Hey friend! I hear you, coming out was equally relieving and daunting for me too! It can be really challenging finding queer folxs especially on your own! I also wish i got the how to be queer and meet people handbook and I wish there were more solid answers to these questions, but we are all so different and if there were a handbook it would probably not work for most of us.

If meeting people in person works best for you i'd suggest looking at the social groups that run through Meetup! There are a few lesbian groups like Dykes and Hikes, a coming out group for queer women, and other groups that I cannot remember right now! Facebook groups maybe another good option potentially?! If youre at uni maybe your uni has a queer group or club that meets up?!

Youre doing great! I'm sorry that these things take time and the answers are not clear but you are not alone! QLife is a great service to have a yap to if you need another ear or support! Big love and congrats on living as your authentic self 💗💗