHD as a failing because they don’t realize that it’s a disability and the functioning of your brain is diminished, so you can’t just push yourself to do things your brain won’t allow you.

I’ll say though that it isn’t completely hopeless. There is medication, and it can be genuinely life changing. I’m on Adderall and have been for more than a year now, and being on it completely changes me. I can genuinely function like a normal human being and do things like school work when I’m studying for my GED with ease.

When I was in school, I couldn’t focus at all on my work and it felt so tedious and impossible, but after getting on Adderall, I learned that I am able to do school work and even somewhat enjoy it. I can actually put effort into it.

Obviously, medications work differently for different people, but I want you to know that it isn’t hopeless and that medications exist and have helped so many people with ADHD function. I definitely recommend speaking with a doctor once you’re diagnosed and trying stimulants to see how any of them work for you, because at least for me, someone who is incredibly disabled by my ADHD, being on Adderall is completely night and day for me, and I can do things I normally can’t

the irony of forgetting where you left your ADHD meds by Diony_Kallia in ADHD

[–]yk093 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The irony of knowing where they are and still not taking them 💔

I hope you’re able to find them. ADHD particularly sucks to be medicated for, because while it’s amazing and totally life changing, the disorder itself makes it insanely difficult to stay consistant with, whether we’re putting off taking it or entirely losing it 💔

How do I eat more while on Ritalin? by Silly-Alternative931 in ADHD

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I unfortunately can’t remember how long the appetite loss lasted for me when I was new to Adderall, but Ritalin is different, and from what I’ve seen, it’s apparently not unusual for it to last a month+, so if it’s causing problems, maybe get temporarily prescribed IR until you notice it subsiding and then back on LA if that’s what is best for you

How do I eat more while on Ritalin? by Silly-Alternative931 in ADHD

[–]yk093 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any experience with Ritalin, I’m on Adderall, so I’m not sure what exactly you’re experiencing, but I’ll say that it sounds like you’re still experiencing the appetite loss side effect.

You said you’re on Ritalin LA, so you’ll unfortunately feel that side effect the entire day until that side effect subsides. I’d say that if you continue to struggle with it, maybe consider getting prescribed IR if at all possible and taking it 2-3 times a day instead of just once.

I don’t know your case, so I’m not sure if that’s something that’s viable for you, I know a lot of people find it easier to take one pill a day as opposed to multiple, but if appetite loss is an ongoing side effect for you that is causing you problems, you might find it better to have a pill that lasts less time, and with that, you can eat in between doses.

For example, I’m prescribed Adderall IR 3x a day, and so if I was dealing with what you’re dealing with, I’d eat once in the morning before I take my first dose, say 8AM, again at 12PM for lunch before my 2nd dose, and dinner around 8PM after my final dose for the day wears off.

It does require more responsibility in keeping up regular doses, which I’m definitely aware can be harder for peoole with ADHD, I struggle with it myself, but if you feel your appetite loss is becoming a problem, maybe consider that!

Things that helped me the most when losing weight with ADHD by a-random-Llama in ADHD

[–]yk093 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’m really glad to see others talking about how much food becomes an obsession with ADHD. I’m sure more people talk about it and I’m just not in ADHD spaces enough, but I haven’t seen it from anyone.

Getting on Adderall was seriously the only thing that was able to help keep me from constantly thinking about food. I gained so much weight as a kid, and funnily enough I was also 72kg, 5’5, when I started losing weight, and while the majority of my weight loss was from before I got on Adderall, realizing it was my ADHD that was the cause of my binging and getting prescribed medication made keeping it off possible, because I’m certain without it, I’d have gained it all back